I feel like such a failure, and I need help to sort my life out.?!
Question: I feel like such a failure, and I need help to sort my life out!.!?
These feelings are mostly about my inability to find a career in life that suits me!. I have worked at 11 different jobs since 2002!. I am 35 and don't feel any closer to making a career path or goals!. I am good at lots of things but I am not REALLY good at anything!. I have moved around so much from one place to another that I don't have anymore close friends, right now not even any acquaintances because I just moved to a new city!. I can't find a job now so I have been selling stuff on the internet to live, which isn't too bad but is very difficult and keeps me isolated!. This should be the best time of my life because I have a wonderful wife and a brand new baby, but I don't feel great!. I feel like an incompetent loser!. Any advice/help/anything at all!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Stop right there and give yourself a break, you have moved around a lot and tried many thing so you have all sorts of skills!. You have the love and support of your wife which is more than a lot of people do, you are at a crossroads and you need to decide what you want to do!. Write a list of jobs down and the associated skills attached, then write down how much you enjoyed/disliked that job!. Discard the jobs you didnt like and consider only the jobs you did lke rank them and then follow to seeking opportunities in that or related fields!. If you cant find anything or something esle grabs your attention go for it, life is for living and learning not just accepting!. You are in a new city, are you able to join a sporting club or somthing else of interest!? Find new friend through clubs, volunteer work anyway you can bu remember your closest and best friend is your wife and nurture her as well as your new baby!. Remember being under pressure creates its own overwhelming thoughts, look at these thoughts as opportunities to do something better/different!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your wife should really be helping you then!. let her encourage you to keep trying!. what is it that you've always wanted to be!? think about your childhood/adolescence goals you used to have!. is it too late to make them come true!? experiment, don't beat yourself up!. have fun in the process! try jobs you wouldn't normally; who knows, maybe you'll find an interest!Www@Answer-Health@Com
do something you will never forget! something amazing!. helping others will always give u an amazig feeling!Www@Answer-Health@Com
see a counsler and sit down with him/her and figure things out, trust me it'll helpWww@Answer-Health@Com