What can I do? I'm helpless.?!
Question: What can I do!? I'm helpless!.!?
let me narrate the event that make me overstress!.
May 2005-giving birth to a boy!. Perfectly healthy!.
January 2007-giving birth to a girl!. Heathy and adorable!.
February 2007- diagnosed with bone cancer!. Gone through few chemos and major surgery replacing my bone to metal prostesis!.
Recently, found out I'm pregnant again
Yesterday accidently fell down and injured my leg and I'm now crawling around the house!.
And my hubby doesn't care!. He even insisted me to drive him to his office because he doesn't want to pay one dollar parking fee!. When dinner time, instead of bring me the food,
he adamantly asked me to get it myself!.
Gosh!!.!.!.I'm going to be insane!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
May 2005-giving birth to a boy!. Perfectly healthy!.
January 2007-giving birth to a girl!. Heathy and adorable!.
February 2007- diagnosed with bone cancer!. Gone through few chemos and major surgery replacing my bone to metal prostesis!.
Recently, found out I'm pregnant again
Yesterday accidently fell down and injured my leg and I'm now crawling around the house!.
And my hubby doesn't care!. He even insisted me to drive him to his office because he doesn't want to pay one dollar parking fee!. When dinner time, instead of bring me the food,
he adamantly asked me to get it myself!.
Gosh!!.!.!.I'm going to be insane!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hang in there my dear!. I am so sorry that you're going thru such tough time!. My suggestions for you are: have a family or a close friend live with you to assist in your needs; go to your OB and tell him about your being recently diagnosed of bone cancer!. Ask about possible complications for the baby!. As with your husband, you can ask help from his parents or siblings regarding how he is treating you!. Tell them too about your health conditions & that you are pregnant again!. I will keep you in my prayers!.
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I recommend also these sites that may help you cope up with everything that's going on in you:
http://www!.preggyspretty!.com
http://babiesgigs!.com
http://depressiondiscussion!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com
Leave him! Check into the hospital and let your insurance pay for it!. Find some real friends who care about you!. It's not at all selfish to put you first right now!. Your husband is being an *sshole!! Don't think of him, or anyone else who has treated you like that!. Ask a relative or friend whom you trust to look after the kids!. Be sure to have them visit you in the hospital everyday!. Tell the hospital what has happened; ask to stay until you have a safe place to go (not your husband!!)!. Remember, not just for you but for your new baby, you have to take care of yourself!. Be careful, eat right, reject anyone who makes you feel bad, get the medical help you need!. Good luck!! I know you can do it:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you told him how you feel!? Have you told him No!? Have you asked for help form him!? You have to stayed up for yourself and say I can't do this anymore!. Go to marriage consoling!. You have had a hard life but you need to get some self confindence and tell him how you feel!. I was the same way!. (I have had kids adn I don't have a husband but I still know!.) I still have a hard time saying no and not giving in!. You just need practice!. I hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no you married a man who doesnt appreciate you!. thats really f---ed up!. i would bend over backwards for you and more!. you need extra attention right now and with your children you ahve a little bit extra on your plate!.aks me and ill try to find something to help you in anyway!. as far as you husband let him know there are strangers out hear who are willing to do something and offer help to youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Tell him how you feel about how he acts!. It doesn't have to be all at once, but if he does something that's not easy for you, tell him how hard it is!. Sometimes, people don't realize how hard it can be!. They see it, but it doesn't 'click'!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He sounds like a jerk, and he is also not very smart as it costs more for you to drive him back and forth than it would have costed for him to just pay the $1 parking fine!. You need to set him straight!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to find someone who will support you and take care of you when you need to be taken care of!. It sounds to me like this guy isn't worth wasting your time on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, that's awful!. Leave him now!Www@Answer-Health@Com