Help i'm really messed up ..please reply.!
Question: Help i'm really messed up !.!.please reply!.
Hi,
There has been some development today, I was talking with my mother about what happened to me while I was younger!.
What mum was saying is completely different than I remember!. What my mind see is this guy picking me up from school and when we visited the friends he was staying with taking me in his room!.
But mum was telling me that that never happened!. she was the one who always picked me up from school!. and the guy I thought sexually abused me, was never alone with me!.
I'm so confused, now after my head has cleared I feel that mum is telling the truth, I'm starting to remember thing differently!.
Why when I had my breakdown did I see things like that!. I was sure I was abuse!. I'm so confused about it all!.
But at the same time I feel like it didn't happen
or i don't know if its my BPD playing tricks on me and the abuse really didn't happen! the more i think it didn't happen
anyone with Bpd or anything can you please help me please!.!.!?
i see a counseller twice a week and i though't i was but as it turns out i was not abused but we thought this was repressed memories but i don't think i was abused at all i'm so confused please help meWww@Answer-Health@Com
There has been some development today, I was talking with my mother about what happened to me while I was younger!.
What mum was saying is completely different than I remember!. What my mind see is this guy picking me up from school and when we visited the friends he was staying with taking me in his room!.
But mum was telling me that that never happened!. she was the one who always picked me up from school!. and the guy I thought sexually abused me, was never alone with me!.
I'm so confused, now after my head has cleared I feel that mum is telling the truth, I'm starting to remember thing differently!.
Why when I had my breakdown did I see things like that!. I was sure I was abuse!. I'm so confused about it all!.
But at the same time I feel like it didn't happen
or i don't know if its my BPD playing tricks on me and the abuse really didn't happen! the more i think it didn't happen
anyone with Bpd or anything can you please help me please!.!.!?
i see a counseller twice a week and i though't i was but as it turns out i was not abused but we thought this was repressed memories but i don't think i was abused at all i'm so confused please help meWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It is good that you are seeing a Counselor and you should talk to them about this issue!. Most people with BPD were abused and if you have read any of the literature you probably know this!. Also, with BPD's there usually are some problems with the main caregiver, the mother!. So I would wonder if your mother also has some problems!. Just because she says it did not happen does not mean it didn't!. She could also be in a place where she would not be able to accept the fact that she did not protect you so she is denying anything happened!.
However, there are also cases where people have thought something happened and it did not!. This is why you and your Counselor should explore these areas!. You mother can not be objective about these things but your counselor can!.
For your information:
Borderline Personality Disorder is a serious psychiatric disorder!. The person usually has mood swings and is often depressed!. They have serious problems with relationship going from idolizing to devaluing and then back again!. They have a great fear of being abandon and do not like to be alone!. Their overall sense of self is unstable!. They don
However, there are also cases where people have thought something happened and it did not!. This is why you and your Counselor should explore these areas!. You mother can not be objective about these things but your counselor can!.
For your information:
Borderline Personality Disorder is a serious psychiatric disorder!. The person usually has mood swings and is often depressed!. They have serious problems with relationship going from idolizing to devaluing and then back again!. They have a great fear of being abandon and do not like to be alone!. Their overall sense of self is unstable!. They don
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