Will she be able to understand me going off for a while?!


Question: Will she be able to understand me going off for a while!?
We had devastating news two months ago that we were selling the family home, a place where I dearly love, and find security!. I am 21, and awaiting to go to university for next year, pending on my exam results next month!. Reason I am going so late is because I had a breakdown due to a stupid ex of mine at the age of 18, so my mental health hasnt been 100%, hence still why I am at home!. My Mum is going down into a horrid little cramped house in the village, full of noisy kiddies running around all the time outside, and my Dad is going to live in Edinburgh, but because we dont see eye to eye, plus for my college am staying up here!. I am really not wanting to go down though!. Recently my mental health has gone downhill and my depression worse!. It so bad I have been threatening to hurt others and myself, and Mum is scared incase I cause a scene or do something in the new house!. Plus she is getting in a lodger who we know and I do not get on with!. So I have decided if I feel a rage coming onWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Hi, Im sorry to hear about your situation!. I've struggled with depression for a long time and know how it can ruin your life!.

From what you've explained it sounds like you need to get your mental health under control again if it's gone downhill!. That way hopefully things wont get so bad that you have to feel the need to run away!.

I think you should go to your GP and explain things to him/her fully!. They will be able to take things from there!. There are medication and therapies that can help you cope with your depression and control your feelings!.

Getting away and relaxing sometimes can be a good thing, especially for us that have depression!. Its a perfectly normal thing so I dont see why your mum would have a problem with it!. But if you do need to go away dont do it on impulse!. Make sure its planned so you can be safe!. Look online to find cheap train tickets if you cant drive and reasonably priced b n b's so you dont run out of money!.

Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hate to say this sweetie, but the world does not revolve around you!.!.!.whatever your problems are sort them out and stop bringing everyone elses life into misery because of your own drama's!. Get on with it, pull yourself together!. You have a family, a home, food and education!.!.!.!.compared to the rest of the world, you have it good!. Fix yourself and get on with life

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Sorry Ade if you thought I was rude, that was not my intention!. I was only trying to bring to light that you have so many things that are good in your life, that many others don't, that you should be able to make your life work well!. If you feel so much rage that you can not find this now then you should seek professional help, you wont find your answer hear on Yahoo!. But what I said was meant to help you see your situation in the whole scheme of things, outside of your mind!. Sorry if that upset you, but it is the truth for ALL of us!. That is what keeps the majority of humanity grounded!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Personally speaking I don't think Rusty is being rude but to you it came across rude!.!. OK, putting that aside I think it's a good idea for you to be on your own for a while, as you mentioned you are old enough to take care of yourself!. We have all had a past with ex's and mine in particular was awful learning he was actually gay but that didn't make me want to hurt myself!.!.!. I picked up and moved on and I do suffer with a mental illness called Bipolar!.!. I think you need to talk with your mom and explain that you need to be on your own for a while to sort things out!.

Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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