How can i be stronger and more independant and all round happy?!
Question: How can i be stronger and more independant and all round happy!?
basically its at the end of gcses and its the summer holidays and all my friends have got jobs and i am really missing out because i am too scared to get one!. i also really need the money, but becuase i am worride i wil mess everything up and look like and idiot, im to afriad to get a job!.
To make it clearer, i just need someway off getting me out of thinking way into things!.
so are there any little routines that i should do everyday to build independance!.
I know you should just throw yourself in the deep end but im really not confident enough to do that!.
sorry if none of this makes sence but please try and help
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To make it clearer, i just need someway off getting me out of thinking way into things!.
so are there any little routines that i should do everyday to build independance!.
I know you should just throw yourself in the deep end but im really not confident enough to do that!.
sorry if none of this makes sence but please try and help
xxxxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Don't worry about messing up - you're just out of school, brand new to the workforce and it's your first job!. You WILL make mistakes - people expect it and are understanding because it's happened to us all!.
You won't be in a powerful enough position to do any REAL damage - as long as you listen to what you're being told and follow instructions you won't have a problem!.
Ultimately the pros outweight the cons, and you'll probably enjoy it immensely (and the money is a bonus)!.
To build independence, do something every day that scares you and that you'd normally shy away from!. Over time, it'll become second nature and you'll wonder what the fuss is about!.
You just need to get out of your comfort zone!. I've been there, and trust me, the rewards greatly outweight the risks!.
Good luck, and I hope it work out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You won't be in a powerful enough position to do any REAL damage - as long as you listen to what you're being told and follow instructions you won't have a problem!.
Ultimately the pros outweight the cons, and you'll probably enjoy it immensely (and the money is a bonus)!.
To build independence, do something every day that scares you and that you'd normally shy away from!. Over time, it'll become second nature and you'll wonder what the fuss is about!.
You just need to get out of your comfort zone!. I've been there, and trust me, the rewards greatly outweight the risks!.
Good luck, and I hope it work out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Of course you can!. Anything is possible!.
Don't be so harsh on yourself!.
If you want it enough you will get it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't be so harsh on yourself!.
If you want it enough you will get it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you getting enough sleep, exercising, and eating right!? You're asking this question in the mental health section so I believe you may be asking whether you need psychiatric help!. But I don't really know enough, do you have any addiction problems!? If not, you can go get a psychiatric assessment at a private doctor if you can afford it but since you're not working there are public clinics that can assess you!. Do you need psychiatric help or are you just going through a rough time right now!? If you think you might have a problem then there's no shame in going to see whether you really do have a problem!. You may just have some normal stress that's included in this life!. You need to get dressed every day, go out for a while and be around people, get some sun (at least 15 minutes a day), things like that!. If you are not getting up and around and don't feel you can work, go see whether you need some help!. I try to do a little better every day!. I have been mentally ill for many years and it's difficult but there's help available!. Sleeping and a daily routine are the key!. While you get some help, if you even need any, you could try doing a volunteer job before you get a "real" job!. We all feel afraid that we might look like an idiot sometimes!. You just have to get out there and try!. And if you can't, then get a little help with that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com