I think i may have caused somebodys death!!


Question: I think i may have caused somebodys death!
ok it all started at school the other day, my friend (who is emo btw) came up to me (im a male and so is he) and asked me out, and i said "no im straight" i thought he was joking so i started laughing, than he just ran outta the gates and than a couple of hours later i found out that he jumped off a bridge and died! i feel so guilty! and to be honest i feel like killing myself to!!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Oh well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well that sucks!. You can't control how people respond to you only how you respond to others!. You had no way to control what you friend would or would not do!. It stinks that he killed himself!. I an sorry for your loss!. Don't make it a double loss!. You hang in there and it will get better!. I've lost friends to suicide!. You just hang in there!. If for no other reason than Jesus and Nathan love you and want you to have a long life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't blame yourself man!. IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT!. This friend was probably on the edge for a long time and would have done the act sooner or later!. He had a major problem and needed a professional!. If he was going to do it then he was going to do it!. You cannot be blamed for someone else's decision!. You cannot blame yourself either!. Your friend was obviously unbalanced to begin with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

YOU DID NOT CAUSE THIS DEATH!
he was emotionally unstable and never realised that life has future moments worth living no matter how bad the present!.
This is not comforting but my guess is reality hit him it was his fault not yours before he fell , or as he was falling!.
Don't kill yourself, life has moments worth living no matter how bad the present!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, you did not cause his death!. He was obviously troubled all along!. Perhaps his "emo" persona was covering up his homosexuality!. You had no idea!. It is not your fault so don't blame yourself!. I"m sorry about your friend!. If it keeps troubling you please seek professional help!. You did nothing wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

In later years, you will learn that you can not control what other people think or do!. He had a choice of whether or not to jump!. So it is not your fault he chose the later of the 2!. I understand the feeling of guilt on your part, but you HAVE TO KNOW it is not your fault!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

sometimes we just don't see things even when there right in front of us,I don't think you should blame yourself or do anything as such!.
I think this kid may have had dark seated thoughts prior to approaching you , and asking you out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

don't kill ur self, it wasn't your fault!. You're straight and he had to learn to accept that instead of acting so immature!. He died and that's a tragic loss but you have to move on!. You shouldn't feel guilty!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

nah, just another straw in his big bale of straws going on in his life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

whats your question !?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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