I'M DEPRESSED ALL THE TIME!!HELP!!!


Question: I'M DEPRESSED ALL THE TIME!!HELP!!
Here's a general picture of ME!.!.
I'm fresh out of college(BE)!.I took up a course which ,I knew i'd never be good at!.I'm more of a creative person!. But I chose technology(actually my mum chose for me)!.I was never good at academics!. Always got a very average score!.(even though i worked really hard!!!well more than my peer's atleast!!)

Throughout college i didn't have a boyfriend!.A few guys were intrested in me!.!. But I was always under the impression that they'd dump me when they found out what a dull girl I was!.So i dutifully avoided all the guys in college!.!.
Now it's three months since i've finished my graduation and I havent found a job yet!.(actually I have a job in hand but they dont seem to be calling me ,anywhere in near future!!) The main problem is I've been putting in a lot of hard work since i was a child but i've never smelt success!.
Recently I've started thinking all the time about ,how of much a loser I am!. This depression is getting to me so much that i consider suicide some times!.!. (i really don't think i have the guts for that)!.
I really dont know what my problem is!.!. is it true that you succeed only if you have the 'BRAINS'!.is there anyone out there who has made it only with HARD WORK!?!?
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you are too hard on yourself!. you obviously have brains because you made it through college and did it taking courses you had no interest in!. You are not a loser at all! Where in the world did that idea come from!?!?!? People do much better when they are working on something they enjoy!. I made A's in college myself, except for statistics class which I hated!. I barely passed and had to have a tutor! Confidence is yours if you want to step up and claim it!. Just behave as if you have it, and there you go! You will find a job!. Keep applying and then soon you will probably have several jobs to choose from!.
And yes, there are people who have made it by hard work!. But I do not for one minute believe you don't have brains!. You write way too well!.
I hope you soon pull out of this depression!. Just remember that you do have some power over your own destiny and you can choose your fate!. Plan your life!. I didn't learn this little tidbit until way later in life!. But you can plan it and then take the steps to make your plans come true!. Don't harm yourself, please!!! It would be such a waste!. And it would hurt the ones who love you!. I hope you are soon feeling better!. See a doctor to get some help to feel better!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

life has been busy busy busy since you were born!. school after school!.!.challange after challange!. you sound bord!. try to see the challange of finding your own niche out there, one that combines though two things neccessary today CREATIVITY AND KNOWLEDGE OF CURRENT TECHNOLOGY!.!.sounds like you have a lot to offer!.!.!.!.so make your next big progect putting together the package to pressent to the worldWww@Answer-Health@Com

just relax don't try too hard ,luck may come your way,if you believe in astrology consult a good one,it may give you confidence and peace!.do only that which interests you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dear Friend,

No one here without smart work but you needs to realize yourself!.
You have no problem but creating 1 to yourself!.

First stop thinking that you



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