Does anyone else have a time of year they dread?!


Question: Does anyone else have a time of year they dread!?
I find August to mid September very hard to get through!. It seems like everything that goes wrong happens then!. I know that other bad points in my life have happened outside of these months but the majority of them happens in this time!. To give background - I saw my best friends mother pass and attended her funeral on my 16th birthday, my grandfather commited sucicide, my younger brother passed, my husband's grandmother and cousin passed, lots of financial and car troubles-the list is far longer- all happen during this time frame!. Not to mention all the world events that have happened in these months!. It leaves me with a sense of dread everytime August rolls around- My husbands and my birthdays are in this time frame and it makes it hard to enjoy time!. I wish I could skip these months this year- it will a year for my brothers passing this August and I am just to the point where I don't know what to do!.Does anyone else feel this way!? Is there a specific time you dread!?How do you cope!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Yes I go through the same only December and Jan every year, I lost my daughter Jan 11th and her birthday is Jan 30th so the holidays are exceptionally difficult Every thing bad seems to happen to me in these 2 mths and yes I would much rather go to a deserted Island somewhere warm and sunny instead of going through this every year I don't cope at all but I do survive I just try to spend lots of time with my grand kids that seems to help and I stay away from reminders and any potential hazardsWww@Answer-Health@Com

The winter months (December - February)!. They always leave me with anxiety and depression!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i dread the summer for many reasonsWww@Answer-Health@Com

late winter sucksWww@Answer-Health@Com

Winter months in general!. Don't get me wrong, I love winter, but not having a career (who goes to school for four years when you've only got five left!.!.!. almost 20 years ago!? Know anyone else who's been positive that long!? Without going full-blown!?) makes the risk of unemployment really scary during the winter!. Summer it's survivable!.
Plus I'm not over eager for March, either!.
That's when my birthday is, and if my parents weren't still around, nobody would remember!.
How do I cope!?
I have two cats!. I used to listen to music, but when two entire collections (mostly imports, so fairly expensive- at least 2-3 grand each time) get ripped of by "friends" that you've known for several years, three years apart, and then your storage unit gets sold because you couldn't keep up the payments- it's time to listen to the cosmos or god or whatever telling you music is too good for you!. All the music stores are closed now, and how do you hold onto an mp3!? How do you recognize the cover if there is none!? Why should I pay AGAIN for something I've already paid for 4-5 times over already!? So, no music for me!. Of course, the last time this happened was AFTER Napster got shut down!. The REAL Napster!.
So now I depend on my cats to keep me sane, if a bit bitter!.
Yeah, as soon as it starts getting cold until it warms up!.!.!. that's the time I dread!.
Wisp (18 lb black cat- I call him my "lawn panther,") and Twitch (female orange tabby), whose name is too long a story to relate here!.
I'm sorry you've lost so many!. How fortunate you're married!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am so sorry about all that!. You've been through a lot!. I know it can be hard when this time of year comes around!.

The best way to cope is talk about it often and remember the good times!.
You can have a private memorial to remember those passed and all the events that make you dread these months!. Light a candle and have a moment of silence!. This may give you a sense of closure and allow your heart to move on in a healthy way!.

Then make new, fun memories for you and your family!. It take months or years to really heal from events like these!.

Just pray through it!. Ask God to bring new joy in these months every year!.

Best wishes!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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