Having trouble putting myself out there?!
Question: Having trouble putting myself out there!?
Hey there, so I'm going to be a sophomore next year in high school!. I have always been shy, I have a hard time being outgoing and such!. I tend to keep to myself!. I hate working in groups, I don't feel comfortable around guys!. :/ Help!? I want to be more outgoing and just fun, but I've always been shy, and I don't know what to say around other people!. Any advice on how I can becoming a bit more outgoing!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
If their's one thing I learned the hard way in high school, it's: don't try to be someone you aren't just to fit in!!
Some poeple are introvert and others extrovert!.!.!.You seem to be introvert and that is a good thing!! It means you prefer lasting relationship than having a big quantity of empty relationships, and staying in instead of partying, you think before talking (or taking action), you are a person that keeps her word when she promises something!.!.!.And you are a perfectly normal and smart person!!!
I'll admit, the groupe work stuff sucks but, suck it in an go through it!As for friends, I'm sure the friends you have (and will have) are greatfull for who you are!!! If you just try to fit in, you'll blend yourself away and loose toutch with yourself!.!.!.!.Don't let that happen!!
I went from shy to extrovert and ended up with having users and abusers as "friends"!.!.!.And believe me, you don't need to know THAT kind of people!! The worst thing is, the good people I wanted to be around didn't see me as a good person once I had changed (to fit in!.!.!.)!.!.!.I lost my chances in having really great relationships in my life!.
Stay true to yourself and you'll see: good things will come to you and next thing you know, the people behind you will have your back just as you will have theirs!. Why be like everybody else!!? Accept the true beauty that you are and you will shine!!!
Good luck;) Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some poeple are introvert and others extrovert!.!.!.You seem to be introvert and that is a good thing!! It means you prefer lasting relationship than having a big quantity of empty relationships, and staying in instead of partying, you think before talking (or taking action), you are a person that keeps her word when she promises something!.!.!.And you are a perfectly normal and smart person!!!
I'll admit, the groupe work stuff sucks but, suck it in an go through it!As for friends, I'm sure the friends you have (and will have) are greatfull for who you are!!! If you just try to fit in, you'll blend yourself away and loose toutch with yourself!.!.!.!.Don't let that happen!!
I went from shy to extrovert and ended up with having users and abusers as "friends"!.!.!.And believe me, you don't need to know THAT kind of people!! The worst thing is, the good people I wanted to be around didn't see me as a good person once I had changed (to fit in!.!.!.)!.!.!.I lost my chances in having really great relationships in my life!.
Stay true to yourself and you'll see: good things will come to you and next thing you know, the people behind you will have your back just as you will have theirs!. Why be like everybody else!!? Accept the true beauty that you are and you will shine!!!
Good luck;) Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just be your self!.
Last school year I hanged around a group of people that did not care about how I looked or any of that other stuff!.
They just liked me for me because I just started to be me and keep my self under control!.
Like sometimes I felt like they was going to laugh at me or put me down for sometime but I just faked that I was not shy!.
Just fake it really!.!.!.even if you are shy!.!.!.fake that your not and have fath in your self!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Last school year I hanged around a group of people that did not care about how I looked or any of that other stuff!.
They just liked me for me because I just started to be me and keep my self under control!.
Like sometimes I felt like they was going to laugh at me or put me down for sometime but I just faked that I was not shy!.
Just fake it really!.!.!.even if you are shy!.!.!.fake that your not and have fath in your self!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Practice!. Role playing!. Build up your self esteem by overcoming challenges!. Excersise!. Maratial arts!. Going to places where you are likely to get approached first so that you don't have to make the first moves!. But also, love yourself for the way you are, your shyness as well!Www@Answer-Health@Com