Is this unnatural anger?!


Question: Is this unnatural anger!?
My mother has displayed angry outbursts, a lot at home, and now she went off at a tennis partner, because he was pedantic, with a line call!. She never displayed this degree of anger, openly, before, when I was younger, and I always held her in great respect, because of this!. What is happening to her, is it just menopause, or a sign of something deeper!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I'd just keep an eye on her for the moment!. Sometimes you just have a reaaaal bad day!. But if it becomes consistent behaviour then maybe you should take some next steps and seek further advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Take your mother aside some time during a quiet moment and tell her that her outburst caused you a lot of concern!. Remind her that when you were growing up she expected honesty from you about what was happening in your life!. It is natural to want the same honesty from her!.

I don't know what her personal life is like, but is she having conflict with your father or current partner!? From my own experience, it is a sense of powerlessness that brings on the anger!. Sometimes our threshold for frustration is more limited than we think and it takes one thing that others consider small to trigger a very angry reaction towards something or someone unrelated to our source of stress!.

If that is not the problem, I would observe her closely and seeing if she is consuming alcohol, because I've heard that drinking can take a very nice, calm, kind person and turn him/her into a dragon!. I hope this situation is resolved quickly for you!. I admire the way you are trying to help your mother!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It could be alot of thing, unaccustomed pressures that have sudenly been put on her, menopause, hormonal issues, lack of iron OR
Maybe she's just had enough
Mums spend their entire lives running after others and making sure they have what they need and their comfortable and for many mums its a thankless task, people forget that mums are people too!.
You can approach her with mum I worried is everything ok and take it from there or you can back off and give her some space or you can do both!. Just remember to be sensitive whatever is happening she needs love and support not condemnation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Could be that time of the month or meno or I do not know how many of you live with her but have you guys thought to do something for her!. It wasn't until I became a mommy myself that I realize how big and stressful job it is each and every day!. Try buying her some flowers and a thinking about you card!. It may go a long way!. I bite my tongue and I lash out when the simple things that I ask for do not get accomplish (pleas take out the trash)!. So it may just be a minor thing before thinking it is a mental problem!. Maybe she's just frustrated and needs people to help her!. Bieng a mother is harder than it seems!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm so proud of you being a caring daughter!. When your Mom is not in her angry mood, talk to her!. Show her how much you care, love her and how important she is to you!. Then slowly share with her how you feel about her health issues!. You maybe right that she may be in a transition mode and her hormones are just messing up!. If you think there is no way you can talk to her calmly then seek help from your grandparent or aunt or uncle or anybody that your Mom trust!. Tell this person to tell her that you are worried about her health!. You relax now and stop worrying, everything's fine!. I'll keep you and your Mom in my prayers!.

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Could be her time of the month, or it could possibly be a mental illness!. The best thing to do is just talk to her about it and mabye go to a doctor!. If she is an open minded, mature person, then she won't refuse to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Does she drink!? Is it aggressive anger like physical!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

go to therepyWww@Answer-Health@Com

it is time to her see a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well i think its bipolar have u told her maybe she needs to see a doctor!?if u haven't don't be afraid just askWww@Answer-Health@Com





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