Seperation anxiety & other stuff?!


Question: Seperation anxiety & other stuff!?
I'm almost 17 & i have a serious boyfriend that i've been with for about 3 years!. I know he loves me but i have some issues!. I feel like i need him all the time!. I find myself getting attached to someone so easily and then not being able to let them go!. I don't know if i should fight to make this work & try to change or just try to get him to move on to find something better!.!.!.!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Its normal after being together for a long time to have that seperation anxiety!. You get used to them always being there and hes the only one your with for 3 years!. I had that problem with my boyfriends too!. But not as bad as now!. My husband and I do everything together!. I dont even like him to go to work!. But he likes the fact that I want to be with him all the time!. We are both only 20 and have been together over 2 years now, married for 6 months!. Now we have a baby on the way!. We both probably have the same thing you do because we are used to each other and we love each other and that makes us not want to be with anybody else!. Its a normal response when you've been with somebody for a long time!. Try talking to him about it and see how he feels!. He probably senses it and you are still together so I doubt it bothers him!. Try to hang with friends more or even family!. If you love him you should fight to make it work but dont change who you are!. Chances are theres nothing better, and thats why he is with you!. Good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

One thing at a time!. Seems to me like you are confused!. you seem to like this guy considering that you 3 have been together so long!. However you are feeling attached!. Maybe you 2 should take a break!. Take some time to find out who you are alone without the boyfriend!. do things that you like to do that makes you happy!. He will NOT be there forever!. There will be times when you are alone!. get use to who you are as a person!. Just let the relationship "ride"!. don't make any decisions right now!. If it is going well then just let it be!. If you are having doubts break it off!. You are still young and will be going off to college soon!. You will meet tons and tons of guys!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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