What can a guy who is not intelligent do!
Question: What can a guy who is not intelligent do
I'm a 19 year old guy who's life has been a complete bore!. No family, no friends, and no respect from my peers!.
How does it feel like to be smart!?
How does it feel to have a family that loves you, supports you in your decisions in life, people who hug and show affection!. I see these people and I think, why wasn't I able to have a life of happiness and joy!?
Instead I'm a dumb, tall, alien look guy who's tired of living in an old apartment that leaks all the time!. I have no formal education, never graduated from high school!. I envy all the other people who are smart, good-looking, and who get affectionate love from other people!. I know I can never find people that really care about me, but I just want to know how I can at least find a better place to live the rest of me life in!. A part of me wants me to just die altogether, maybe I will be born again into a better life!.
How does it feel to be loved! I want to know!
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How does it feel like to be smart!?
How does it feel to have a family that loves you, supports you in your decisions in life, people who hug and show affection!. I see these people and I think, why wasn't I able to have a life of happiness and joy!?
Instead I'm a dumb, tall, alien look guy who's tired of living in an old apartment that leaks all the time!. I have no formal education, never graduated from high school!. I envy all the other people who are smart, good-looking, and who get affectionate love from other people!. I know I can never find people that really care about me, but I just want to know how I can at least find a better place to live the rest of me life in!. A part of me wants me to just die altogether, maybe I will be born again into a better life!.
How does it feel to be loved! I want to know!
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I scored the top mark in my state in chemistry, when I was interested in it, but have NONE of the following, and have been suicidally depressed: "No family, no friends, and no respect from my peers!.
a family that loves you, supports you in your decisions in life, people who hug and show affection!. a life of happiness and joy!?"
Mother Teresa, who was revered worldwide, was not an intelligent woman!. You don't need to be smart to be a good person, respected and admired by many: it is your ACTS which define you!.
I suggest that you try volunteering, even from home, at first, as shown in sections 38 & 47, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris In this way you will come into contact with positive, caring people, and change your focus from useless introspection to productive actions, and who knows where that will lead, later!?
One thing is for sure, though: it is a much better path than the one you are on at present: you are at a crossways here and now, and can cross over fairly easily, right NOW, if you want to!.
"I know I can never find people that really care about me" is a self limiting belief, and an erroneous one, if examined!. How do you know!? Are you able to read the future!? Such beliefs as these are common with depression, which is addressed in section 2, at ezy build: view page R first, then teen depression, and sections 9, and 13, where much good advice, and many resources are available to those prepared to examine them closely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
a family that loves you, supports you in your decisions in life, people who hug and show affection!. a life of happiness and joy!?"
Mother Teresa, who was revered worldwide, was not an intelligent woman!. You don't need to be smart to be a good person, respected and admired by many: it is your ACTS which define you!.
I suggest that you try volunteering, even from home, at first, as shown in sections 38 & 47, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris In this way you will come into contact with positive, caring people, and change your focus from useless introspection to productive actions, and who knows where that will lead, later!?
One thing is for sure, though: it is a much better path than the one you are on at present: you are at a crossways here and now, and can cross over fairly easily, right NOW, if you want to!.
"I know I can never find people that really care about me" is a self limiting belief, and an erroneous one, if examined!. How do you know!? Are you able to read the future!? Such beliefs as these are common with depression, which is addressed in section 2, at ezy build: view page R first, then teen depression, and sections 9, and 13, where much good advice, and many resources are available to those prepared to examine them closely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are fine just the way you are---God doesn't make junk!.
Try something else: try smiling, taking time to listen and show care for others; hug someone; give a compliment; help someone accomplish something!.!.!.!.!.get out of yourself and help another somehow!.
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Try something else: try smiling, taking time to listen and show care for others; hug someone; give a compliment; help someone accomplish something!.!.!.!.!.get out of yourself and help another somehow!.
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gosh!. get a job!. then after, save up so you can go back to school!. that way, you'll have a bit of self esteem!. and everything will follow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe your social services can help you find a better apartment
look in local newspaper - free ones - to find a better job
maybe take a course, upgrade, sometimes the courses are free
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look in local newspaper - free ones - to find a better job
maybe take a course, upgrade, sometimes the courses are free
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Well, I certainly know what it feels like to be depressed, and that's how you sound!.
Being loved is wonderful!. I know that, too!. And I also know that when you're depressed, you don't realize how many people love and care for you!.
Have you thought about talking to a therapist of some kind!? Or a friend or family member (I bet you can think of someone - no one exists in a vacuum)!?
I've been blessed to be intelligent, a gifted writer, and not bad looking!. But guess what else - I'm bipolar!. And this singular thing has threatened all of the other blessings I've had in life!. I am also poor and struggling to get the funds to go to university!.
See!? No one's life is perfect - even if you're smart, talented, educated, attractive, and rich, there is one thing that is more important than all of those things - having a good heart!. No joke!. That alone is enough to make you as good as gold to a lot of people on this earth!. And it sounds like you have that!.
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Being loved is wonderful!. I know that, too!. And I also know that when you're depressed, you don't realize how many people love and care for you!.
Have you thought about talking to a therapist of some kind!? Or a friend or family member (I bet you can think of someone - no one exists in a vacuum)!?
I've been blessed to be intelligent, a gifted writer, and not bad looking!. But guess what else - I'm bipolar!. And this singular thing has threatened all of the other blessings I've had in life!. I am also poor and struggling to get the funds to go to university!.
See!? No one's life is perfect - even if you're smart, talented, educated, attractive, and rich, there is one thing that is more important than all of those things - having a good heart!. No joke!. That alone is enough to make you as good as gold to a lot of people on this earth!. And it sounds like you have that!.
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you are loved!. I love you :)
how does it feel!.!.!. no different!? Right!
Because they are taking the gift of love and making it into their happiness, they are feeding off of love!. But you aren't!. You just block love!.
Stop envying and start appreciating all the things you have! I bet you have loads to be proud of, just go soul searching!.
remember, Krist from Nirvana was tall, and alien looking!.!.!. he was also very dumb and he kissed Kurt Cobain! Tall, dumb, alien men do amazing things dear! You just have to leap out and grab the little sliver of hope! I believe in you!.
Super models are tall, i bet you could be a supermodel :)
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how does it feel!.!.!. no different!? Right!
Because they are taking the gift of love and making it into their happiness, they are feeding off of love!. But you aren't!. You just block love!.
Stop envying and start appreciating all the things you have! I bet you have loads to be proud of, just go soul searching!.
remember, Krist from Nirvana was tall, and alien looking!.!.!. he was also very dumb and he kissed Kurt Cobain! Tall, dumb, alien men do amazing things dear! You just have to leap out and grab the little sliver of hope! I believe in you!.
Super models are tall, i bet you could be a supermodel :)
but always remember, you are loved, because i love you :) Www@Answer-Health@Com
You write too well to be dumb!. I suspect your "dumbness" has more to do with not finishing school than actual intelligence!.
If you're in the US, study a little and take the GED!. Work a day job and take night classes!. I did this!. See if the school has counselors, and if so, take advantage of them!. No family, no love, no, no, no!.!.!. these are things that an experienced counselor can help you sort out and make peace with!. Yeh, peace cos then it's easier to move on!. You will make new friends and find someone to love!. There just are some necessary steps you have to decide on!.
Btw, all those ppl you are jeolous of!.!.!. don't be quite so much!. Many families have skeletons and some of those are grusomely ugly even though everything outside looks all pretty and nice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're in the US, study a little and take the GED!. Work a day job and take night classes!. I did this!. See if the school has counselors, and if so, take advantage of them!. No family, no love, no, no, no!.!.!. these are things that an experienced counselor can help you sort out and make peace with!. Yeh, peace cos then it's easier to move on!. You will make new friends and find someone to love!. There just are some necessary steps you have to decide on!.
Btw, all those ppl you are jeolous of!.!.!. don't be quite so much!. Many families have skeletons and some of those are grusomely ugly even though everything outside looks all pretty and nice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey, don't be so hard on yourself!. First of all, there are different kinds of intelligence!. Maybe you are not "book smart" but perhaps you have other talents!. Trust me, the people that I know who make a lot of money never went to college!. They found something that they had a passion about and pursued it!. What interests you!? What makes you happy!? If you are not sure, check to see if you can go to the career services office at your local university or college!. Even if you are not a student, they may be willing to assist you or refer you to career resources in your community!. Also, consider a career as a plumber, electrician, or Heating & Air conditioning technician!. With so many people going to college, there is a deficit of qualified people in these fields!.
Second, love has little to do with intelligence!. You can't rely on others to make you happy!.People are attracted to those who are confident!. If you find your passion, you will be more confident and happier!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Second, love has little to do with intelligence!. You can't rely on others to make you happy!.People are attracted to those who are confident!. If you find your passion, you will be more confident and happier!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suggestion:
Pursue furthering your education!. School is a great place to meet people with similar interests and age!.
Also remember you have to be a friend to someone before they can be a friend to you!. Try it on several people, I think we live in a face-2-face starved culture now with so much computer communication now!. I personally don
Pursue furthering your education!. School is a great place to meet people with similar interests and age!.
Also remember you have to be a friend to someone before they can be a friend to you!. Try it on several people, I think we live in a face-2-face starved culture now with so much computer communication now!. I personally don
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