Im crying and I dont know what to do??!
Question: Im crying and I dont know what to do!?!?
my parents keep fighting all the time!.
its not stupid fights like dirty dishes or not cleaning up,its bigger than that
My mom is the one who always starts the fights and she brings up stuff that shouldnt even come up!.
she always brings my step dads family into it ALL the time and then she says how im closer to him and that its my fault too
Every day she starts a fight like this and Im sick and tired of it!.
I keep thinking that I should call the police or child services but then I think about how I'll be sent to a foster home and lose my dogs(who are the only thing close to me) and everything I have
please help me,this is really hurting me
and I cant just hide somewhere or stay at someones house i have no where to goWww@Answer-Health@Com
its not stupid fights like dirty dishes or not cleaning up,its bigger than that
My mom is the one who always starts the fights and she brings up stuff that shouldnt even come up!.
she always brings my step dads family into it ALL the time and then she says how im closer to him and that its my fault too
Every day she starts a fight like this and Im sick and tired of it!.
I keep thinking that I should call the police or child services but then I think about how I'll be sent to a foster home and lose my dogs(who are the only thing close to me) and everything I have
please help me,this is really hurting me
and I cant just hide somewhere or stay at someones house i have no where to goWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I dealt with the exact same thing growing up, and I know how horrible it is!.
I moved out when I was eighteen because I couldn't take it anymore!. All I can tell you is, keep you eye on the prize -- independence -- and just keep moving toward that goal!. In the meantime, stay strong, and try listening to music when they're fighting to tune them out!. (That's what I did!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I moved out when I was eighteen because I couldn't take it anymore!. All I can tell you is, keep you eye on the prize -- independence -- and just keep moving toward that goal!. In the meantime, stay strong, and try listening to music when they're fighting to tune them out!. (That's what I did!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would do what you feel is best!.
But if you do decide to call CPS(Chile Protection Services)
They will wnat to make you as comfortable as possible so you should be able to take your pets!.!.!.
But at the same time I think your mom seems to be the one at fault here!.!.!. so try talking to your dad Because if your mom is always starting the fight, your dad is a victim too!.
Try talking to your dad about how it makes you feel and what you think about it!.
Hope things get better!
-CammWww@Answer-Health@Com
But if you do decide to call CPS(Chile Protection Services)
They will wnat to make you as comfortable as possible so you should be able to take your pets!.!.!.
But at the same time I think your mom seems to be the one at fault here!.!.!. so try talking to your dad Because if your mom is always starting the fight, your dad is a victim too!.
Try talking to your dad about how it makes you feel and what you think about it!.
Hope things get better!
-CammWww@Answer-Health@Com
my parents fight all the time to it sucks plus i always think its my fault!. but my best friend gets beat by his dad with one of those metal belts and he called child support he got to take his dogs and snake!. but then i went to see him and he missed his mom and dad even though they beat them so i uggest u work things outWww@Answer-Health@Com
I just want to let you know I feel so bad for you!. It must be terrible to live in those kinds of conditions!.
Anyways, since you say you can't stay at someone elses house I guess all you can do is try to get through it as best as you can!. Just remember none of it is your fault!.
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Anyways, since you say you can't stay at someone elses house I guess all you can do is try to get through it as best as you can!. Just remember none of it is your fault!.
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wow the only thing i can tell you is sit with your parents and talk to them about how your feeling and how the way they are acting is effecting you a lot if that doesn't work try to bring another family member or someone close to you to help them come to there senses Www@Answer-Health@Com
To be honest, I delt with the same thing!. Ignore it even though it bothers you!. When you get involved you are more than likely to look like the bad one!. Try and stay away from the situation!. Maybe sit down and talk to them both and let them know that it bothers youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Show ur mum this post!
See if it changes her attitude!
Bless ya Www@Answer-Health@Com
See if it changes her attitude!
Bless ya Www@Answer-Health@Com
I didn't notice where you said that you've tried talking to both of them at the same time!? Or even to just your mom!. The lack of communication brings strife!. However, that won't always work especially if your mom needs some mental help!. My dad always argued when I was a kid and my parents constantly were fighting, only to find out many years later that my dad has bi-polar!. AND he wont take any medication for it!. They are now divorced, (thank God) but he's still a mess!. Maybe she needs some help!. If she continues on like this, she is only screwing up everyones future, including you and her's relationship and this marriage!. Like the other reply said, you are not to blame, but you do need to do something to change your situation!. Living in an unhealthy environment will only breed in you in unhealthy lifestyle!. Eventually, you could get into drugs/alcohol/sex/etc to cover up the hurt and the pain!. But the pleasure that you get from those will only last for a season, and then you're back to the reality!. So do yourself a favor, call the cops, or whatever, but find some help!. If not for your mom, for YOU!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Im really sorry to hear that!.
One of the best things to do is ring a child help-line!.!.!.you shouldnt worry about being taken away from your parents!. If you dont tell anyone about the arguing or how you feel it could make you ill and make other things with your family worse!.
There are always people who you can talk to!. maybe even a teacher at school or a best friend!. If you feel really bad you may go stay with a close relative!.
I recomened that you do get help though and do something about it!. Not just for you, but for your mum and dad aswell!.
I hope this all gets better soon!.
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
One of the best things to do is ring a child help-line!.!.!.you shouldnt worry about being taken away from your parents!. If you dont tell anyone about the arguing or how you feel it could make you ill and make other things with your family worse!.
There are always people who you can talk to!. maybe even a teacher at school or a best friend!. If you feel really bad you may go stay with a close relative!.
I recomened that you do get help though and do something about it!. Not just for you, but for your mum and dad aswell!.
I hope this all gets better soon!.
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com