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Question: Problem!?!!!!!?!?!!?!!?!!?!!?!
Im 16 yr old male, and need help!.!.!. i talk like a girl and act more like one more than i do a dude!.!.!.!. how can i talk and act more like a dude!.!.!. because i feel stupid!.!.!. and yes im sure im male lol, im not confused about my gender but just need help any ideas!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Just be yourself!. Ones sexuality or gender does not have to be displayed or stereotyped by specific dress,behaviour or mannerisms!. What does talking and acting like a man mean anyway!? There are billions of men on this Earth!. I am sure you have noticed, just like women, we do not all act in the same way, thank goodness!.
Give yourself time to come to terms with your sexuality and don't panic about it!. If you're gay you're gay, if you're not you're not!. It sounds like you feel that other people know more about things than you - of course some do and some don't!. You sound like you were raised to be kind and thoughtful, to consider others' feelings and to keep out of trouble!. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that!. And nobody is perfect!!!
Like I said - just be yourself!.

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dont take any pills or anything like that!.!.its all about confidence and demeanor!. KNOW your a man and you're in control of what you do!. i mean dont force yourself to do manly things like watching rough sports, eating tons of meat or anything like that!.!.do what you enjoy and be who you are!.!.your sex is male but maybe your gendered female!? (i know you said your not confused!.!.but im just saying it is possible!.!.) its nothing to be ashamed of!.!.plenty of girls like guys like that!.!.!.try to get a girlfriend if you're interested in that, otherwise just kinda be yourself and surround yourself maybe with people who you feel are closer to how you would prefer to be!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You Shouldn't Let It Bother You, Be Your Own Person, Don't Feel Stupid!.
you Can Act However You Like, Nothing Shold Be Stereotyped As Something A Certain Sex Does eg!. Pink Being A Girl's Colour!.
People Near You Will Find It Strange If Your Change, And I Wouldn't Worry About It, Paranoia Makes You Think Things Are Worse Than They Are!.

Hope Everything Works Out For You, And Don't Worry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't try to change just to "fit in"!. You will never be happy that way!. God made you the way he wants you to be and loves you! So be proud of who you are because God is and He doesn't make any mistakes!. He made you special, just like everyone else and true friends will love you no matter what! The way we feel about ourselves and the way we come across as 2 different things!. If you act proud and respectful of who you are, then you will come across that way!. May God touch your heart and let you know that YOU ARE PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well, you have probably hit puberty late
your voice probably hasn't changed yet, and how are you acting like a girl!? but yea, my 16 turning 17 year old neighbor still has a girly voice and has more girl friends than guy friends
so just wait it out and once your voice starts changing, maybe you'll act more manly

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how can you say that you act and talk like a girl!? is that really your own observation!? well, just to answer your question, considering your age, you are still in the adolescent stage!. i'm pretty sure your voice will still develop, as well as your body!. eventually you'll grow out of it!. just wait!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

OH u are Gay then!. Men who are gay have a voice like a girl with a slight lisp!. Or u want a sex change!. Mabye ur voice did'nt change yet!.Wel i am not gey but go to some sports games and go to a strip club!. Hope i helped!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just be yourself!. That's ok!. If people don't accept you, then deal with it and search people that really like you like you were born!. Don't change yourself for people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

don't act like something your not, if your more effeminate then so be it, i know alot of guys like that, just try and stay away from rural areas!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hey dude
Don't worry!. You are who you are!. Maybe it's not bad thing being a bit feminine!.

best of luck with everything :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

sounds like you're gay but if you aren't then use a deeper voice and find something like sports or other guy stuff to try to follow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hang with guy and get intrested in guy things, this is a little wierd, but you'll pull through!. just find guy stuff u'r interested in!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

is your voice changed!?
just try acting like your dude freinds!. But if they do dumb stuff like drugs do not act like them Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe try to get a hair cut try wearing alot of black and alot of boy stuff try a new hair styleWww@Answer-Health@Com

oh your gay well thats why!!!! just be more masculine wear guys clothes and deepen you voice!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am italianWww@Answer-Health@Com

Oo!.
Hormones!.
They'll deepen your voice and put hair on your chest!
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Be yourself and learn to love it, regardless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just be yourself if your freinds are telling you that then they are not rlly your freindsWww@Answer-Health@Com

i agree with the girl above me just wait it out you will become a boy to a man lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

are you straight!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

ok you may be metro!.!.!. wich is not a bad thing!.!.!.!. yor straght but some time tend to act a little feminan!. other wise i wouldent worrrie about it!.!.!. be your self!.!.!. thats all any one is realy looking for!.!.!.!. dont try to chang the way you act for some chick!.

every one acts diffrent twards every diffrent kind of person!.!.!. for example i actct way diffrent with my boyfrind then i do with my best girlfriends!.!.!.!. i do not do it on purpose!.!.!. we all have many diffrent personalitys!.!. and the more variety of people you meet the more your diffrent personalitys will be unlocked!. people tend to influenc you on the way you act around them!.!.!. its just how social behavior works!.

the more you act around sertin people the more you grow!.!. and you can finde a cirtan side of you that you wold never have thought of haveing!.

if you and this chick are cool with eachother they way you already are!.
then you shouldent have to chang for her

ok i red the question wrong!.!.!. but listen dont chang your self!. im shure your awesome!.!.!. you shouldnt care what other people think of you !.!.!.!.!. JUSUT BE YOURSELF!

because thats where the true people come from!. dont be embarsed about the way you talk !.!.!.!.!. thats all i have to sayWww@Answer-Health@Com





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