My life sucks! i need advise and help!??!
Question: My life sucks! i need advise and help!!?!?
i been single since my ex bf of less then a month cheated on me!.!. i was crushing on another guy the whole time (which is prob why he took that as a sign of dis-intrest and his mind started to wounder around) and i missed my chance with my crush because i thought i was making a good decision by leaving my old school from all the drama that had happend!.!.!. all this was since year 2007 its now 2008 and all i been doing this year was focusing on my studys at an alternative school!.!. where you work at your own pace and its more felxibible!.!.!. i haven't had a job since i got fierd from my last one, i missed out on prom because at my alternative school they dont have one!.!.!.!. i talk to pratically none of my friends since i left my old school in 07!.!. (my new school everyone is working independntly and were not allowed to talk to anyone)!.!.!. Im taking my drivers course in 2 weeks!.!.!. but i still feel like crap!.!.!. this year my social life sucked and i miss the drama of my old one!.!.!. this was suppose to be my senior year!.!. and most of my friends are going to univierstiy next year!.!. and i will see NONE of them!.!. including my crush!.!.!.!. i want a new bf to get my mind off things but getting a job seems impossible (to meet new ppl)!.!.!. im 17 and applied pratically everywhere (since my last job) and no calls back except a few that were FAAAR from my house!.!.!. i feel like crap and i will be going to univiersity in 2 years (cause im upgrading my applied coursed to academic)!.!. and on top of that i have a crappy sister who constantly puts me down is rude and out of controll (shes 14Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You're such a typical teenager!. I'm sorry, but you are!. Complaining about absolutely nothing!. Do you have any idea how lucky you are!? I went through fifty times worse when I was growing up and yet I always remained positive!. Who cares if you missed your prom!? Will it affect you for the rest of your life!? You're complaining because you changed schools to escape drama and now you want it back!? That's your mistake, and you have to learn to deal with it like an adult instead of like a child!.
And as for your sister!.!.!. Hello! That's what siblings do!Www@Answer-Health@Com
And as for your sister!.!.!. Hello! That's what siblings do!Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are children starving in underdeveloped countries right now, and you're complaining that you missed out on prom!.
Please try to put things into perspective, there are much worse things than having a brat for a sister!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please try to put things into perspective, there are much worse things than having a brat for a sister!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow you're dumb!. That's life SO many people have it 1934 times worse then you, grow the **** up and stop self pitying your self!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
pray about it! Trust me someone!.!. has it worst than you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
BTW sexayy is an idiot!.!.!.
You need to rethink your life!. Is this alternative school working for you!? It doesn't sound like it is offering you much in the way of socializing!. It's like having a job that secludes you in the backroom without talking to anyone 8 hours a day!. Some would go crazy! School (and work) is where we go to meet people, to learn to socialize and get along with others!. You are missing out!. I can understand if you weren't relating to your other school, or not doing well, but there are different aspects of school you need to consider!. Can you join some kind of extra curricular clubs for socialization!? Sports teams!? Forget the ex-boyfriend!. What happened to the guy you were crushing on!? Go for him!. Find someone you really like so your attention stays instead of wandering!. But don't let a lack of a boyfriend get you down!. Be happy with yourself first!. Getting a job right now is HARD with the economy the way it is, not only that summer is almost over so summer help has been hired!. Sisters are crappy anyway - not much you can do about that!.!.!.It sounds like you are still in school so there is still opportunity to go to a prom if you desire, but it's much more fun to go to a prom with your friends!.
Bottom Line: Strive to be happy!. Find things that excite you!. Read to get ideas!. Learn things that are interesting and then find people who share these interests!. Ask yourself if the alternative school is working for you!? Now that you know what it's like, can you go back to your old school and be successful!? This is often what happens to young adults who are out of school - they start losing their friendships because people grow up and have different interests and they feel very secluded and alone!. Find your interests and your passions and people who will share them!. Life doesn't suck - it's just the way life is!. Learn to get a control over it or life will run you over! Good luck!. You deserve the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to rethink your life!. Is this alternative school working for you!? It doesn't sound like it is offering you much in the way of socializing!. It's like having a job that secludes you in the backroom without talking to anyone 8 hours a day!. Some would go crazy! School (and work) is where we go to meet people, to learn to socialize and get along with others!. You are missing out!. I can understand if you weren't relating to your other school, or not doing well, but there are different aspects of school you need to consider!. Can you join some kind of extra curricular clubs for socialization!? Sports teams!? Forget the ex-boyfriend!. What happened to the guy you were crushing on!? Go for him!. Find someone you really like so your attention stays instead of wandering!. But don't let a lack of a boyfriend get you down!. Be happy with yourself first!. Getting a job right now is HARD with the economy the way it is, not only that summer is almost over so summer help has been hired!. Sisters are crappy anyway - not much you can do about that!.!.!.It sounds like you are still in school so there is still opportunity to go to a prom if you desire, but it's much more fun to go to a prom with your friends!.
Bottom Line: Strive to be happy!. Find things that excite you!. Read to get ideas!. Learn things that are interesting and then find people who share these interests!. Ask yourself if the alternative school is working for you!? Now that you know what it's like, can you go back to your old school and be successful!? This is often what happens to young adults who are out of school - they start losing their friendships because people grow up and have different interests and they feel very secluded and alone!. Find your interests and your passions and people who will share them!. Life doesn't suck - it's just the way life is!. Learn to get a control over it or life will run you over! Good luck!. You deserve the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Girl your life doesnt suck, its normal, happens to a lot of girls! Being a teenage girl is rough, and so is high school!. I never got to go to my Sr!. Prom either and I missed out on a lot of my friends too, but it was b!.c my ex bf, was really jealous and controlling!. Dont fret it, life happens for a reason and all this will pass and you'll be a better person b!.c of it!. I felt the same way, but now I dont even talk to them people anymore and when I do hear about em, their life is kinda crappy, lol! Maybe this is gods way of tellin ya you need a fresh start! Girl take advantage, step out, get some new friends, let school be school and get into new locations and find new people to mingle with!. WORK!.!.!.!.bah ha ha ha, WELCOME TO AMERICA 2008!! NOBODY is having much luck there!!! The job market sucks, but one thing that is ALWAYS hiring is daycares, they'll probably pay min!. wage but its better then nothing! Try em out, theres a million around everywhere! SISTERS!.!.!.ahhhh younger ones expecially, gotta love em! 14 yrs old is the worst, their all snotty and bratty, let em be, I hated my sister, and im sure she hated me, I was the younger one and messed with her, but now we're best friends! DONT EVER Let family get too far outta reach! Need anymore help email me!.!.!. jenashsims@yahoo!.com later girl! Chin up, get some confidence in yourself and FEEL it, go to school with your shoulders back and chest out, do your walk and do your work and go home!. The friends that dont hang around dont belong anyway! -ash-Www@Answer-Health@Com