This is insane! help!
Question: This is insane! help
my boyfriend got me really drunk the other night and made me sniff this dirty old rag before i knew it i was passed out and woke up at 12pm the next day! i didn't know wt had happened but i was naked and scared, so i went to the hospital and they had assured me i had been date raped, i had been date raped from behind, my ******** was so badly damaged i had to have an operation on it, do you think i should forgive my boyfriend!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Uh, hello!!!!!!
Your so called 'boyfriend' RAPED you!. He violated you! He took posession of you and you were powerless to stop it!.
This should NOT be tolerated! AS one person said, get far away as possible from him! OK, he's your bf and you love him, and maybe you should forgive him, and ladidadida, but you have to work out for yourself where a line is crossed!.
And I can tell you that rape goes far beyond the line!. He's done something morally and legally wrong!. He's also caused psychological and physiological harm!!
Plus, if he can 'get away with it' now, who knows what he will do in the future!? I know you want to forgive him, it was a once off, it was a mistake, he was drunk!.!.!.!. but getting back with him is not a good idea at all!.
Please take care of yourself and THINK seriously about your situation!. Don't act or act on impulse!. There is no excuse for his actions!.
And to do something proactive for yourself, please go see a counsellor/psychologist!. You'll be able to speak with them and they'll be able to come to a logical decision that you will keep!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your so called 'boyfriend' RAPED you!. He violated you! He took posession of you and you were powerless to stop it!.
This should NOT be tolerated! AS one person said, get far away as possible from him! OK, he's your bf and you love him, and maybe you should forgive him, and ladidadida, but you have to work out for yourself where a line is crossed!.
And I can tell you that rape goes far beyond the line!. He's done something morally and legally wrong!. He's also caused psychological and physiological harm!!
Plus, if he can 'get away with it' now, who knows what he will do in the future!? I know you want to forgive him, it was a once off, it was a mistake, he was drunk!.!.!.!. but getting back with him is not a good idea at all!.
Please take care of yourself and THINK seriously about your situation!. Don't act or act on impulse!. There is no excuse for his actions!.
And to do something proactive for yourself, please go see a counsellor/psychologist!. You'll be able to speak with them and they'll be able to come to a logical decision that you will keep!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you really want to admit you have a boyfriend capable of doing this!? To you!.!.!.Someone he loves!? Right!. Imagine if he didn't like you!. He obviously doesn't respect you!.
Kick his rapist butt and the rest of his crap to the gutter where he belongs with the other gutter dwelling trash!.
Read what you have written as if you were someone else - and take the advise of most of the respondents here and get to the nearest police station!. You have medical evidence of physical trauma (owing to the operation) and more than likely would have been questioned enough by nursing staff for them to have put together enough pieces to fill in the gaps!. They should be able to compile a report for police if required!.
How do you know he didn't share you with his mates!?!?!? How does that make you feel!?
Be strong!!! You are worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Kick his rapist butt and the rest of his crap to the gutter where he belongs with the other gutter dwelling trash!.
Read what you have written as if you were someone else - and take the advise of most of the respondents here and get to the nearest police station!. You have medical evidence of physical trauma (owing to the operation) and more than likely would have been questioned enough by nursing staff for them to have put together enough pieces to fill in the gaps!. They should be able to compile a report for police if required!.
How do you know he didn't share you with his mates!?!?!? How does that make you feel!?
Be strong!!! You are worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No!., how can forgive one who made a big damage to your body and your soul!? the really boyfriend don't leave his friend "naked and scared"!. the real boyfriend doesn't rape his friend and make him suffer from the pain of operation!.Dump him , and call the police and tell them what had happened to you, without any shame because you are the victim here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is a criminal act!.
Even if he is a nice guy (which i don't think he is) he obviously doesn't respect you!. I would not forgive him at all no matter what!.
I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you!
I hope you recover well and try and forget about him infact report him to the police!.
I would advise staying away from him and tell your friends to do the same!.
Sorry and hope this helped!.
Chloe <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
Even if he is a nice guy (which i don't think he is) he obviously doesn't respect you!. I would not forgive him at all no matter what!.
I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you!
I hope you recover well and try and forget about him infact report him to the police!.
I would advise staying away from him and tell your friends to do the same!.
Sorry and hope this helped!.
Chloe <3Www@Answer-Health@Com
Of course you should not forgive him! You should report him to the police!. He is a dangerous person!. You must stay away from him!. He violated you!. Please see a doctor or a counselor to help you sort this out!. That boyfriend of yours needs to be behind bars!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No!.He must be punished for his crime!.Report him to the authorities as soon as possible!.He must not get away with it!.You must get away from him!.
If he did it once there nothing stopping him from doing it again!.
Unless,of course,this is some sick joke!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he did it once there nothing stopping him from doing it again!.
Unless,of course,this is some sick joke!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
NO, NO, and NO!!! You should press charges, seriously!! If he would do that to you, his girlfriend, then just think what else he might be capable of!. Go to the police station right now and file a report!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you were reading this question what advice would you give to someone because i know as well as you do what the right answer is!.DONT BE FOOLISH THIS IS RAPE stay away from him and warn others and report it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No you shouldn't forgive your boyfriend!. You should keep as far away as possible from him!. Don't speak with him at all and notify the police right away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your other question says your a 15 year old boy, the other a 17 year old boy!? who are you really and why the facination with being abused!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Absolutely not - report him to the police, never see him or talk to him again - that's abuse and you don't deserve it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
coming from my profile,this may sound weird but : He's a sex offender, press charges against him,let him get gang-banged!.That is my true answer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Turn him in to the police or if you have a big brother or other big friend, let them have a go at him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hell no! get as far away from this man as possible! have him arrested!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't even know if this is serious!. What kind of person would forgive a rapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
definatly not are u insane!?!?!? get far far far away from him girl, u dont deserve that at all!.!.
glad ur ok! thankgod ur not dead,!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
glad ur ok! thankgod ur not dead,!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wanna go out on a date!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
no way, dont do it i hope your okay now!.
dont forgive him!Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont forgive him!Www@Answer-Health@Com
woahh report himWww@Answer-Health@Com
i have no way you said that Gross word! and no don't for give himWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well i wouldnt!. He will sex u again O!.oWww@Answer-Health@Com