Why do I always want everything?!


Question: Why do I always want everything!?
ok please don't say mean comments!. I know I'm a spoiled brat but i can't stop! Can someone help me!? I am getting a bit better!.!. i try saving money to buy it myself!.!.!. but i mean, my parents arent rich!.!. and my mom just lost her job!.!. and i want the new samsung instinct phone!.!.!. whats rong with me!?

is there a name for this condition!? or am i simply spoiled!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Maybe you are empty and you want to buy more and more to feel happy inside!?

The good thing is that you know that you have issues and that you are trying to get better!.!.!.!.

How old are you!? If you are old enough try to find a job and that way you will value money a little more and you will spend money in a responsible way!.
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As humans we tend to suffer from what is called "unlimited wants", we focus on something, believe it will satisfy some urgent need and seek to obtain it, it might be a phone, music system, car, house, boat, and the list goes on!. We have always been this way, but consumerism has encouraged this aspect of our humanity!. Marketing is devoted to tweaking our unlimited wants with beliefs that having some particular material item will make us happier, more fulfilled, satisfied, equal, advantaged, glowing, slimmer, more attractive etc!.

Being surrounded by these messages warps our true needs out of perspective!. A mobile phone is a mobile phone, if you have one that works then you should fight your irrational want for a different one and put your savings to other things!. Perhaps gift part of them to your mum since she lost her job!. Find the joy in that!. It will far exceed whatever short term fix you might get from a new mobile!.

Don't be hard on yourself!. I spoil my son something shocking!. Its a parents prerogative to want their kids to have what they missed out on or just to have the best opportunities!. The condition is being human, we all suffer it and we all try and moderate it, yet homes are full of must have items that have been purchased, hardly used and discarded!.

Be safe, be sageWww@Answer-Health@Com

You always want what you can't have!. With your mother losing her job, you need to be responsible with your movie!. If you're old enough to have a phone, you're most likely old enough to have a job, so babysit, mow lawns, whatever it takes to subsidize your spending!. I believe that yes, you are a bit spoiled, but it's great that you realize this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my sister basically does the same thing!. she finds something that she wants, and it's always really expensive or not practical!. she gets obsessive over it, and that will be the only thing she talks about for weeks!. for example, she wants that same phone, and a limo now!. in the past she's wanted numerous cell phones,a hedgehog, a laptop, a chincilla, a ferret, an expensive watch, brand name clothing, a digital camera, an iPod nano, an ipod touch, and MANY more things!. most of the stuff that she wanted last month, she wouldn't take now if it was free!. she actually bought the ipod, and took i back because she didn't want it anymore!. she also got the digital camera for christmas, and who knows where it is now!. all you have to do is retain from buying it, and eventually you'll get over it!. it might be hard, but it will get easier!. think of all the people who are living on the street and could use the money from your cell phone to survive!. think of all the things you do have and don't focus on the things you don't!. You'll be a lot happier :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's human nature to want things!.
I see a new video game!.!.!. I'm an only child and I know that if I ask, my mom will buy it for me, even if it means she doesn't buy something for herself!. It feels terrible!.
The best thing to do, or what I've found helps a lot, is to be less adamant that you get whatever it is you want!. Think about what you've got at home, and be glad for it; my mom is a single parent and spoils me more than I deserve!. Just put forth your best effort and I'm sure it'll be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

simply spoiled alot of people are at your age!. your parents probably helped !. When u get out in the real world your in for a rude awakening!.
try to save up for it on your own , youll appreciate what u have more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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