When someone states to you, "I am planning to commit suicide"..?!
Question: When someone states to you, "I am planning to commit suicide"!.!.!?
what do you do!. I love this person very much, having a relationship for 8 years, I know how depressed this, later in life, person can get!. The support team is zero!.!. His chilldren are gone, grown, and moved away!.
Although, our 8 yr relationship ended due to his depression, my 16 yr!.old, and his constand state of "just staring w/ no response-sometimes for months, literally), I still 2-yrs!. later try to talk with him 3-4 x a week, help him with his chores, etc!. Just becasue a relation ship failed-my caring did not!.
Tonight after dinner--He told me that he has his suicide planned!. In roughly 6-weeks!. He detailed it out for me, I in tears questioned many things!.!. I have no clue what to do, where to turn!? When we split-we revoked the Power of attorney; therefore, I cannot force help for him!. I will call the (2) few friends out of state but what else can I do- When someone says thier "just tired" and thier going to commit such an act!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Although, our 8 yr relationship ended due to his depression, my 16 yr!.old, and his constand state of "just staring w/ no response-sometimes for months, literally), I still 2-yrs!. later try to talk with him 3-4 x a week, help him with his chores, etc!. Just becasue a relation ship failed-my caring did not!.
Tonight after dinner--He told me that he has his suicide planned!. In roughly 6-weeks!. He detailed it out for me, I in tears questioned many things!.!. I have no clue what to do, where to turn!? When we split-we revoked the Power of attorney; therefore, I cannot force help for him!. I will call the (2) few friends out of state but what else can I do- When someone says thier "just tired" and thier going to commit such an act!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Last year on July 3rd, I attempted suicide - obviously unsuccessfully as I'm here to read your post!.
I felt drained, exhausted, sad, numb & felt that death would be a relief from the pain!.
I didn't chose that specific night!.!.!. I just knew that I was sooo tired mentally & emotionally!. On July 3rd I just snapped!.
I so understand your friend's pain and the empty look that may be in his eyes!. Please know that he is alive behind the blank stare!. His silence isn't really that at all!.!.!. it speaks loudly that he is overwhelmed with grief, sadness, loss, etc!.
Please take what he said seriously!.
Contact his children - even if he thinks they've forgotten about him!.
It is possible, as a last resort, to call the police & have someone taken into a hospital (via ambulance) if there is a real sense of the person doing themselves harm!.
I'm glad that you are his friend!. Don't give up on him!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I felt drained, exhausted, sad, numb & felt that death would be a relief from the pain!.
I didn't chose that specific night!.!.!. I just knew that I was sooo tired mentally & emotionally!. On July 3rd I just snapped!.
I so understand your friend's pain and the empty look that may be in his eyes!. Please know that he is alive behind the blank stare!. His silence isn't really that at all!.!.!. it speaks loudly that he is overwhelmed with grief, sadness, loss, etc!.
Please take what he said seriously!.
Contact his children - even if he thinks they've forgotten about him!.
It is possible, as a last resort, to call the police & have someone taken into a hospital (via ambulance) if there is a real sense of the person doing themselves harm!.
I'm glad that you are his friend!. Don't give up on him!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
wow, the best thing to do is a police watch, or notify a stronger power if you arent sure what to do!. also ALWAYS take ti seriously, it helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
google suicide hot line, lot's of hits for possibilities!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I AM that person! Why am i still here!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
i can believe you are on here with that question go get them help asapWww@Answer-Health@Com
Unless you are a very highly train person in field of mental help it sounds like this is over your head!. Get the person to treatment!. What you are currently doing is super great!. The biggest warning sign is plan of action with means!. Try and get the person to seek help!. Try and remove tools person plans to use if possible!. Should person start in your presents call 911 and get psychiatric team!.
Take care of yourself!. All the best!. Remember this person may not get needed help and should worse happen be satisfied with fact you did your best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Take care of yourself!. All the best!. Remember this person may not get needed help and should worse happen be satisfied with fact you did your best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com