BEST freinds mom dieing?!
Question: BEST freinds mom dieing!?
my best freind whos name is melina just found out that her mom whos 42 only has about a week or 2 she has a type of cancer is wat my freinds dr told her family now melina is always sad she cries all the tie i tell her to spend as much time as she can with her mom wat should i do to help my freind and her mom feel better and i am very worried about wat will happen to her wen her mom doez die wat should i expect 4 herWww@Answer-Health@Com
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This one is tough!.!.!.!.
I lost my dad on Decemeber 23, 2004, he was 44 and it was some rough times!. The best thing you can do is be there for her!. She may not want to talk about it or that may be the only thing she will talk about!. Only roughly 2 months ago was I at my dad's grave for the first time in 3 and a half years, I was always depressed about it and when I finally went people around me realized that I was a lot happier, almost at peace!. So the point to this is that everyone deals with things differently!.
They say the worst pain to experience is losing a child, the second worse pain is to loose a parent!.
She needs to remember the good times they had, and sometimes a certain smell will remind her!. I do advice she seeks professional therapy, I have yet to do this but I wish I would of earlier!.
I am not sure how old you are but DO NOT let her turn to drugs or alcohol to deal with the pain!. Everyone tried to get me have a drink after and I knew if I did, then chances are I wouldn't stop!.
I am also not sure where you's live but there are several services in every city!.
She needs to spend as much time with her mom as possible, before she is entered into heaven!. Maybe you could stop by with some flowers or something for her mom, make her feel at ease!.
I hope this has helped even if its only a little bit!. If you need any help with anything feel free to e mail me!
Best wishes!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I lost my dad on Decemeber 23, 2004, he was 44 and it was some rough times!. The best thing you can do is be there for her!. She may not want to talk about it or that may be the only thing she will talk about!. Only roughly 2 months ago was I at my dad's grave for the first time in 3 and a half years, I was always depressed about it and when I finally went people around me realized that I was a lot happier, almost at peace!. So the point to this is that everyone deals with things differently!.
They say the worst pain to experience is losing a child, the second worse pain is to loose a parent!.
She needs to remember the good times they had, and sometimes a certain smell will remind her!. I do advice she seeks professional therapy, I have yet to do this but I wish I would of earlier!.
I am not sure how old you are but DO NOT let her turn to drugs or alcohol to deal with the pain!. Everyone tried to get me have a drink after and I knew if I did, then chances are I wouldn't stop!.
I am also not sure where you's live but there are several services in every city!.
She needs to spend as much time with her mom as possible, before she is entered into heaven!. Maybe you could stop by with some flowers or something for her mom, make her feel at ease!.
I hope this has helped even if its only a little bit!. If you need any help with anything feel free to e mail me!
Best wishes!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi Tasha,
This is a hard one!.!. Yes she should spend all the time with her mom!.!. She can read to her and just talk and help mom feel like she isn't letting the family down by leaving them!.!. Losing a Mother is one of the hardest things for anyone to go threw and she will be a little different after her mom passes!.!. You really never get over the lost of mom!.!. I know this to be true,i lost my mom 15 years ago and i find My self crying at times just remembering things about her and the things she did for her family!.!. Just leave her along at this time and let her spend what time her mother as left!.!. But be there for her after her mom passes!. She will need all the support you can give her!.!. You are a very caring and good friend!. Stay this way!.!.
Your Friend,
poppy1Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is a hard one!.!. Yes she should spend all the time with her mom!.!. She can read to her and just talk and help mom feel like she isn't letting the family down by leaving them!.!. Losing a Mother is one of the hardest things for anyone to go threw and she will be a little different after her mom passes!.!. You really never get over the lost of mom!.!. I know this to be true,i lost my mom 15 years ago and i find My self crying at times just remembering things about her and the things she did for her family!.!. Just leave her along at this time and let her spend what time her mother as left!.!. But be there for her after her mom passes!. She will need all the support you can give her!.!. You are a very caring and good friend!. Stay this way!.!.
Your Friend,
poppy1Www@Answer-Health@Com
all you can do is be there for her and let her know that maybe make a scrap book for later of her and her mom ask her mom if thats ok and just listen when she talks she needs you and even though this dont sound like much it really is and she will know this if she says something that she would not normally say forgive right away just be her friend that is what she needs most from you and nothing else dont forget to give her a hug oftenWww@Answer-Health@Com
Be with her
Support her & her mom
Try to make her stronger to accept the factWww@Answer-Health@Com
Support her & her mom
Try to make her stronger to accept the factWww@Answer-Health@Com
awww im sorry just be there for your friend by susporting her emotionalyWww@Answer-Health@Com