Please help i cant take anymore of this.....?!
Question: Please help i cant take anymore of this!.!.!.!.!.!?
I'm not the type of person a parent type figure would like!. I never was!. BUT I'm so much better then they think!. I work my @ss off at home!. I went to college and had a job at the same time!. I was majorly stressed and school hated me just as much as i hated it!. So i stopped going!. it was so hard to stay there!. so i worked!. and everything my mom wants me to do(for the most part) i do!. none of that is good enough!. im a passionate person and love the things i love!. thing is!.!.!.my mom hates everything i love!. and even though she sees how passionate i am about things!.!.!.she doesn't seem to care!. when i do the adult things!.!.!.im wrong!. im gunna be 21!. i feel like im being treated like a 6 year old!. i respect everyone!. im a nice person!. i do what i have to do!. im trying to get out of this funk im in!. shes not makin it easy!. shes helped a lot don't get me wrong!. she might be the reason im better!. but she also keeps like forgetting about me so-to-speak!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I don't think this will help your problem very much but reading this literally sent chills up my spine!. I *just* posted something about my friend who is going through almost an identicle situation as you are and I was so desperate to find an answer, to see if there was some meal problem causing her mother to act like this!. It is just!.!.!. so unreal, it's frightening how out of touch with reality she seems to be, and from what I gather, how your mother seems to parallel her to a tee!. I actually though for a moment it was my friend who posted this!.
All I can really say is that you need to strong, and being that your 21, your best bet would probably be to get as far away from that situation as possible!. My friend is only 18 and has almost nowhere to go and I just keep telling her she needs to come stay with me or stay with a relative because the atmosphere in her house is ridiculously tension filled, it's like her mother is a ticking bomb ready to explode at any minute!. My only advice would really be to first leave the situation, it's honestly all I can think of!.!.!.!.!.!. I'm sorry I couldn't be of more help but your not alone!Www@Answer-Health@Com
All I can really say is that you need to strong, and being that your 21, your best bet would probably be to get as far away from that situation as possible!. My friend is only 18 and has almost nowhere to go and I just keep telling her she needs to come stay with me or stay with a relative because the atmosphere in her house is ridiculously tension filled, it's like her mother is a ticking bomb ready to explode at any minute!. My only advice would really be to first leave the situation, it's honestly all I can think of!.!.!.!.!.!. I'm sorry I couldn't be of more help but your not alone!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds as if there's a lot you need to get off of your chest!. You really need to express these feelings to her!. The best way would be to find a family therapist for the two of you-just to be able to have a mediator to help the conversation be kept level headed and understood by the both of you!. Find out if you or your mother are covered for therapy by medical insurance!. If not, look some up in your area online!. If there's no money, find a councelor-but find someone professional to help you both to get your feelings out to each other!.
Don't keep this bottled up inside!. It can't get better if you don't talk about it in a healthy way!.
Best of luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't keep this bottled up inside!. It can't get better if you don't talk about it in a healthy way!.
Best of luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com