How come I beat myself up?!
Question: How come I beat myself up!?
Whenever I get mad, I cannot control and and start breaking, hitting, and throwing objects!. I stopped doing that, but now I beat myself up!. I start smacking myself on my head very hard, punch my thighs, tear at my face!. What is going on!?!
Are there any other alternatives than a psychologist!? They never worked for me, and I've gone about 4-5 times, and it is a waste of money!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are there any other alternatives than a psychologist!? They never worked for me, and I've gone about 4-5 times, and it is a waste of money!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You might want to see if a therapist can offer some insight!. 4-5 times probably isn't enough time -- or maybe you've been going to the wrong one(s)
Also, give your domestic violence hotline a call and ask if they can refer you to anger management classes!.
In the meantime, perhaps you can expend this excess energy in a positive way: get out and walk hard, take a run, go to the gym and use the machines, grab a big paintbrush and paint a huge canvas in the garage, do jumping jacks, anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Also, give your domestic violence hotline a call and ask if they can refer you to anger management classes!.
In the meantime, perhaps you can expend this excess energy in a positive way: get out and walk hard, take a run, go to the gym and use the machines, grab a big paintbrush and paint a huge canvas in the garage, do jumping jacks, anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anger is a lot like fire!. If there's no extinguisher, then the fire won't go out!. A lot of people are like that!. You need to stop, take a deep breath and think, will taking my anger out on objects and myself, really solve the problem!. Usually anger stems from frustration!. If you just take a step back and look at the problem, then usually the anger subsides!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe it's because you blame yourself for whatever your mad at and it's your way of punishing yourself!. Try getting a stress toy instead of hurting yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
its because you get an adrenaline build up, try running around the block to use up that surge of energy, or go outside and hammer nails into a tree stumpWww@Answer-Health@Com
Go to church, you will be amazed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com