I carnt get over my rape what should i do?!
Question: I carnt get over my rape what should i do!?
when i was 5 i got raped and it still scares me i have dreams about it and i want them to go away please helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Hi,
i just wanted to reply to you!. i was sexually molested when i was 11 years old at gunpoint and i see a counseller years on and it gets easier but it never goes away!.
have you told your mum and dad!? you should try and see a social worker you can find a free one at a local church and they deal specially with sexaul abuse (i know mine does)
and report the rape to the police if you feel you are up to it if you are not ready do not push yourself!.!.the pain will ease just take your time and it will heal slowly!.
Best of luck and take time for yourself
if you want you can email me!.
Lollie xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
i just wanted to reply to you!. i was sexually molested when i was 11 years old at gunpoint and i see a counseller years on and it gets easier but it never goes away!.
have you told your mum and dad!? you should try and see a social worker you can find a free one at a local church and they deal specially with sexaul abuse (i know mine does)
and report the rape to the police if you feel you are up to it if you are not ready do not push yourself!.!.the pain will ease just take your time and it will heal slowly!.
Best of luck and take time for yourself
if you want you can email me!.
Lollie xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
That must be awful!. I'm really sorry and I can see how this scares you!. I think you need to see a psychiatrist or councillor just so you can talk things over and try to get past it, not because you are mad or anything!. Talking about it will really help!. Maybe you could even see your priest if you are religious because they are 100% confidential too!. Is there a close family member you can trust to talk to!? I hope everything works out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm very very sorry you had to go through that!. I'm a bit pissed off and would find them and stick their disgusting butt in jail!. But,!.!.!. since we are dealing with the here and now, let God take His vengeance out on them, that will make you feel better because when God fights your battles for you, then He will fight perfectly!.
The only good that could come of being scared by that is that it might make you a bit more cautious by locking the doors, and parking under lights, and making sure others are with you!. Please pray that God heals you from that!.
I think eventually it will go away to the point where you might not even think about it anymore!.
Is the person who did that in jail!? Dang, I am amazed you have such a calm tone!. I feel like beating the living crap outta that person!. But, like I said, let God take revenge on them!. Do what you can legally against them!.
Always remember it wasn't your fault and most people are NOT like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The only good that could come of being scared by that is that it might make you a bit more cautious by locking the doors, and parking under lights, and making sure others are with you!. Please pray that God heals you from that!.
I think eventually it will go away to the point where you might not even think about it anymore!.
Is the person who did that in jail!? Dang, I am amazed you have such a calm tone!. I feel like beating the living crap outta that person!. But, like I said, let God take revenge on them!. Do what you can legally against them!.
Always remember it wasn't your fault and most people are NOT like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The only thing you can do is go and get professional help!. It may sound scary, but I'm sure you want to be rid of the nightmares!. It is a horrible thing, and you'll never completely get over it, but if you go to a psychologist, they can help you deal with it and find your peace the best way possible!. Talking to people always helps, even if its just friends or family, or anyone that you trust, however since it has been in your mind since you were just five, i think that you would have to see a psychologist (or call a support clinic etc) to really deal with it!. If you get help now, you will move on, I promise you!. Just have faith and remember there is people out there for you!.
Winchester RASAC: Rape and Sexual Abuse Counselling
WOMEN'S HELPLINE:
01962 848024
Monday:
11!.30 a!.m!. to 1!.30 p!.m!.
Tuesday & Thursday Evening:
7 p!.m!. to 9:30 p!.m!.
Calls answered by women only
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Winchester RASAC: Rape and Sexual Abuse Counselling
WOMEN'S HELPLINE:
01962 848024
Monday:
11!.30 a!.m!. to 1!.30 p!.m!.
Tuesday & Thursday Evening:
7 p!.m!. to 9:30 p!.m!.
Calls answered by women only
(For the UK)Www@Answer-Health@Com
sorry to hear about it!. but it happened to somone i now and she blames me for it she was 8 and iv nown her for a year but she blames!. but id say you need to talk to soom one about it not just a 10 or 20 min talk i mean a really long talk that way you get it out of your systerm and it might be a good idear not tell just anyone tell somone but somone you really trust and see if they can help you through it
hop it helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
hop it helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
I am so sorry for you!. I don;'t know if you are in the UK or the USA, but there are support organisations who can give you counselling and therapy - you probably can't ever pretend this never happenned, but if you work at it, you can manage your fears, take control and heal yourself, with a little help!.
Ask your local doctor for a referral to a counsellor!.
May you find your peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ask your local doctor for a referral to a counsellor!.
May you find your peace!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you live in the UK look in your local phone book or online for the nearest Rape and Sexual Abuse Support Centre!. They are the best people to help you through this!. Best wishes for your recovery, this is a despicable thing to have happened to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Aww that is so terrible!. Did u tell ure mom and dad!?
Go to somebody that helps with mental issues!. They could help you stop thinking about the dreams!.
I hope this helps and I am sorry to hear that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to somebody that helps with mental issues!. They could help you stop thinking about the dreams!.
I hope this helps and I am sorry to hear that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you not gonna be ghetto and strong with it then you never gonna get ride of them!. but what you need to do is talk tyour mind check me at www!.myspace!.com/kinairo i will tell you all i knowWww@Answer-Health@Com
Oh my god!. That is terrible!. Im so sorry to hear!. You should go get some therapy!. They will help you to over come this!. Good luck, whatever you do!.
xoxoWww@Answer-Health@Com
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gezzz im sorry hun!.!. talk to your parents and get some professional help!.!.!.so you can feel good again!.try not to let this rule your life( get help)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Who ever did that to you wen you was 5 wants shooting!!
try and get some councilling it might help :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
try and get some councilling it might help :)Www@Answer-Health@Com