I feel like I have lost all my best friends, what should I do ?!


Question: I feel like I have lost all my best friends, what should I do !?
loosing all my friends has made me really depressed!. A lot of them were teachers and I'm not sure if I can get in contact with them!. Today I saw my art teacher and I had an urge to speak to her but I just couldn't do it!. I no longer trust happiness!. I always feel like it will let me down so when things would have normally made me happy I feel afraid that I am going to be unhappy again and because of this I cannot get better of my depression!. What can I do about this!. I'm wasting all my opportunities and being like this has ruined my life!. I really hate myself for ending up this way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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pkm i can tell you i have felt the very same
it seems that just when you have literally picked yourself up from the bottom of a deep dark hole,
you are kicked back in again by soemting else
its difficult pkm, im finding it difficult to get out of the one im in right now myself
but
you have to just deep trying, that is all you have got,
to do,
you are alive, and bad things will happen

you really need to consider medication for your depression if you havnt, it doesnt even have to be permanent just a temporary helping hand to lift you out of the hole
we all need that helping hand pkm, we all do, and sometimes we cant go on or get backup without it

peopel generally come and go out of our lives, they are not meant to last, occasionally you have the1 or 2 true friends that will be there longer, maybe forever
but evyerone else comes and goes
you cant allow that fact of freindship, acquaintances and life to stop you making any more friends or allowing yourself to be open to such

we are guilty of wasting opportunities, you cant hate yourself for being a flawed human who doesnt always see an opportunity at the time
with hindsight we see it and think why did i let that one go, but you didnt usually see it at the time
and you cant be blamed for the same human blindness on that issue that we all have

you know you can message me anytime to talk , thats one of the points in message systems, especially between contacts
;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Make friends with students, not teachers!. Although it's okay to be on good terms with teachers, you shouldn't try to build a long term relationship because they will have to teach anotehr group of students the next year!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can do something else to get your mind off of that that away you dint think about it so you ain't depressed!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dear Friend

If I were you,I would try to figure out why these happened!.
Besides,it's never late to make new friends!.You know what!?Friends never last forever!.You can rarely find faithful friends and if you are one,your feelings will get hurt easily when you see the others treat against your will!.I had lots of friends who always were around me when they could,but now they're all gone and I got new ones and I'm satisfied!.I AM extremely faithful and well,I leave the ones who are not worth my relationship!.You can count on me anytime,anywhere,anyplace!.

Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, don't hate yourself!. It'll do you no good!.

Second, think of why you lost your bestfriends!.
Are you moving some place else!? Did you do something that made them get mad at you!? Or is it that you guys just need space far from each other!?

Whatever reason or situation you're in, losing your close friends is tough!. But don't let yourself feel real bad because of it!. Things happen for a reason!. You'll meet new people and made more bestfriends in the future!.

I was once in a situation where I felt like I'm losing all my friends because I had to move to another country!. It made me depressed for quite a while but then I met these new people who I now call good friends!. I'm still keeping in touch with my old friends and at the same time I'm enjoying the moments I have with my new good friends!.

Change happens to everyone!. And I guess we just have to enjoy what we have right now!. And if things change let's go with the flow and enjoy the new things!.

I know what you mean about distrusting happiness!. It's like being happy today but you're unsure of whether it'll last until later, tomorrow, etc!. But we can't live in the future, only the present!. If you're happy now, enjoy it!. Because if you don't when will you be happy!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

I empathize with you very much!. The fact is you are very intelligent person!. You understand the futility of this material world!. There is no permanent happiness in this world!. It always ends at least in death!. So one has to lean the practice of detachment and not to try to enjoy so much relationships but to try to serve them!. In this way the pain of separation will be more on a normal level!. Main thing is that Krishna (God ) is our best friend!. One should lean how to develop this eternall real loving relationship!. In this way one never has to leave that!. And it is most satisfying!. The process of reawakening our eternal loving relationship with our eterna Supreme Friend Krishna (also known as Jehovah, Vishnu, Allah, Rama, etc!.) is called Bhakti Yoga!. This means to reconnect in Love and Devotion to the The Absolute Truth Krishna!.
Really it is the only fully satisfying relationship!.
Krishna is AWESOME!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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