Am I insane or a normal teen?!
Question: Am I insane or a normal teen!?
I tend to be emotionally all over the place sometimes!.
I'm easily upset because I'm not comfortable in my own skin and sometimes feel like people are staring at me!. In one of my previous questions it states my body type and I know i'm not fat!.
But everyone seems so judgemental and I feel so flabtacular!.
But also randomly i feel insecure and upset and overwhelmed with emotion its scarey!.
I don't get it as bad because I can talk to my boyfriend about it whenever, he's understanding!.
But I'm scared that if we don't last that I might fall back into bad routines!?
Am I insane!? Or just a normal teenager!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm easily upset because I'm not comfortable in my own skin and sometimes feel like people are staring at me!. In one of my previous questions it states my body type and I know i'm not fat!.
But everyone seems so judgemental and I feel so flabtacular!.
But also randomly i feel insecure and upset and overwhelmed with emotion its scarey!.
I don't get it as bad because I can talk to my boyfriend about it whenever, he's understanding!.
But I'm scared that if we don't last that I might fall back into bad routines!?
Am I insane!? Or just a normal teenager!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
first of all YOUR NOT INSANE!!!
It sounds like you are an emotional person!. when considering age it can be normal (teens), sometimes it can be hormone related!.
To me (my personal opinion) it could be a number of things, first it sounds like you have low self-esteem and maybe some anxiety in social aspects, i think most teens will experience anxiety during the highschool years and most of the time is it for different reasons for each person!. and in highschool everyone can and is judgemental, i think the best thing is to ignore it , you have to remember highschool is not where the world starts, once highschool is over life begins and everyone (well mostly everyone) loses that highschool 'popularity' mentality!.
summing it up, low self-esteem, possible anxiety!. and i think to consider whether you could have depression you would need to list more details!.
also its always important to find that someone you can talk to and thats great that you are telling you bf, this will help strengthen your relationship in emotional and mental bonds!. And i mean no1 can say whether a relationship will last or not, but if you feel you dont have anyone else in 'people' world you can always vent in cyber land like you have now, and you wont have to feel as judged because you have that incognito factor online so you wont have to worry about feeling personally attacke donline because ppl dont know you on here!. and just remember that for the outside world too- people can always judge ( its human nature) but remember most of the time they dont know they whole story and if they arent someone who matters to you then their opinions shouldnt worry u!. i know its easier sed than done and unfortunately there is no magic sentence that can make it all better!.
If you are really concerned perhaps seeing the school counseller or a counseller outside of school if thats better for you!. there are counsellers you can see who are paid by the government so they a free!.!.!.
i hope this helps!. i hope u know ure not insane!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you are an emotional person!. when considering age it can be normal (teens), sometimes it can be hormone related!.
To me (my personal opinion) it could be a number of things, first it sounds like you have low self-esteem and maybe some anxiety in social aspects, i think most teens will experience anxiety during the highschool years and most of the time is it for different reasons for each person!. and in highschool everyone can and is judgemental, i think the best thing is to ignore it , you have to remember highschool is not where the world starts, once highschool is over life begins and everyone (well mostly everyone) loses that highschool 'popularity' mentality!.
summing it up, low self-esteem, possible anxiety!. and i think to consider whether you could have depression you would need to list more details!.
also its always important to find that someone you can talk to and thats great that you are telling you bf, this will help strengthen your relationship in emotional and mental bonds!. And i mean no1 can say whether a relationship will last or not, but if you feel you dont have anyone else in 'people' world you can always vent in cyber land like you have now, and you wont have to feel as judged because you have that incognito factor online so you wont have to worry about feeling personally attacke donline because ppl dont know you on here!. and just remember that for the outside world too- people can always judge ( its human nature) but remember most of the time they dont know they whole story and if they arent someone who matters to you then their opinions shouldnt worry u!. i know its easier sed than done and unfortunately there is no magic sentence that can make it all better!.
If you are really concerned perhaps seeing the school counseller or a counseller outside of school if thats better for you!. there are counsellers you can see who are paid by the government so they a free!.!.!.
i hope this helps!. i hope u know ure not insane!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You hit the nail on the head yourself - everyone seems to be so judgemental!.
Now take this 'everyone'!. Are they are perfect!? By the very act of being judgemental, aren't they themselves flawed!? That's the problem, people have an opinion on everyone else, and don't often turn that analyst onto themselves because they are scared of what they will have see!. Judgemental people are insecure and undiplomatic!. They should keep their opinions to themselves!.
Do not listen to them!. It doesn't matter what body type you have - you shouldn't take what people say on board because the source cannot be trusted!. Once you learn to filter out what people are saying, you should feel a lot better!. Stop putting pressure on yourself and accept that it's okay to have an off day every now and then, but don't let anyone else be the judge of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Now take this 'everyone'!. Are they are perfect!? By the very act of being judgemental, aren't they themselves flawed!? That's the problem, people have an opinion on everyone else, and don't often turn that analyst onto themselves because they are scared of what they will have see!. Judgemental people are insecure and undiplomatic!. They should keep their opinions to themselves!.
Do not listen to them!. It doesn't matter what body type you have - you shouldn't take what people say on board because the source cannot be trusted!. Once you learn to filter out what people are saying, you should feel a lot better!. Stop putting pressure on yourself and accept that it's okay to have an off day every now and then, but don't let anyone else be the judge of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know what you mean!. I look at myself in the mirror and think god i look fat and i cant even walk to the shops without thinking is that person looking at me and if they are , are they looking because im fat!? Its actually quite normal to feel that way but dont take it to heart!. You know you are beautiful, your bf thinks your beautiful the people around you think your beautiful so why should it matter that strangers think your not if thats the case!? You have nothing to prove to anyone so be proud of who you are and dont let anyone else tell you what you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im the same, it is just nerves, anxiety!.!.!. the norm!. it is ok!. actually i feel a bit insecure and disorientated at the moment!. haha
you gotta love life, either way Www@Answer-Health@Com
you gotta love life, either way Www@Answer-Health@Com
if your really worried about it go see a phsycologist!.!.!.sometimes teens expirience it more then others for chemical reasons that can be fixed!. but your not insane silly insane people see things and hear things and have multiple personalities n stuffWww@Answer-Health@Com
your just a normal teenager!. take a copy of your question and read it again in a couple of years and then you will see!. just try and enjoy yourself whist your still youngWww@Answer-Health@Com
You sound just like my girlfriend! you are
completely normal! its just teenage
hormones she thinks everyone looks
at her as well!! so its ok just calm down!!
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completely normal! its just teenage
hormones she thinks everyone looks
at her as well!! so its ok just calm down!!
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you're completly normal!.
i feel like that too sometimes
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take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
i feel like that too sometimes
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take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
You arent insane you just are really shy, or have low self esteem , from what i seeWww@Answer-Health@Com
you are a normal teenager just make sure you always have someone to talk toWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just becuase your emotional doesnt mean you insane! Just keep being yourself!. !.!.!.xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Theres people who act like you to normal thingWww@Answer-Health@Com
i guess its just normal to feel like this!.
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just insane you are right where you suppose to be!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi there, dontworry, im in the same boat as you!. i left interstate to live closer to my mom as she is the one who brought me to this country to have better life (AUSTRALIA) and now she and i moved to different state, i lost heaps of friends, only got 1 or 2 around but i never see them anymore, from a high level social phobia/anxiety and i overcome that!. However, before the anxiety problems i've had, i used to live with my ex partner, which she was all great meanings to me, my other half i call her!. Then times comes that life and nature just need to change that i lost her, and thas where anxiety and all that starts!. But in the end of the line, and the only person you got is -yourself- Just live life, let life live inside you coz nature will be in your side to give you the right path just for YOU!. :) Www@Answer-Health@Com
hello!. i believe that this is completely normal!. everyone feels all over the place sometimes!. trust me, i know how you feel!. i get upset for the most unreasonable reason!. but then i get over it!.
sometimes everyone isn't comfortable by the way they look or the way they act!. i have people stare at me all the time, just because I'm different to other people, because i dress different or i look different or even ACT different!. people can be very judge metal these days!.
sometimes when I'm low, like really drained, i go hypo!. yea i think this is not normal but its not NOT normal!. do you get what i mean!? your really lucky that you have someone to talk to!. because i know i don't!.
you seem like a person who needs to relay on other people, i hope you two never break up!. and if you do, you always have your trusted friends and I'm pretty sure if you do break up ill will still be good friends, no matter what!.
i hope this changes your mind, to be more confident and just don't care about what other people think!. as long as you think your normal and like the way you are, don't let anyone change you!. :)
good luck! Www@Answer-Health@Com
sometimes everyone isn't comfortable by the way they look or the way they act!. i have people stare at me all the time, just because I'm different to other people, because i dress different or i look different or even ACT different!. people can be very judge metal these days!.
sometimes when I'm low, like really drained, i go hypo!. yea i think this is not normal but its not NOT normal!. do you get what i mean!? your really lucky that you have someone to talk to!. because i know i don't!.
you seem like a person who needs to relay on other people, i hope you two never break up!. and if you do, you always have your trusted friends and I'm pretty sure if you do break up ill will still be good friends, no matter what!.
i hope this changes your mind, to be more confident and just don't care about what other people think!. as long as you think your normal and like the way you are, don't let anyone change you!. :)
good luck! Www@Answer-Health@Com