Why am I obsessed with my sister?!?!
Question: Why am I obsessed with my sister!?!!?
I'm 17, my sister is 34 and I feel like I can't live my own life because she's always on my mind!. Just about everything I do, I wonder what she would think about it!. I freak out if she doesn't talk to me everyday and I always question her love towards me!. It's gotten so bad that she has emotionally seperated herself from me because she can't stand me always needing her to prove her love and commitment to me!. She has her own life, she's married with two kids and I'm still a senior in high school but I feel like I can't live without her!. We were talking about college the other day and I started bawling when she told me I couldn't come home every weekend to see her!. I'm a pretty independent person though, I have a job and make good grades but I feel like I just need her to live and make me feel loved!. Also, we have a younger half sister who is 15 and neither of us really know her!. But, my older sister has started talking to her and I've become so obsesive and jealous!. What's wrong with meWww@Answer-Health@Com
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You are looking to her as a mother figure!.She has a life and that's good!!She also knows whats best for you!.She knows you have to be kicked out of the nest soon and is creating a little distance from you as any mother would!.actually you should be doing this yourself!!.!.!.it usually starts during the middle school age!.Kids start wanting to be alone in their rooms,listening to music in there and just figuring things out!.Moms of middle schoolers are constantly worried about their kids spending too much time in their rooms and only wanting and listening to their friends!.Moms coax them out somehow and the kid thinks mom and dad are soooo intrusive! This is normal adolescent behavior and some where you skipped that step!.Spend some time alone my friend!.and you sister will be coaxing you out as well!.Its ok she is spending more time with your other sister!.!.!.I suggest you do so as well!.!.!.when you are done spending a massive time alone!.!.!.getting to know your self!Www@Answer-Health@Com
uh whoa!. Honey, honestly, you got problems!. i think ur probably insecure, and lonely and stuff, and you just love ur sis way too much!. (i would love to smash my sis in the head) buttah, i say calm down and move on!. hang out with her, DONT cling to her!. ur freakin her out!!!! ur kinda scary girl!. just calm down and find ur own friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are completely co-dependant!. Make friends and explore life!. Seek therapy, and relax for gods sake!.Www@Answer-Health@Com