Why is this happening to me ...please help me!

Best thing you can do is just continue with your therapy!. You had some horrible things happen to you and it's not going to go away overnight!. The good thing is that your working through it and not running away from it!. It'll seem to him like it's getting worse the deeper you get but he should know that it's a sign that you're progressing!. You'll be in crisis alot but that's because you're dealing with horrific issues!. If he knows that it might help him deal!. He should seek counseling or at least a support group himself - it's pretty stressful!.

There's a good book called "Allies in Healing" that might help your husband!.

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By all means please tell your therapists everything you can about your feelings and experiences!. They will only give you better and more informed advice when you tell them!. I take Effexor xr too but I don't know if you need more or not!. If none of your therapists have told you this, remember that what happened was something they did to you, you didn't do it!. The guys who molested and or raped you are sick, they don't have the ability to feel good without hurting someone else!. its not your fault what happened!. Even when you experienced more problems later, it is because you didn't know what else to do!. As far has your husband goes, he must realize that you don't enjoy sex because of what happend and that he shouldnt take it personally!. If you could realize that actions are not you!. Just like we have heard, You are a good person, and what happened does not change who you are!. Take care, I hope you talk more with your counselors!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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