Im paranoyed about death and the safety of my family. Help???!
Question: Im paranoyed about death and the safety of my family!. Help!?!?!?
O!.K!. i dont think i explained enough last time i asked so im askiing again!.
Im only like a teenager and i live in a really nice area in california!. not like east l!.a!., but like close to the really nice suburbs!. im sure you get it!. im considered a minority, and im always really scared and freaked out that people will atack my family!. i cant go to bed at night and my parents comfort just isnt enough anymore!. im only like 14 and im freaked out!. im indian so ya!. i go to a private school and have frends, but i think when i get lonely i get get like this!. idk!. i get really scared and feel like i need therapy, but my parents would never giv into that!. they luv me sooososososososoooooooooo much, but i dont wanna worry them, and they know i wont get killed but idk!. im missing a sense of security and all!. i want sum1 to talk to about this!.
can someone please help as a freind!?
dont diagnose me or anything, just give me advise!. i hav so many problems at school and idk!. i just need sum1 to talk to!.
thx for reading this!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im only like a teenager and i live in a really nice area in california!. not like east l!.a!., but like close to the really nice suburbs!. im sure you get it!. im considered a minority, and im always really scared and freaked out that people will atack my family!. i cant go to bed at night and my parents comfort just isnt enough anymore!. im only like 14 and im freaked out!. im indian so ya!. i go to a private school and have frends, but i think when i get lonely i get get like this!. idk!. i get really scared and feel like i need therapy, but my parents would never giv into that!. they luv me sooososososososoooooooooo much, but i dont wanna worry them, and they know i wont get killed but idk!. im missing a sense of security and all!. i want sum1 to talk to about this!.
can someone please help as a freind!?
dont diagnose me or anything, just give me advise!. i hav so many problems at school and idk!. i just need sum1 to talk to!.
thx for reading this!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
okay your indian, you have nothing to be scared of lol, your race is almost never heard of in gangs, you just watch too many scary movies that make u think your gonna be killed, happens to me after i watch a movie like the strangers hahaWww@Answer-Health@Com
Instead of letting it be a blinding fear,let it be an eye opening fear!.Learn to recognize potential dangers and keep out of potentially dangerous situations!.
I don't blame you for being scared,or at least concerned!.I wouldn't move to California for anything!.Too full of freaks,wierdos,and illegals!.
If it becomes worse when you are alone,then try to avoid being alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't blame you for being scared,or at least concerned!.I wouldn't move to California for anything!.Too full of freaks,wierdos,and illegals!.
If it becomes worse when you are alone,then try to avoid being alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your problems can only be solved by a therapist!.
No one else would know where to start!.
You are suffering from some form of anxiety disorder and I am sure that if your parents love you much as you say, they would do anything in the world to ensure that your illness is treated!.
Ask them to get you help!. If they don't, your school teacher has a responsibility to ensure your well being in the same way in accordance with law!.
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No one else would know where to start!.
You are suffering from some form of anxiety disorder and I am sure that if your parents love you much as you say, they would do anything in the world to ensure that your illness is treated!.
Ask them to get you help!. If they don't, your school teacher has a responsibility to ensure your well being in the same way in accordance with law!.
Snow ManWww@Answer-Health@Com
I used to worry about the same exact things!. Then I realized it was my birth control (depo-provera), causing these bad thoughts!. I later learned that these thoughts come from depression, and then read the side effects and one of them was depression!. Since then, I got off the birth control, my thoughts have been much more pleasant!. If you are on any medications it could be the cause of this, check the side effects!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
well!.!.!. you didn't say who you think is going to attack your family!. you are indian so no one is going to be like Hey lets go kill the indians
why do u have problems at school, did u do somethin to people at school and u think they will attack u and your family!?
no one is going to attack uWww@Answer-Health@Com
why do u have problems at school, did u do somethin to people at school and u think they will attack u and your family!?
no one is going to attack uWww@Answer-Health@Com
i am hecka parinoid and i live in a good part of nor cal!. i cant sleep without gunmufflers earplugs and eyecovers!. if i hear a car driving on my street then i stand on my headboard making sure that my parents cars are still there!. but when i have my sleep "gear" on i sleep really good beacuse i dont know whats going on in the world!.
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Get a BF, or talk to your friend, if they are your friend they probably will calm you down!. And if you're that scare get some self-defense training!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
u have thoughts like that too!. the important hting is too tell yourself that right here right now you are fine and focus on other thingsWww@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to your school counselor!. No one has any reason to want to hurt you!. You don't need to be afraid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you cant go through life in fear so live everyday to the fullestWww@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you should learn how to spell, it's "paranoid"!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
aww!.!. dnt worry, this is what i felt when my dad went to another coutry coz he has to take care of business for a bout a month and a half and im the oldest son so i have to take care of our family im 16, everytime i go to bed i get really scared, im thinking of what if something happen to them!. But after sometime, i got used to it, the best way i guess for you is to buy a DOG! a companion that will stay with you and give you the protection you need to feel :) its nice having a dog!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
haha, that's me too!. and i'm indian also!. i'm 15, and i constantly worry about the deaths of my parents, sister and grandmother!. i even check on them numerous times a day to ensure they're all right!. (i live in a nice area in the bay area, too!. i dont even worry about gangs)
i'm just worried about their well-being
and i'm sure you are too!. it's common and it's sweet! try and keep your mind on other things for the most part, try not to worry as much about it
(boy, i should take my own advice!.)
indians!? a minority in california!? hahaha girl, no need to worry, there's actually very little violence against us, at least in cali!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i'm just worried about their well-being
and i'm sure you are too!. it's common and it's sweet! try and keep your mind on other things for the most part, try not to worry as much about it
(boy, i should take my own advice!.)
indians!? a minority in california!? hahaha girl, no need to worry, there's actually very little violence against us, at least in cali!Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's what happens when your isolated from the world!. The only thing you hear about the suburbs is about these crimes and you see the pictures of the bad guys and so on!. I'm form Hollywood CA crime central!. If you walk learn the streets as well as I have you would realize everyone out there is afraid of you!. This one time at 3am off Hollywood Bl!. I walked up behind these gang members and jokingly yelled, "give me some money mother f*cker" You should of seen how scared these so call gangsters were!. My point is until you see first hand how things really are you'll realize things are a lot better then you imagineWww@Answer-Health@Com
Don't feel bad about this ok!. When i was your age I went through the same thing!. I use to sleep with my door open and stare down the hallway just to make sure no one was creeping to my mother's room to kill her!. It just means that your parents are your foundation as a person!. Means that without your parents you do not know who you are therefore you are afraid of losing your parents and being lost!. You grow out of it ok!. You have to tell yourself that your fear of dying is only a fear!. It does not destine you to die!. If you spend your teen years worrying about dying, your not really living ya know!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try listening to some "feel good" songs before you go to bed or stick pictures of things that make you happy around your bedroom walls!.
To feel safer you can go around the house with your parents and make sure every door and window is locked!.
You could buy some walkie-talkies and arrange times to call someone you can trust before you go to bed!. Try not to spend to much time alone, it makes things worse, trust me!.
Remember: The chances of someone wanting to hurt you or your family are extremely low, the chances of someone actually doing it is much lower!. Try not to think about, I know it seems REALLY hard but it does help you get over it quicker!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
To feel safer you can go around the house with your parents and make sure every door and window is locked!.
You could buy some walkie-talkies and arrange times to call someone you can trust before you go to bed!. Try not to spend to much time alone, it makes things worse, trust me!.
Remember: The chances of someone wanting to hurt you or your family are extremely low, the chances of someone actually doing it is much lower!. Try not to think about, I know it seems REALLY hard but it does help you get over it quicker!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i see!. im indian too!. do you live in india because thats were all the rowdy's are and there really scary!. well first of all hun dont think your going crazy because if you to then you will slowley become so!.now if you have poeple harming your family start dealing with a police but if no one is harming you then believen that it's all ok!. i thinkk it's a side effect that sometimes my mom has now she's not totally scared all the time but she someitmes feels like she's in danger!. maybe you should try telling a teacher or an adult besides you parent to see if you can contact a docter because they could help now i uunderstand that indian parent dont really go to doctors because they think nothings bad but try to convince them all ill be your friend to comfort!. ill be the shoulder you need to lie on email me at brown_shawti@hotmail!.com
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It is okay!.!.!. you are normal i have fear of death as well!.!.!. i have never had to deal with death much i have lost a friend in an accident and a granny who was 93 but no one extremely close like a parent, sibling, best friend ect!. so i am scared to death that one day something is going to happen to someone close to me and me not know how to react or even something happen to me and how it will happen!. but then i just learn to trust in god and that he will take care of me no matter what the issue is and that i will be in his hands and if something was to happen to me i would get to see all my family members and friends in heaven and finally meet god and be in the best place that anyone could ever be!.!.!. so don't feel bad abuot anything!.!.!. this is a natural fear ever one wonders what if, how, when, what will happen, but this is something you can not dwell on or it will make you miserable you just have to learn to except the fact and live your life!.!.!.!. remember to lean on god and trust in those close to you when times are hard!.Www@Answer-Health@Com