I dont care about myself?!


Question: I dont care about myself!?
at all really!.
but i care about others (usually quiet deeply)!. is that weird!?
people are always saying that i have low self esteem!? or that im too nice!? i dont see anything wrong with the way i am, is that bad!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
it means your a people pleaser, youll place others happiness above yours, and will inconvienace yourself to help them!.
its a bad thing to be, people can easily take advantage of you, youll end up hurt!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Unfortunatley it is a bad thing!.My counselor told me that she had never met someone as young as me with so much compasion for others!.I am 25!.But it is my compassion that got me into trouble!.!.I am so afraid to hurt someones feelings,or someone wont like me if I dont do whatever they want!. I would so much rather carry all the pain of everyone just so they wont hurt!.Even though they all probably carry there pain I also carry it!.!.I never saw anything wrong with me being nice either until I started to go to a counseler cause my compasion got me in trouble and triggered an anxiety disorder and depression!.She is the one who helped me notice that it is not always a good thing to be so nice!.!.Trust me this is not the easiest thing to change!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Perhaps caring other is a good attitude!. However, before you care of others, you have to learn how to love and care of yourselve!.
The only care that would never changed is care towards ourselves!. Sometimes, we have to pampered ourselves!.
The following methods can help you;
a) Buy somehting to yourselve to renumerate you
b) Tell yourselves you are the best!
c) Be confident you are giving yourselve the best and also the others!.
good luck
Talk to me if you need more information!. I am always there!.
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i feel the same way most of the time!. i have low self-esteem and am too nice, i know both of these, I also know that that is how I think God wants us to be!.!.!. don't feel awkward, there's nothing wrong with that, well if there is there is something wrong with me, but either way your not alone!. i am trying to fix my self-esteem problem though!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, it is horrible!. You need to do a complete 180 on your life!. Stop giving a rat's *** about what other people think, and only think about yourself!. If you stay the way you are, you are never going to have sex with hot woman and make a lot of money!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You have to care about yourself first before you can adequately care about anyone else!. So what's so wrong with you!? Make a list of goods and bads and figure it out!.
If you don't like yourself, why should anyone else care!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

As you think so you become!. Prove the people wrong!. What i see that you are searching - who you are or what you are!. It will take time but go on searching yourself!. Meditation can give you best solution!. Wish you all the very best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its is not normal not to care about yourself, see a doctor, dont you like your self/ dont you feel like you are a good person, belive me you are the most important person in your life and you need to love yourself xWww@Answer-Health@Com

you have to care about yourself a little!. its nice you care about others!. i wish more people were like you!. but yet and still you have to care for yourself!. and i think you do but you do not see it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yea i am the same way!. i care about the people around me but when it comes to myself i actually hate myself!.!. then when around different people i act with alot of confidence!.!. wel at least you fake it till you make it!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well to start off with y do u hate yourself think and try to find a way to solve it well you need to try to count on yourself and treat yourself just the way you treat the people around youWww@Answer-Health@Com

there's nothing wrong it just proves that you like to put other's feelings and needs before your own and that's a kind thing!.Just try taking breaks with that to do something for yourselfWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well, you must care slightly or you wouldnt have posted this question!
Id suggest seeing doctor just to make sure theres no "deeper" problem!.

If youve been this way your whole life, its probably just your personality!.

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It is difficult to care about others if you do not care about yourself!.!.!.I am sure that you already find that to be the case!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

*deep sighish breath* hmmmm!.!.!.im really thinking about this 1!.!.!.!.!.ughhh!.!.!.im nna say see a prof!. about this 1 cuz i cant think of a damn thingWww@Answer-Health@Com

dont care about you but think of your dependentsWww@Answer-Health@Com

you need to talk to a dr!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u need to do something with ur life like pick a hobby or get a girl or somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com

nah thats just being selfless which is good :DWww@Answer-Health@Com





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