Want to leave don't know how....?!
Question: Want to leave don't know how!.!.!.!.!?
my husband is a kind loving person but I'm not good enouph for him!. I have alot of issues mentaly and I have to take alot of med's for them!. He dosen't understand why I change personalities on him mid sentance or when I'm angry enouph to want to die!. I changed my E-mail address becouse he read everything I get!. HE Pretended TO BE SOMEONE ELSE TO SE IF i WOULD CHEET!. He's jelous about my good mood's being wasted on strangers!. dosen't like me to talk to anyone else!. I'm kinda a shut in with my disabilities and I hate it!. I think It's because he's 12 year's older that I and we had such a short time dating before marage ( about 3 month's) How should I tell him I need time to think about it and have him take me serious!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I have similar issues!. My mood changes with the hours on a clock!. My husband is, for lack of a better word, "normal"!. I get murderously angry sometimes and quite suddenly!. He doesn't understand it!.
However, this isn't a question that can be casually answered!.
There is no quick "fix" you can try!. There is not one thing that anyone, even if they are going through the same thing, can say to make it easier!.
I can type on this keyboard all day long and never offer a single thing that will work for you!.
The reason is because our mental imbalances cannot be simply "made right"!.
You husband isn't going to just slap his forehead and say, "Oh, I get ya now!"
Forget it!.
Sometimes you have to just!.!.!.accept yourself for your personal quirks!. As for me, I'm a redhead so my temper lets me get way with alot!. It's kind of a joke with my husband!.
I realize that things are a little crazy in your head right now!. It's hard to separate everything!. It's almost impossible to understand yourself!. But if you start thinking that your craziness is what makes you YOU, your husband will follow your lead!. Laugh it off!.!.!.if you don't snap in mid-chuckle!.!.!.but then, that's just you being yourself, eh!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
However, this isn't a question that can be casually answered!.
There is no quick "fix" you can try!. There is not one thing that anyone, even if they are going through the same thing, can say to make it easier!.
I can type on this keyboard all day long and never offer a single thing that will work for you!.
The reason is because our mental imbalances cannot be simply "made right"!.
You husband isn't going to just slap his forehead and say, "Oh, I get ya now!"
Forget it!.
Sometimes you have to just!.!.!.accept yourself for your personal quirks!. As for me, I'm a redhead so my temper lets me get way with alot!. It's kind of a joke with my husband!.
I realize that things are a little crazy in your head right now!. It's hard to separate everything!. It's almost impossible to understand yourself!. But if you start thinking that your craziness is what makes you YOU, your husband will follow your lead!. Laugh it off!.!.!.if you don't snap in mid-chuckle!.!.!.but then, that's just you being yourself, eh!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell him you need a break!. Don't draw this out any longer just be upfront about it!. Also, tell him how you feel about him thinking you'd cheat!. Don't hide how upset you are, just lay it all out there! Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go somewhere atleast and hour away for maybe a weekend or a week and think!. Tell him your very confused about how u feel right now and that u needsome time!.
If he cares he will understand!.
Best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he cares he will understand!.
Best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First you need another place you can go to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are good enough for him, i wouldn't be so quick to assume that you are not!.
You don't say what your mental health problem is specifically bt i ould have him do some research on the subject!.
I would jus tell him you need time to think!. It doesn't matter how you word it, he won't want to hear it however you put it!.
You say he is kind and loving, but he doesn't sound it!.
Are you confusion a symptom of your mental health problems!? Are you sure he is dong what you say!? If he is he sounds controlling and i don't think that is healthy in any relationship!.
The only way around it is to have a lengthy conversation with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't say what your mental health problem is specifically bt i ould have him do some research on the subject!.
I would jus tell him you need time to think!. It doesn't matter how you word it, he won't want to hear it however you put it!.
You say he is kind and loving, but he doesn't sound it!.
Are you confusion a symptom of your mental health problems!? Are you sure he is dong what you say!? If he is he sounds controlling and i don't think that is healthy in any relationship!.
The only way around it is to have a lengthy conversation with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he loves you with all your stuff why would you want to leave him!?!? Is that just the stuff that is going on with your mental condition!?!? Can you possible understand why he would be jealous of your time when your in the good state since he is there when it's bad!. Try and be happy that someone can love you like you are, cause there are alot of people who don't know how to love when all is good!!! Do you go to counseling!? Because honestly this what you are saying is a little irrational, to leave him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com