Self-degradation?!
Question: Self-degradation!?
I'm a 19-yr old male!. For some reason, I can't stop degrading myself especially when it comes to gender/sexuality related things!. Anything from lying about my orientation, or trying to act/paint myself as feminine, when I know I'm straight, from lying about my "size" or sexual prowess to make myself sound worse than I am, when I'm really quite in the middle of average!. When I do this, I almost feel some kind of pleasure!.!.or at least comfort about it, even though I'm disgusted with myself for doing this!. Obviously this has caused both personal and relationship problems!.!. As for my background, my mother was largely absent, and died due to drugs when I was 14!. my 1st, and only real "serious" relationship was to a girl who was manipulative, and cheated on me multiple time, and turned out to be a clinical sex-addict!. I wanted to know if anyone with some experience in this, might be able to tell me why I do this!.!.or how I can stop!.!.thanksWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Listen, you obviously have quiet a bit of baggage there!. You already write yourself that "your mother was largely absent" (that's a quiet clinical way to phrase it), and now you are making a fool out of yourself in front of women!.
So, it is quiet obvious that you have a self-esteem problem, even for me as a non-professional!.
Which gets me straight to the point: A professional is what you need!. They could tell you exactly what's "wrong" with you and how to get out of it!. Because that's what you want, isn't it!?
Good luck on your way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So, it is quiet obvious that you have a self-esteem problem, even for me as a non-professional!.
Which gets me straight to the point: A professional is what you need!. They could tell you exactly what's "wrong" with you and how to get out of it!. Because that's what you want, isn't it!?
Good luck on your way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not sure exactly why you do it!. Personally I do it just for the laughs and attention!. I will make small jokes about myself all the time, and there are two reasons for it!. 1 if I have sex with a girl she will think "hmm not that small" and 2 it eases tension!.
I have also had relationship problems with cheating etc!. Personally I went the route of not caring, you can't control someone so don't get so wound up about it!.
I just do it for the jokes, if thats why you do it you are perfectly normal and you worry too muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
I have also had relationship problems with cheating etc!. Personally I went the route of not caring, you can't control someone so don't get so wound up about it!.
I just do it for the jokes, if thats why you do it you are perfectly normal and you worry too muchWww@Answer-Health@Com
you need to learn to love your self for who you are not perfect and just a guylike every other guyWww@Answer-Health@Com