Help? Living with Borderline Personality Disorder and possibly OCD?!


Question: Help!? Living with Borderline Personality Disorder and possibly OCD!?
In the summer before 5th grade, my parents got a divorce!. It impacted me greatly!. I gained wieght, my personal hygene went out the window and my grades suffered!. Because of this, I was bullied by my peers!. By 8th grade, I lost my confidence, self-esteem, and my sense of self!. Even though I worked on my grades, lost weight, and started taking better care of myself, it had just become custom for my peers to bully me!.
Then, for the first five months of 9th grade, I socially isolated myself because I was afraid of getting bullied again!. But this one girl, who was persistant in trying to get me to open up, finally convinced me to start talking to people and be funny!. And I did!. Then everything seemed OK, but then I started crushing on this guy, and I got a little obsessive!. I think he could tell, so he went around telling all of his freinds that I was stalking him!. Then, for the next few months, I was harrassed for 'stalking' him!. His best friend cursed me out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Well tell the guy in front of all his friends that he shouldn't flatter himself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Firstly and most importantly !.!. Don't self diagnose! It's a dangerous trap to fall into because you end up convincing yourself you have more problems than you really do then end up really having those problems!.
I think it sounds most of all like you need somewhere outside of this social group , make a list of the things you are interested in then try and find places where you can meet like minded people!.
Once you are in a group who have a common interest , just don't try to impress and immediately make friends {trust me , it's really not the be all and end all , 10 years down the line , you will have lost contact with many of them , forgotten who they are etc Most people in their lives only have a couple of really good friends who they stay in touch with!. Those are the ones that count}
Just be yourself , enjoy what you are doing and before you know it, you will have started to make friends and maybe met the man of your dreams!.!.!.!.I'll be hoping for you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe you should take meds in order to balance your BPD and go from there!. Don't worry about what all these a$$holes are saying!. HS is tough but it's only a few years out of your life!. You'll more on!. You want someone to like you for you (your BPD and OCD and all) I'm dating someone who has BP and I also think he's a little on the OCD side and I love him to death!. He tried to scare me away saying it's too hard for anyone to cope with but I'm sticking through it!. AND he has 2 kids!! Lots of chaos! You deserve to be happy!. Try and be more outgoing!. Join a club or visit places you don't normally to open up a larger network of possible friends!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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