I am really starting to hate myself? Help?!
Question: I am really starting to hate myself!? Help!?
Hey guys,
Lately I have been starting to hate everything about me, it seems like everybody is putting me down these days!. I cried myself to sleep last night, and I don't know if im just being overemotional!?
Everybody is obsessing over my looks, my personality, everything! My family is always telling me that i'm too skinny and too pale!. I am 14 years old, 5 ft 1 and 105 lbs!. Am i underweight!? My cousins keep saying im anorexic and asked if I make myself puke and when I said no, they started laughing!.
I do eat, and I am not anorexic or bulimic, I can't do anything to change my body!. My mom is always telling me how ugly my hair is and always comparing me to my cousin!. When I'm at school everybody always compliments how pretty I am but at home im just not good enough!.
They say I am too quiet and shy, and they say thats another bad point in me, but I am just more reserved!. I feel terrible, please help! :,(Www@Answer-Health@Com
Lately I have been starting to hate everything about me, it seems like everybody is putting me down these days!. I cried myself to sleep last night, and I don't know if im just being overemotional!?
Everybody is obsessing over my looks, my personality, everything! My family is always telling me that i'm too skinny and too pale!. I am 14 years old, 5 ft 1 and 105 lbs!. Am i underweight!? My cousins keep saying im anorexic and asked if I make myself puke and when I said no, they started laughing!.
I do eat, and I am not anorexic or bulimic, I can't do anything to change my body!. My mom is always telling me how ugly my hair is and always comparing me to my cousin!. When I'm at school everybody always compliments how pretty I am but at home im just not good enough!.
They say I am too quiet and shy, and they say thats another bad point in me, but I am just more reserved!. I feel terrible, please help! :,(Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
The people who are saying you are too skinny are probably just jealous!. They would love to be able to stay slim without having to exercise and still being able to eat everything they want!. As for your hair go and ask your mom for some advice on how to make it better and if she doesn't give you an answer just tell her that its just how you are and she should be grateful for who you are not who you could be!. Take a look in the mirror and look for things about you that you are pleased with, or think about the compliments your friends have given you and try to build up your confidence from these!.
Also, your weight is ideal for your height!.
Finally, just tell your family that you are who you are and to start telling you what is good about you and to look through the small things they don't like about you and focus on the better things that most probably outshine the bad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, your weight is ideal for your height!.
Finally, just tell your family that you are who you are and to start telling you what is good about you and to look through the small things they don't like about you and focus on the better things that most probably outshine the bad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't listen to anonymo!.!.!., he obviously has some serious problems of his own!. It really sounds like to me, that your family is a little to critical of you and very jealous, too!. You can't please everyone, so don't try!.
Start a diary or a journal!. Everyday, write about something you like about yourself!. Write about things that you want and can change!. Like your hair!. Treat yourself to a salon visit!. As far as being shy!? Don't worry, guys like shy girls!. They think them a little mysterious!.
I'm 50 years old and I had the same problem when I was young!. I did these things for myself, and it works!. But I think the main thing I did for myself, that really worked was changing the way I thought about me!.
I finally figured out that I don't have to impress any one, but my self!. Some people I told, needed to impress me!. When you really start liking yourself, it won't matter what they say!. WILL IT!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Start a diary or a journal!. Everyday, write about something you like about yourself!. Write about things that you want and can change!. Like your hair!. Treat yourself to a salon visit!. As far as being shy!? Don't worry, guys like shy girls!. They think them a little mysterious!.
I'm 50 years old and I had the same problem when I was young!. I did these things for myself, and it works!. But I think the main thing I did for myself, that really worked was changing the way I thought about me!.
I finally figured out that I don't have to impress any one, but my self!. Some people I told, needed to impress me!. When you really start liking yourself, it won't matter what they say!. WILL IT!?Www@Answer-Health@Com