I got pregnant earlier this year. I KNOW it takes two to tango BUT:?!


Question: I got pregnant earlier this year!. I KNOW it takes two to tango BUT:!?
after I had my T!.A!.B!. he NEVER called me to ask how I was feeling & he dumped me w/o telling me!. I have a mental illness not to mention i could have died b/c it was my 2nd abortion!. Could I sue him for emotional damages!. Any 1 who says i am going to "hell" for having an abortion can go to hell themselves!. I AM PRO CHOICE & PRUOD! Can I do anything or just cut off his "wang"!? Any rude answers WILL BE REPORTED WITH DETAILS!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Im going to talk to you as a medical person and a big brother type!.
- what he did was wrong!. never should have dumped you like that but he must have been scared as well

-No you cant sue him and its not worth it!. Find someone that will treat you right!.

-Time to go on the pill or only have sex with a condom and a dyaphram !.

-and your not going to hell those people only care about the unborn baby once the baby is born they dont give a **** so you did the right thing!. :-) (just tell them the baby was going to grow up to be an abortion doctor)Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, you can't sue him!. If it was consensual sex, and you got pregnant, that's not entirely his fault!. He didn't force you to have the abortion either!. I'm not saying you shouldn't have - I'm pro-choice too!. But you made the decision, knowing the risks!. Not him!.

If you cut off his penis you will go to jail!. Why don't you try getting some mental help before you do anything drastic!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

It seems like you have gone through a lot and that you still are going through a lot!. I don't think that you can sue him for emotional damages but I think that with a good therapist or psychologist, that they can help you move on and live a better life!. Best of luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Aboting is against the law of nature!. I advise you that do meditation for half an hour day chanting OM VINAYAKAYA NAMA for about 1008 times WHO gives you the remedy!. When you get up from bed, face wash and then stand in front of mirror with smiling face, chant the above make your in and out heart sime!. You get remedy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'd simply say you're better off without him!. Why drag yourself through court with him and spend money on it!. Take a clean break from him!. When guys treat me like **** I'd rather have a clean break from them!. If you tried to pursue things against him then you'd be seeing him all the time and dragging up more anger and hurt!. You need time to yourself and to deal with your own emotions!. I'm pro-choice too!. =)
lol and I just realized your name!. I watched that movie last night!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know that suing him will really offer healing for you or help you to move on!.

I think you need to gather your strength and move on so you can get your life together!. You deserve so much more than the guy who treated you like that!.

Suing him seems more like revenge and money never offers adequate healing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please get on birth control and/or use a condom!.

A condom will protect you from getting diseases and is 97% effective against pregnancy!.
Birth control when used correctly is 99% effective against pregancy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, I feel for your loss, and your choice!.

I personally disagree with you on using abortion as birth control!.!.!.!.!.giving it up for adoption could have been a good option for you!.!.!.!.there are couples who cannot have children out there, but this is just my opinion!.

Be open to counseling and the fact that you could have made a mistake!. Most importantly!.!.!.!.!.LEARN from this experience!. If this is your second time!.!.!.!.then you must be doing something wrong!.

Let's be realistic!.!.!.!.!.what are you looking to find in this world!? Who do you want to be!? Who are you trying to impress or please!? Do you have a support system like family!? Real friends!?

Slow down and never rush into a relationship!.!.!.!.focus on recouping yourself!.!.!.!.focus on your health, physical and spiritual!.

Take care and God Bless!.

RLWww@Answer-Health@Com

Your chances of a successful result in court are minimal, although a lawyer may tell you otherwise, just to get your money!. One way to tell is to ask those who work on a "no win, no fee" basis: I predict no-one will be interested!.

The type of thinking that involves thoughts of revenge will keep you from progressing better in your recovery from mental illness, so I suggest that you discuss this with a therapist!.

I am wondering why you weren't using effective contraception, and why this was your second abortion!. Maybe you subconsciously wanted to get pregnant!.

All you can do is to learn from this unfortunate experience, and if you do get pregnant again, ensure it is only after you are well along the path to wellness, and have been in a stable relationship for a fair while!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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