I'm a SICK girl?!


Question: I'm a SICK girl!?
I hate my life!. I got kindey infection, kindey stone, heart hummor, eating disorder, sleeping disorder, depression, some wrong with my eyes and my skin look very urgly bc of many veins, why God gave me alll of the bad things!. I don't have a job now, bc of no energy to work, and I've to go see the doctor(physcican, speacial, emergency,take X-ray ect!.!.!.!.) all the times!.The insureance company properly not gonna pay for my medica any more!. I rly don't wanna live anymore, but I'm the only child, my parent would be hurt if some happening to me!. I tried so hard to be alive bc of my parent!. I cried every night!. I don't have friends like everyone else, only 1 bestfriend, but she moved to Chicago!. I don't have a bf, and I don't want to!. Every day is the same to me, in my room,eat, watch tv, and online!. I'm so tired of it, everyday seem too gone too long to me!. I feel so sorry to my parent, I love them till death!. i'm 19 and I have all these problem, live seem so hard for me!. What can I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Omg this seriously can't be real!. I'm going through the same exact thing!. I was planning on asking the same thing!. I have U!.T!.I!. {uninary tract infection}!. I have back problem's, asthma, random migrain's everyday, I barely could see {i wear glasses with aloooootttt of medicine}, I have kidney and colon infections!. My insurance recently sent me a letter telling me that they are not paying for my medical stuff anymore!. I have an eating disorder aswell!. It's awful!. My best friends {2} don't even pay attention to me anymore because I'm alway's complaining about some sort of pain!. I came out of the hospital like 2 week's ago!. I really didn't think that there was someone else out there like this!. I'm seventeen and also an only child so we are not that far apart!. Maybe we could talk to eachother and help eachother out!.

You should E-mail me if anything!. It'll be nice!.

Now what I could say about this is that coping isn't enough!. Everyone just tell's me to cope!. Maybe we need to put alot of effort into ourselves!. You know, work on our well being!. If we don't, no one else is!. Ya know!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

push through!.

you can do it girl!.

it may be hard

but all you have to do is think of the people that have it worse you know!?

and just be like
damn!. i may have it hard but what about those kids!?
and im complaining

im not saying your complaining

im just saying its something to think about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That really is sad, but don't worry, God has a plan for everyone, even if we don't understand it!. Just keep looking up and don't dwell on all the bad things in your life!. I'll be praying for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need some help in order to change your outlook on life!.

It seems that one of your problems may be depression!. I suggest professional help!. It may get you well all around!.

I wish you good health and a nice life!.

IngridWww@Answer-Health@Com

Get a grip!.!.!.I know that may sound harsh especially as you are dealing with a lot and that can be overwhelming!. You need to change your perspective you are doing the same thing all day everyday and thats why you are feeling worse than you probably need to be feeling!.
Go outside for a walk even if its a short one, join a group or take up a hobbie!. Speak with your Dr about your feelings as you may be suffering from depression and require som medication, you cant give up on yourself and you are the only one who can control how you are feeling!. You have a lot of life yet you can live it or you can be miserable its your choice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hun!.everyone's got troubles!. I'm the same age as you!. I am bipolar, have a nerve injury, a bad hip, had to have an ovary removed, have permanent insomnia, etc!.!.!.

Bodies aren't perfect!. As we get older, even if we're still young, we figure out how our bodies work!. And not all of it works perfectly!.

And what's so bad about the kidney infection!? That's easy to fix!. Lots of people get that - it's really common!. Even kidney stones aren't that hard to prevent once you pass the ones you have!.

Also, I am worried about the heart murmur!. Eating disorders put a lot of stress on the heart!. In fact, that's a side-effect of extreme eating disorder - heart problems!.

You really need to get yourself healthy!. I hope you feel better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sorry 2 here this!.!.!.!.but i also have no friends i mean if u can make a fist u can count my friends!.!.!.!.why did god like "damned" us its not fair and they say god loves us i must been the last in line and he got "horsed" as i was being made!.!.!.but i look at it this way its not what u got but who u got in this world and u still have ur parents so ur not alone and ur no burden to them they love u like u love them!.!.!.!.u know i talk to god all the time u can talk to him even standing with ur eyes open ppl say pray i say just commute with him i think god gave u and who knows how many more dieses to show us its not over yet but as i write this i wonder if im so sick here then why even be born in the 1st place!.!.!.!.!.it like the world is like a training field of life too bad im wounded and all but im far from dead so just stick around till its ur time to go dont rush it ok!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ask!. Seek!. Knock!.

http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=AUI1SeYkf!.!.!.

You are sad and lonely and it doesn't have to be that way!. I am very much like you, not many friends and no boyfriend!. I don't think I'm pretty, but life doesn't have to be monotonous and boring!. Go out of your way to do things!. Get off the sofa and paint!. Take a walk and take pictures around town!. Do something you love!. Take your mom or a friend out to your favorite restaurant!. Do something for yourself, because you are important and you are loved!. Feel better!. God bless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You sound like you are very depressed and hyperfocusing on what is wrong!. Kidney infections and stones go away w/short treatment!. Heart murmors can be no big deal (I have one)!. Eating disorder is something you can work on overcoming!. Sleep disorders often have everything to do with depression, and sometimes with eating disorders!. Bad skin issues probably ties back in to eating disorder!. In sum, your doctor can fix the kidney issues!. Depression and eating disorder are things that you can get help on working thru!. Get an experienced therapist and a good doc!. Your life does not have to be the way it is, but you have to reach out to make it different!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

God loves you, and you are precious to Him!. The Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation, and qualifying us to Heaven!. Just come to Jesus with genuine repentance and faith and you will be saved for eternity!. Heaven is wonderful beyond description and forever without end!. Never miss Heaven for anything of this troubled world!. Life on earth is short and uncertain!. Get right with God before it is too late!. Best wishes for happiness and Heaven! (read Bible and know truth)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why do the wicked prosper while the rightous suffer, why does it rain on the good and evil alike and why oh why me!?
Who knows why, we're powerless over many things including our health as well!. Tell your Doctor, and/or see a psychiatrist don't use unprescribed drugs or drink; find a support group and take your meds!. You need help, that's why you posted here!. Find some friends that really understand how you feel!. Join a support group go to church get some phone numbers Don't wallow in sorrow let the misery of yesterday pay for the sorrows of tomorrow!. Live free today!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you feel like!. Only person I can truly talk to is my counsellor (I am 13 by the way!.) I have emenia, sever depression, severe anxiety, OCD with cutting, and picking on scabs, eating + sleeping disorder!. It's hard when theres other people out there with a "normal" and happy life!. I think you're taking everything all at once - break it down!.
1!. Work - try finding a job that suits you and that you enjoy! You can try completing online surveys!. Look up jobs on the classifieds, and the internet!.
2!. Medicine - If you had a job, you can pay for your medication!. It's really important to take your meds, so perhaps you can make a montly plan with your doctor/pharmist!.
3!. Friends - Do you go to school at all!? If yes, find new ways to break the ice and start conversations with them!. If you don't, you should really consider going to college/university and follow your dreams!. Set goals for yourself! For now, go to public places!.
If you need to talk e-mail or message me: coldlava@hotmail!.com
I would give you more advice, but umm you know!. :P
So basically, break everything down and come up with solutions!. Remember, its not a big deal! I also suggest you talk to a counsellor/therapist!. I really hope things will go great for you soon! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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