16 and no one?!


Question: 16 and no one!?
as a younger child i was neglected by both parents and later abused (emotionaly by most of my family) i live with grandma now and most of the time she's nice vbut sometimes she gets so mad for no reason
my best and only friend just moved out of state!.
im about to be a Jr, and honestly i dont think im functional to go into the 'real' world
im quite depressed and CANT talk to anyone about it
no one cares about me and i dont care about my self anymore
(this has nothing to do with age ive been like this since i can remember (5 or so))

does life get better!? am i done for!? i dont want to die, but i dont want to live either!.!.!. can life change for the better!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I'm so sorry that you feel that no one cares about you!. I have felt that way, myself, and I have to tell you this one thing first: "Feelings aren't Facts!." try to remember that, and it will be helpful through out your life!.
Secondly, you said you can't talk about being depressed, etc!., but you HAVE, right here!. :o) Yes, you have!. Now the next step is finding someone that you can trust, like a teacher, Dr!., or clergy, and tell them how you feel!. When I was your age, I was just beginning to have those feelings that accompany depression, and I had NO idea what ot do about it!. I had never heard of antidepressants, and my family had no idea, either!.
When you begin to be pro-active (taking action to change the circumstance and your mental point-of-reference), yo uwill be surprized at how quickly it starts to get better for you!.
It may be a long road, btu you are on your way to seeing how GOOD it can be!. By seeking out help, you will give yourself the best opportunity at that "real" world, that you can have!.
Blessings
abbieWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm kinda at the same stage as you!. I tried to commit suicide a couple times, it didn't work (obviously) and now I don't know whether to try again or keep struggling at life!. Today I feel that life could get better, and I'm in an alright mood!. I don't think I have it quite as bad as you, but I am 16 and depressed so you can email me if you want and we can talk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just remember that God will always love you
i think your grandma loves you, but you know how old people are, just tired maybe, maybe something is on her mind!? i think you should talk to your friend about being depressed!. talk to your grandmother too, ask her about seeing a doctor, my sister used to be depressed a lot, and she went to the doctor, took medicine and had counseling!. it helped tremendously!. life is hard, but remember you can get through anything, you have to believe in yourself!.

i hope i helped
i think you will be fine :)


~shaniquaWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yes life gets better and no you



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