I've tried, and i'm completely incapable of moving on...i'm tired of!
Question: I've tried, and i'm completely incapable of moving on!.!.!.i'm tired of this!. please help!?
there's a girl!. i've liked girls before, and thought that was real, but this time it felt like NONE of the others!. i told her how i felt, she didn't feel the same way!. friendships got awkward!. i try so hard to move on, i really WANT to move on, but i can't!. don't tell me to give it time, because i've already been this way for almost a year!. i'm becoming depressed, i know it!. i don't like getting up in the mornings because i don't see the point!. i'm not eating much!. the whole thing happened september 17th, and my feelings for her haven't lessened, haven't diminished in the slightest!.!.!. i know it's unhealthy; i'm ruining myself for someone with which i have no future!. i can't go to a doctor about it because that would mean telling my parents all about it, and i can't do that to them!. i need help, but i can't go to anyone for it!. please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Do you have a close friend you can talk to!? I realize how much this girl meant to you and the future that you had invisioned, but unfortunately she didn't feel the same, so I know it hurts, but you are going to have to find something positive to look forward to!. Do you enjoy doing anything with your friends, sports, movies, ect!? I would try to focus my attention on something that brings some fun into my life!. I know it hurts still, but I promise, it will get better!. I'm a girl, I've been where you are and yes it hurts at the time, but it won't last!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I had a friend who went through this!. She literally grieved over a break-up for two years and refused to leave her house, meet new people, etc!.
Finally she was so miserable and it occurred to her that he wasn't causing her misery- she was!. He was out hooking up with girls and moving on with his life and she was making the choice to stay in and grieve!. It can be really difficult but ultimately you just have to accept that it happened and keep the hope that someone else is out there for you!.
Things happen for a reason!.!.!.!.and this storm is just bringing you closer to someone even better for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Finally she was so miserable and it occurred to her that he wasn't causing her misery- she was!. He was out hooking up with girls and moving on with his life and she was making the choice to stay in and grieve!. It can be really difficult but ultimately you just have to accept that it happened and keep the hope that someone else is out there for you!.
Things happen for a reason!.!.!.!.and this storm is just bringing you closer to someone even better for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well for starters you wont start to feel better unless you get up and out!. yes i know its hard but you can do it!. force yourself to do this even if its to the store and back!. put that happy face on (even if its fake) do a little more each day!. do things for yourself that you like!. and with each day it does get better!. you are young and i promise you, you will find someone who is feeling the same way as you!. but you cant feel better by not getting out!. i am older and have been there, i do know how you feel!. each day you do something it will be easier and you will notice a difference!. if for some reason you dont feel better you may need to tell your parents and they can help you through good luck dearWww@Answer-Health@Com