Why do some people think that every thought in their head needs to be spoken?!
Question: Why do some people think that every thought in their head needs to be spoken!?
There are some people who have no concept of an internal filter!. They feel the need to tell you if it was number one or number two when they went to the bathroom, they tell you that their hemorrhoids really hurt, and so on!.
Then there are those who babble ALL DAY about the most trivial, meaningless things!. It's hot outside, they're bored, they're tired, they're hungry, and blah blah blah!. Every thought in their head comes spilling out, oblivious to whether anyone is even listening!.
What possesses people to be so self-absorbed, and the refusal to not think before they speak!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Then there are those who babble ALL DAY about the most trivial, meaningless things!. It's hot outside, they're bored, they're tired, they're hungry, and blah blah blah!. Every thought in their head comes spilling out, oblivious to whether anyone is even listening!.
What possesses people to be so self-absorbed, and the refusal to not think before they speak!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi Miles,
I wish I knew because I have known a number of people like that in my lifetime!. They just talk and talk and talk!.!.!.!.!.it is so insensitive and downright rude sometimes!. They start talking while you are in the middle of something and don't even bother to say, "Can I have your attention for a minute!?" or wait until they see you aren't busy!.
I think it is very self-absorbed at the least!. Another thought is a need for control!. By talking; you being a normal, socialized and polite person has to listen!. It is a way to overpower you in some weird subconscious way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wish I knew because I have known a number of people like that in my lifetime!. They just talk and talk and talk!.!.!.!.!.it is so insensitive and downright rude sometimes!. They start talking while you are in the middle of something and don't even bother to say, "Can I have your attention for a minute!?" or wait until they see you aren't busy!.
I think it is very self-absorbed at the least!. Another thought is a need for control!. By talking; you being a normal, socialized and polite person has to listen!. It is a way to overpower you in some weird subconscious way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know, but I realize that when you say something that shouldn't have been said the thing to do is recognise you made a mistake before you say it a third time!. Bite your tongue if you need to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, some people are completely honest and feel they have nothing to hide!. As their friend, you're supposed to accept them for who they are and if you can't do that, stop talking to them!.
Actually, my family is very much into telling everyone all about what they've been doing in the bathroom!. I hate it!. I can't mention that I just went to the bathroom because I'll get a series of questions I don't think are necessary to answer, but they don't understand!.
When someone tells you they're bored, it's because they are and have nothing better to say, so that is sort of a filler of sorts!. Without it, there would be no conversation!.
I don't think it's self-absorption!. Why do YOU feel the need to vent on here!? No one knows who you are, and you can just vent your frustrations to complete strangers!. Why do YOU feel the need to do that!?
If you're getting this kind of personal information from friends and family, why don't YOU tell THEM you don't like to know those things!?
If this is from people you have conversations with at work or randomly during the day, why don't YOU give them something interesting to talk about that won't cause them to say those things!?
If the people saying this are people you watch on video or hear on tape, why don't YOU let them know they're being watched/taped!? Or why not just STOP watching or listening!?
YOU CAN'T!! This is not about THEM!. It's all about YOU and because you think you're the one who is right, YOU feel the need to talk about them!. If you don't TELL THEM, how will THEY KNOW you're not liking it!? It could have been worse!. Either deal with it or talk to them about it!. I'm sure you're ego is telling you that you're too good or better than them to even bother asking, right!? Talk to them!. Maybe they trusted you!. Let them know what you think so next time they'll just know not to bother talking to you about ANYTHING!. I'm not being mean, but come on!. You can't just blame them for this!. Maybe they're being so honest with you because you need to be honest with them about what you think but you're not being anything at all!.
Tell them about it, or deal with it!. If you don't care about them enough to tell them or accept them the way they are, let them know you aren't strong enough to deal with what they have to say!. You owe them that much at least!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Actually, my family is very much into telling everyone all about what they've been doing in the bathroom!. I hate it!. I can't mention that I just went to the bathroom because I'll get a series of questions I don't think are necessary to answer, but they don't understand!.
When someone tells you they're bored, it's because they are and have nothing better to say, so that is sort of a filler of sorts!. Without it, there would be no conversation!.
I don't think it's self-absorption!. Why do YOU feel the need to vent on here!? No one knows who you are, and you can just vent your frustrations to complete strangers!. Why do YOU feel the need to do that!?
If you're getting this kind of personal information from friends and family, why don't YOU tell THEM you don't like to know those things!?
If this is from people you have conversations with at work or randomly during the day, why don't YOU give them something interesting to talk about that won't cause them to say those things!?
If the people saying this are people you watch on video or hear on tape, why don't YOU let them know they're being watched/taped!? Or why not just STOP watching or listening!?
YOU CAN'T!! This is not about THEM!. It's all about YOU and because you think you're the one who is right, YOU feel the need to talk about them!. If you don't TELL THEM, how will THEY KNOW you're not liking it!? It could have been worse!. Either deal with it or talk to them about it!. I'm sure you're ego is telling you that you're too good or better than them to even bother asking, right!? Talk to them!. Maybe they trusted you!. Let them know what you think so next time they'll just know not to bother talking to you about ANYTHING!. I'm not being mean, but come on!. You can't just blame them for this!. Maybe they're being so honest with you because you need to be honest with them about what you think but you're not being anything at all!.
Tell them about it, or deal with it!. If you don't care about them enough to tell them or accept them the way they are, let them know you aren't strong enough to deal with what they have to say!. You owe them that much at least!.Www@Answer-Health@Com