I am 23, I thought life was meant to be better than this?!
Question: I am 23, I thought life was meant to be better than this!?
I am 23 and have almost no friends, I work doing temporary contracts, so I have breaks in between, I earn about
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i will tell you something about me ,,listen and read it carefully
Through this life i used to think if i have no friends then i m stupid and no fun and horrible that no one would want to be my friend ,
it turned out that horrible ,no fun ,stupid people they have lots of friends and lots of life do you know why!?
Simply
Because people now wants to laugh ,*want a clown to laugh at *
don
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You need to figure out if you are unhappy because you feel like you have no friends, or if you are unhappy because you feel like you cant make any friends, or if you are unhappy because you feel pressured to make friends when you dont want too!.!.!.!.
Take that pressure off yourself and just relax, everyone is different and around this age is where we have to put all that highschool bs behind us and accept ourselfs for who we are, and seek out what makes us happy!.!.!.!.
It might take you a while, you misght need to try new things, you might need to step out of your comfort zone, but its all a jouney and thats life!.!.!.!. and sometimes life is harder that this, and sometimes its better!.!.!.!.
Just remember, if you never change anything, nothing will ever change
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Take that pressure off yourself and just relax, everyone is different and around this age is where we have to put all that highschool bs behind us and accept ourselfs for who we are, and seek out what makes us happy!.!.!.!.
It might take you a while, you misght need to try new things, you might need to step out of your comfort zone, but its all a jouney and thats life!.!.!.!. and sometimes life is harder that this, and sometimes its better!.!.!.!.
Just remember, if you never change anything, nothing will ever change
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Don't try to be like everyone else, you will just be disappointed!. I am different too (I feel like a lonely geek with my video games, my old music and my hobby for black/white photos)!.!.!.
My point is that everyone is different in a way and has fears going out in life!. Just fk all that and try t find something you like, be yourself and look around, you will you are not alone, just give yourself some time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My point is that everyone is different in a way and has fears going out in life!. Just fk all that and try t find something you like, be yourself and look around, you will you are not alone, just give yourself some time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound fine to me!.!.!.you've sowed your oats and realize theres something more meaningful in life!. Sounds like you're ready to settle down!. You'll find and make someone very happy!. (as well as your self)
I think you'll make a great Mom too!.
You're just re-establishing your priorities!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you'll make a great Mom too!.
You're just re-establishing your priorities!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is always good to be different, skip the fact that you are try your best to enjoy life as much as possible!. It's a gift, not everybody is lucky to be alive and be happy that you are "above ground"(which means alive)!.
Best Of luch mwuaah!! =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Best Of luch mwuaah!! =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't worry!. You're not alone!. I kind of feel the same way too!. I'd find something to make myself happy and just keep with it!. Whether it's someone you love or something you love doing you should just do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well!.!.!. maybe the money is just bad!.
you need to find a hobby
"friends are good, unless you can't stand to be alone with the person you most fear - yourself!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to find a hobby
"friends are good, unless you can't stand to be alone with the person you most fear - yourself!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get yourself as healthy as you can be, both physically, and mentally, and start from there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
go to your local pub and join a random table of people your age join in the conversation
JUST GET INVOVLED MAKING FRIENDS AND DOING THINGS IS PART OF LIFE
NO ONE IS GOING TO JUDGE BECAUSE OF YOUR PAST GO CLUBBING AND JUST TALKWww@Answer-Health@Com
JUST GET INVOVLED MAKING FRIENDS AND DOING THINGS IS PART OF LIFE
NO ONE IS GOING TO JUDGE BECAUSE OF YOUR PAST GO CLUBBING AND JUST TALKWww@Answer-Health@Com
It doenst matter how many friends you have, your friends dont make who you are!. Maybe you should try doing new things or maybe try to make friends like socialize with new people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wake up tomora, start a fresh!!
Take up a hobby you LOVE to do!.
you WILL meet NEW people there!!
Get a new job if your not happy!?
good luck
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Take up a hobby you LOVE to do!.
you WILL meet NEW people there!!
Get a new job if your not happy!?
good luck
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There is no such thing as normal! People try to copy normal and act like they are normal, but that's just it! An ac! Even "normal" people work daily to be normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Before you go any further!!.!.!.have you considered the alternative!?!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
At 23 I felt a little lost it feels as if your going through a midlife 20's crisis!. I am 27 now and things are taking shape!. Have you ever thought about looking for another job!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Life is what you make itWww@Answer-Health@Com
go out clubbin and pick up loads of numbers!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur doctor is an idiot
its bcause of the label you get the treatment u needWww@Answer-Health@Com
its bcause of the label you get the treatment u needWww@Answer-Health@Com
You should have thought about what you were doing at 15, then, people wouldn't have abandoned you!. I think that it is because of those antics, that you now see yourself as a burned out husk, that you have no self- worth, no friends, no life!. Accept what you did, what you are, who you are, and admit that you were a fool!. Only then, will you see yourself as a girl with courage, self- worth, and a girl who now has self- respect!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i would say, try joining in something you like doing !.
do you like to cook !?
if so , find a place where they might host cooking classes for you !.
once you get there, talk to people!.
you already have something in common, so maybe you could share interesting of funny stories about cooking [:
if not that, then just try talking to more people !. if might be a little hard at first if youre not very social, but you get used to it !.
& if that doest work, treating yourself to a day at the spa should help to make you feel better and add confidence [:
hope i helped !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
do you like to cook !?
if so , find a place where they might host cooking classes for you !.
once you get there, talk to people!.
you already have something in common, so maybe you could share interesting of funny stories about cooking [:
if not that, then just try talking to more people !. if might be a little hard at first if youre not very social, but you get used to it !.
& if that doest work, treating yourself to a day at the spa should help to make you feel better and add confidence [:
hope i helped !.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds to me like you really need someone to talk to who isn't part of your social network (family and friends) - someone who can be neutral, non-judgemental and who can help you to think things through!. This could be a relationship counsellor or a cognitive behavioural therapist but unless you can get a referral from your doctor, you might have to pay!. If you really feel down, phone the Samaritans for a chat - they are trained to listen and should be able to point you in the right direction!.
Your self-esteem has taken a knock - but you are in recovery and picking yourself up off the floor!. You are learning how to deal with the world!. It takes time to find your feet again!. The fact that you can make friends easily with men, even if their interest in you is because they fancy you, is a positive thing!. You just have to be choosy who you go out with and hang on to your self-respect and values!.
It might be better for you to take a permanent contract - many people develop really good friendships through work contacts!. But if this isn't what you want or it's not an option because the jobs aren't there, you can widen your circle of contacts and perhaps make more friends by getting involved in non-work activities!.
Regular exercise is supposed to be a natural cure for depression - so I suggest that you try your local Ramblers Group and go for a few country walks with them!. The exercise will do you a power of good!. I'm not sure that the company you'll meet will be all to your taste but if you give yourself time to get to know them and time for them to get to know you, you might find that sharing weekend walks will give you some interesting insights into your life and theirs, and maybe help you to get your life into perspective!.
Something else you could do, when you are not working, is to volunteer!. For instance, you could work with kids - volunteer to assistant in the Girl Guides movement (it's not as daft as it sounds)!. Citizens Advice rely on volunteers for a lot of advice giving!. You'd have to train first -and you'd meet all sorts of people, including law students, unemployed people looking for work experience, people who have retired, or just people like you, with spare time!. If you found yourself making friends with someone in whom you could confide, you might not need therapy!.
You shouldn't, however, think that you are somehow different because you don't feel that you want to be out clubbing all the time!. There's nothing wrong with being a loner, or not having a wide circle of friends - I think it's the quality of one's friendships that matters more than the number!.
Lots of us do things when we're young that we might regret later - but we have to learn from our mistakes and then move on!. It sounds like you've done that!. Your past is your own business!. Every time you meet someone new, you've got a clean slate!. Just as they have!. Neither of you knows anything about the other!.
Take life easy!. Be true to yourself!.
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Your self-esteem has taken a knock - but you are in recovery and picking yourself up off the floor!. You are learning how to deal with the world!. It takes time to find your feet again!. The fact that you can make friends easily with men, even if their interest in you is because they fancy you, is a positive thing!. You just have to be choosy who you go out with and hang on to your self-respect and values!.
It might be better for you to take a permanent contract - many people develop really good friendships through work contacts!. But if this isn't what you want or it's not an option because the jobs aren't there, you can widen your circle of contacts and perhaps make more friends by getting involved in non-work activities!.
Regular exercise is supposed to be a natural cure for depression - so I suggest that you try your local Ramblers Group and go for a few country walks with them!. The exercise will do you a power of good!. I'm not sure that the company you'll meet will be all to your taste but if you give yourself time to get to know them and time for them to get to know you, you might find that sharing weekend walks will give you some interesting insights into your life and theirs, and maybe help you to get your life into perspective!.
Something else you could do, when you are not working, is to volunteer!. For instance, you could work with kids - volunteer to assistant in the Girl Guides movement (it's not as daft as it sounds)!. Citizens Advice rely on volunteers for a lot of advice giving!. You'd have to train first -and you'd meet all sorts of people, including law students, unemployed people looking for work experience, people who have retired, or just people like you, with spare time!. If you found yourself making friends with someone in whom you could confide, you might not need therapy!.
You shouldn't, however, think that you are somehow different because you don't feel that you want to be out clubbing all the time!. There's nothing wrong with being a loner, or not having a wide circle of friends - I think it's the quality of one's friendships that matters more than the number!.
Lots of us do things when we're young that we might regret later - but we have to learn from our mistakes and then move on!. It sounds like you've done that!. Your past is your own business!. Every time you meet someone new, you've got a clean slate!. Just as they have!. Neither of you knows anything about the other!.
Take life easy!. Be true to yourself!.
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If you fancy it I would get a little bit of money together and go travelling for a little while - this way you'll have the opportunity to meet new people or be alone, whichever you choose!.
It'll give you time to clear your head and you'll have a great time doing it!. Life is only as interesting as you make it, if you don't do something about your problems now then you will only regret it for the rest of your life!.
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It'll give you time to clear your head and you'll have a great time doing it!. Life is only as interesting as you make it, if you don't do something about your problems now then you will only regret it for the rest of your life!.
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Should mention if you where M or F!.
My Recommendation is to Make some E-Friends, Pickup a video game and start socializing - or (shutter) use a chat room!. For example in 2009 this game will come out called Operation Flashpoint 2!. People are already talking about it and you could get in there and get to know the people and talk about it as well!.
http://community!.codemasters!.com/forum/f!.!.!.
Or go and talk about anything in a off topic area:
http://community!.codemasters!.com/forum/f!.!.!.
The great thing about online stuff, is no matter where you are - what time of the day ect!. As long as you can get online you can get to some one and talk!.
I'm socializing as we speak with MSN Xfire and the forum I just linked!.
Its not really hard to do, you just need to put your self out there and talk and if people tell you to be quiet, keep talking and in time people will flock to you because they like who you are!. Nothing says confidence like defiance in the face of danger!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My Recommendation is to Make some E-Friends, Pickup a video game and start socializing - or (shutter) use a chat room!. For example in 2009 this game will come out called Operation Flashpoint 2!. People are already talking about it and you could get in there and get to know the people and talk about it as well!.
http://community!.codemasters!.com/forum/f!.!.!.
Or go and talk about anything in a off topic area:
http://community!.codemasters!.com/forum/f!.!.!.
The great thing about online stuff, is no matter where you are - what time of the day ect!. As long as you can get online you can get to some one and talk!.
I'm socializing as we speak with MSN Xfire and the forum I just linked!.
Its not really hard to do, you just need to put your self out there and talk and if people tell you to be quiet, keep talking and in time people will flock to you because they like who you are!. Nothing says confidence like defiance in the face of danger!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i will tell you something about me ,,listen and read it carefully
Through this life i used to think if i have no friends then i m stupid and no fun and horrible that no one would want to be my friend ,
it turned out that horrible ,no fun ,stupid people they have lots of friends and lots of life do you know why!?
Simply
Because people now wants to laugh ,*want a clown to laugh at *
don
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