How can I start over?!


Question: How can I start over!?
I am slowly starting to realize all the things I have put on hold and given up, be it for friends and or family!. I dedicated the last 5 years to help raise a family member, who moved away!. Now 28, and 2 years away from 30 :o and I realize how much I have missed out on because of everyone!. How can I start fresh and live my life for me!? I have been living it so long for others that I have forgotten what it means to be me and live :(
This whole situation has added so much stress to my life and brought with it a lot of baggage :(
Advice please :(Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I know exactly what you are talking about, I've been going through the same thing!. I also recently realized that I needed to do the same thing!. I think you should put everyone on hold for a while, tell them this is very important not to call you b/c you need this time!. You need a chance ti find out who you are again, go out byself, on a vacation for a week if you can, if not then just spend time with yourself walking trough nature, on the water, or anything you think you'd like doing!. You can make many other people happy, but only YOU can make yourself happy!. We only get one chance to make our lives what we want it to be, so since you've realized that this is not how you want it to be start thinking about yourself, and make the most of your life!. If someone asks you to do something, take some time before you answer and ask yourself how it would make you feel, if it wouldn't make you feel good, then don't do it!. Put yourself first from here on out!. Good luck to you!!
Also realize that if you do tell them no, it doen't make you a bad person, and someone who really loves you will understandWww@Answer-Health@Com

They only way to start over is to simply DO!. Do what you want, when you want it!. If you feel like going out one night with friends, do so!. If you feel like booking yourself a vacation, plan it out and do it!. If a friend or family invites you somewhere, and you feel less than ethusiastic about joining, then say, im sorry but I cant join and stay home and enjoy an evening alone!. I dont know what kinds of things you have given up, but if they were once important to you, go back out and seek them!. Remember, things only happen if you make it happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

#1) stop letting people give you all these responsibilities!.

#2)i would move far away and start over(which i plan on doing soon)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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