Scared, Alone, and Depressed...?!
Question: Scared, Alone, and Depressed!.!.!.!?
I feel like I have the weight of the entire world on my shoulders right now!. I had an accident in April, and didnt know that my insurance was expired at the time!. I know it was stupid and I was dumb and I am sick with guilt, so please dont judge me!. I am now being sued for $25,000, my license might be revoked, I am in financial disarray right now with bills piling up and creditors at my back!. My friends have all turned their backs on me, now that I am struggling, and in all honesty I am starting to become hopeless!. I don't go out anymore, I rarely ever feel happy any more (I am good at hiding it though), and I seem to cry at almost nothing!. I cant go on like this much longer!. What should I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You can only work with the cards you are given and do your best to make due with what you have!. First, do your best to stop beating yourself up for the mistakes of the past so you can make peace with yourself!. Secondly, if you have not already try to find low cost or free legal help if possible!. There are pro bono programs in many places at least if you are in the U!.S!. Next, make sure you are getting therapy or mental health help at least to help you get through this process!. Your community may have resources available to you at little or no cost!. No one is perfect!. With the state of the economy and lack of jobs in some places it is hard for many to afford things even more than ever!. Please, if you feel so hopeless make sure you get help if it gets too bad or if you feel self-destructive!. Allow yourself the time to cry, but try to find at least something small that makes you happy!. Look at it this way, if your license gets revoked you will have to find an alternate form of transportation but it is not the end of the world if you can find a way to cope!. Even if that means you have to move closer to the city, ride a bike, etc!. at least you have a few options!. You could make the argument that in order to work you need your license in order to pay off your debts as well!. Be humble when you go to court whenever that may be!. PeaceWww@Answer-Health@Com
You may want to consider declaring bankrupcy!. You do sound depressed, but it's also obvious from your explanation what the cause is!. And get yourself some new friends! True blue friends wouldn't turn their back on you in your darkest hour, they'd be there in support!.
You sound very overwhelmed!. Do you have any family members that could help you straighten out your situation and finances!? Maybe you could consult a professional, like a lawyer!. You are allowed free representation in court; contact your local courthouse and they might be able to help you!. I think you can find it from a district attorney!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound very overwhelmed!. Do you have any family members that could help you straighten out your situation and finances!? Maybe you could consult a professional, like a lawyer!. You are allowed free representation in court; contact your local courthouse and they might be able to help you!. I think you can find it from a district attorney!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am truley sorry to here about your situation, coming from a person depressed with no money, the best thing is to go to your local health clinic, you don't have to have insurance to see a doctor and medicine is barely nothing or sometimes free!. I think most clinic doctors like mine deal with depression along with bodily sickness, good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Unfortunately it sounds like you are experiencing situational depression!. This is certainly something you can talk out with a psychologist!. He/she can suggest some courses of action that could help in this situation!. Usually a psychologist is armed with many resources, including financial resources!.
I'm sorry you are having this experience!.!.!.Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry you are having this experience!.!.!.Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im not sure what you can to do but go to doctor or something i reckon even if you cant afford it you should becuase your health is more important than anything else!.And for your so called freinds ditch them they shouldnt be putting their back on you!.Try another job for 1 day nothing too much and go and socialise and find real freinds !.And also try a gargage sale and al that stuff!.
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Call a doc, make an appointment, Get Medication!. Mean while, you need to occupy your mind with movies, books, and internet!. If your friends have turned their backs on you then they were not friends to begin with!. Who needs fair weather friends!. Just remember the way they treated you when you finally get out of this dark cloud!. Things will get better, trust me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
all i can think of is that you seem depressed and that antidepressant might help you get through the rough patchWww@Answer-Health@Com
Simple Standard answer: Go see a psychiatrist!. Could have bad luck, could have clinical depression, can't really tell online!.
Longer answer: This answer probably won't make you happy, but it works/ed for me!. For the weight of the world on your shoulders, don't worry!. You're in a rut, it happens!. For just two hours every day make it your time, relax, meditate, write in a diary, stress is a major contributor to depression and anxiety!.
Here's a list of tips, I don't know which ones will work for you so I have a bunch of variety
Consolidate your loans (plenty of financial institutions will do it for even the worst credit rating)!.
Declare bankruptcy ^_^
Get a local job within 10-15 miles and walk/ride a bike
sell your car, ride the bus
Call your friends, if they haven't done much to help, and they won't help, I wouldn't call them friends
If you have a house: Sell it, rent rooms
If you're in an apartment: Get a/more roomates
Cut up credit cards, buy everything with budgeted cash, if you truly don't need it then don't buy it
Meat is cheap from large chain supermarkets catering to white middle class, vegetables and seafood is cheap in asian supermarkets!.
Brand name foods really don't taste that much better
Buy second hand clothes, etc!.
But the most important thing to realise!.!.!. is that this won't last forever!. Money and material goods are nice, but saving your life is more important, and hope combined with an understanding of everything that's happening and what you're doing to fix it will make it so much easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Longer answer: This answer probably won't make you happy, but it works/ed for me!. For the weight of the world on your shoulders, don't worry!. You're in a rut, it happens!. For just two hours every day make it your time, relax, meditate, write in a diary, stress is a major contributor to depression and anxiety!.
Here's a list of tips, I don't know which ones will work for you so I have a bunch of variety
Consolidate your loans (plenty of financial institutions will do it for even the worst credit rating)!.
Declare bankruptcy ^_^
Get a local job within 10-15 miles and walk/ride a bike
sell your car, ride the bus
Call your friends, if they haven't done much to help, and they won't help, I wouldn't call them friends
If you have a house: Sell it, rent rooms
If you're in an apartment: Get a/more roomates
Cut up credit cards, buy everything with budgeted cash, if you truly don't need it then don't buy it
Meat is cheap from large chain supermarkets catering to white middle class, vegetables and seafood is cheap in asian supermarkets!.
Brand name foods really don't taste that much better
Buy second hand clothes, etc!.
But the most important thing to realise!.!.!. is that this won't last forever!. Money and material goods are nice, but saving your life is more important, and hope combined with an understanding of everything that's happening and what you're doing to fix it will make it so much easier!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i just wrote to someone else to tell them about flower essences!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. you will benefit from them greatly!.!.!.!.!. i take them all the time !.!. you can go to a naturopath or look up bach and bush flower essences on the net and pick which ones you need (7 at 1 time is max)!.!.!. go to macro and they will make them up for you!.!.!.!.!.!.you will feel everything is a lot better when you take them!.!.!.
sounds like your friends are not really your friends if they are turning their back on you when you most need them!.!. i know when i was feeling like you were i watched 'the secret' and it changed my life!.!.!. your thoughts are creating your reality !.!.!. i know how hard it it to think positive when everything is so crap !.!.!. but its where you need to start!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like your friends are not really your friends if they are turning their back on you when you most need them!.!. i know when i was feeling like you were i watched 'the secret' and it changed my life!.!.!. your thoughts are creating your reality !.!.!. i know how hard it it to think positive when everything is so crap !.!.!. but its where you need to start!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com