Some ppl think my mom is narsisstic!
Question: Some ppl think my mom is narsisstic
hi my mom is narsisstic(spelling)!.!.!.she never took care of me when i was little and just put me in front of the tv!.!.!.when she left my dad and i!.!.!.the only time she would see me was when he had money for her!.!.!.and even then she didn't really pay attention to my sister and I!.!.!.just sat us infront of the t!.v!.!.!.!.i lived with her last year!.!.!.and she stole alot of money out of my bank account while i was in the hospital!.!.!.she also put my name of a union gas account with no intention to pay the bills (i did not know about the account!.!.!.until i found an unopen bill that was 3 months old)!.!.!.so i had to take her to the police and then moved back with my dad!.!.!.she didn't even care!.!.!.she showed no remorse for what she did!.!.!.any of it!.!.!.!.before that tho when i was little she stole alot of money from her work and had to go to jail and the police officer who came and got her said she showed no remorse for that either!.!.!.!.since the incedent when she stole my money!.!.!.and i left she has made no attempt to call or write or anything at all!.!.!.no birthday card or christmas or even a call to say merry christmas or happy birthday!.!.!.the last time i saw her was at my work on christmas eve (i work in retail she was shopping) and i made eye contact with her and she gave me this cold terrible stare and i had an anxiety attack!.!.!.i knew she didn't love me!.!.!.but i didn't know she hated me :( !.!.!.is any of this my fault !.!.!.does anybody know anything about narcisissm!?
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marissa :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
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People with narcissistic personality disorder believe they are entitled to whatever they want- no matter who it belongs to!. They also have a sense of being "special" people, so regular rules, laws, morals don't apply to them!. Once they are unable to use people, they will drop them like hot potatoes!. It is a very difficult disorder to treat because these people think they're fine- they won't recognize that their actions are anti-social!. There is no way anyone's child could cause a mother to act the way yours has- it's the mom's stuff- not yours!. You might want to get some counseling just to get over what she has done to you!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Narcissistic personality is a possiblility but really anti-social personality disorder is just as likely from what I've read!. In any case none of it is your fault!. People like that do not change!. I hope you can find a way to move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This was a very sad story to read :( This is NOWHERE close to be your fault! It's your mother who did everything wrong!.
Hope this helps!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope this helps!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dude uh none of that is your fault!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and your mom is not narssistic she's just a ***** and sorry you had to read that but its true forget about her and move on with your life!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and shes the main reason you have anxiety her leaving you and taking your money triggered it now you probably have no trust for most people and its probaby effecting your relationship with other people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Those behaviors seem to fit narcissism pretty well!. I feel for you!. Don't hold it against yourself!. It it NOT your fault!
You didn't say how old your mother was when you were born!. I suspect she might have been young, and not ready to accept responsibility!. Was she a child herself when you were born!?
How about drugs or alcohol!? Does she have any problems with substance abuse!. I know some people who love their children, they really do, but they love their drugs a little more!. That isn't right!.
Be thankful you have a father that you can live with!. Hang in there!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You didn't say how old your mother was when you were born!. I suspect she might have been young, and not ready to accept responsibility!. Was she a child herself when you were born!?
How about drugs or alcohol!? Does she have any problems with substance abuse!. I know some people who love their children, they really do, but they love their drugs a little more!. That isn't right!.
Be thankful you have a father that you can live with!. Hang in there!. Www@Answer-Health@Com