How can I teach myself to not care what others think?!


Question: How can I teach myself to not care what others think!?
I am very self conscious and I always care what other think of me!. I am so hard on myself if I do something wrong and I am unhappy with the way I look!. I am tired of feeling this way !. !. !.what can I do!?
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Answers:
There isn't a person in this world that doesn't or hasn't felt the way that you do!. There isn't a cure all for the feelings that you have!. But you are who you are, and there is only one you!. Who really cares what people think of you!? If they don't like the way you look or act, too bad!.!.!.you're you, they can like it or not!. You weren't put here to please anyone!. You need to learn to be happy with you and who you are!.!.!.the rest will fall into place!. Things will be different a few years down the road!. People come and go in your life, but you will always be there!. Love who you are, look at the good things that you have and do, and don't worry about other people's opinions of you!. !.It really makes NO difference!.
You're the only you on this planet!.!.!.enjoy it!

Best Wishes

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It's your self-esteem that needs some tweaking!. You are half way there because this is something that you are aware of and you seem to want to change!. That really is half the battle, becoming aware that the way you think is having an affect on your life!.

Therefore, I would talk with a therapist who can teach you how to boost your self-esteem or at the very least, you can do some research on your own on self-esteem and the issue's invovled when we have a low opinion of ourselves!.

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You're starting to resolve this, believe it or not: Now, that you've identified what you're unconfortable with and what you want to do about it, you need to practice validating your own ideas!. Everybody makes mistakes but if you can make that up and don't keep making the same mistake, that's the thing to do!. Do not give up good judgement though!. Just because people tell you what they think, it doesn't always mean they're wrong!. Discuss what ideas other people have that make you uneasy with someone who has better experience, such as a counselor or trusted family member!. Don't carry everything on your own back!. Ask for help with hard things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There's a saying called:
-Live
-Love
-Laugh

You think this way because you think that you aren't as perfect as everyone want you to be!. But think about living happily and there's also another old saying called "Nobody is perfect"!. Don't be so hard on yourself and live life like any happy person would :]

Learn to love yourself, you are what you think you are!. Think that you are the best and you are also shining!. You aren't dull and you can't be perfect!. I mean, nobody can! So love yourself and be self-confident!.

Laugh!. Take advice from other people but don't change because of what they are saying!. They aren't you and they can never be you!. Laugh it off and smile in life!. Life is too short to not enjoy! :D


Good Luck!.
?C!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you're religious or believe in God, think that he is the only one who will decide what happens in your life (old saying: only God can judge me)

If you don't believe in God, think that what that person says is just a way his mouth makes a movement and sound comes out, I can make up a word and mean it offensive, but then again!.!.!.!. what's the purpose if I'm nobody you love or care about!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Fake it! Just start walking around thinking that you are the most beautiful, talented, intelligent person you can think of and it will start to show in how you carry yourself!. Maybe other people will notice it too!

But if you keep doing that, eventually it will come naturally to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

be yourself
be happy
and be confident
just believe in yourself, if you care so much about what others think that you end up hurting yourself mentally in the end, than you are not being your self and need some helpWww@Answer-Health@Com





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