What are some ways to bust my self confidence?!


Question: What are some ways to bust my self confidence!?
I'm terrible at this
When someone says a rude comment to me I don't do anything
And I could NEVER say no to anyone
I'm tired of people stepping all over me =(Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Don't look to boost your self-confidence!. Accept yourself as you are!. You are possiblly meek and soft spoken!. Very well then!. So be it!. You don't have to change and be a different person just because there are rude people!. Not everyone has a conscience!. Not everyone is as sensitive as you are!. Speaking up and putting them in their place isn't necessarily going to make them become better people!.
Sit down and start a blog!. Start a diary!. If you have anything to say, go there and say it!. But don't say it out loud!. Continue to be yourself and be discreet!. But find a way to say just what's on your mind!. It's not bad, but saying anything in front of them is going to have an impact on you!. What is that!? How will that make you feel!? It might not make you feel better at all!. Lowering yourself to their standards won't make it all right!.
There are books in the library on assertiveness!. You should read some of that!. You need words!. You need knowledge, and knowledge is power!. No matter how bad you feel, you don't have to feel bad about yourself!. You are not bad for being sensitive!.
It would comfort you to know there are other people that feel the same way!. I've read several of those books myself and I too have had some of that type of problem!. I get angry, but I think letting them get me upset is far worse than walking away!.
Anger is not a solution!. It's a reaction!. If they upset you that much, stay away from them!. Don't give them the time of day!. It may be true you would be better off finding other people or activities where you can emote and it is more acceptable!. Are you an artist!? Do you have a hidden thespian within you!? You could emote and vent all you want to, while it's in character and it would give you a healthy outlet!.
Separate your character from your every mood swing!. You do not have to be consumed by the problem Learn to compartmentalize!. There are lots of other things that are far more worth your time!. Find ways to wash your hands of it and get on with your day!.
I hope this helps you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Fake it til you make it!. If you just decide to start ACTING like a confident person, you'll build up your confidence through experience!. Remember that YOU are in control of how you act, so all you have to do is decide to make the change!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are tired of it then DO something about it!.Your life is in your hands!.

The only way to raise your self confidence is to face your fears and conquer them!.

Wining is the only way so go out there and win a battle!.

Will power!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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