I need help i feel ugly!(pics)?!
Question: I need help i feel ugly!(pics)!?
I feel so ugly i feel i dont fit in anywhere i go,i feel like i cant go to school cause im not smart enough! i feel like i cant get a job cause im not goin to know what to do!? i feel fat im 5'3 135lbs i just alway feel like everythings my fault and i feel like my fiance broke up with me cause he can do better!? WHAT CAN I DO!!? im fixin to add a pic of me !Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Amy Lou,
You are incredibly nice looking!. I am old enough to be ur grandpa so do not get freaked out, okay, I am telling you this like I would tell my granddaughter!.
If your fiance broke up with you because he sez he can *do better* he is a total loser!.
You are not fat!.!.!.!.!. Stay in school get as much education as you can take courses in things you do not know about, you will find something you love and you will become an expert in it and people will want you to work for them!.
None of this is your fault, he was a jerk!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are incredibly nice looking!. I am old enough to be ur grandpa so do not get freaked out, okay, I am telling you this like I would tell my granddaughter!.
If your fiance broke up with you because he sez he can *do better* he is a total loser!.
You are not fat!.!.!.!.!. Stay in school get as much education as you can take courses in things you do not know about, you will find something you love and you will become an expert in it and people will want you to work for them!.
None of this is your fault, he was a jerk!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
alright either you are looking for compliments or you have really low self-esteem, i think its the self-esteem issue!. while i was reading that i was imagining some bigfoot but you are pretty, not just saying that, you really are, i was also thinking as i was reading that looks dont matter, its how you act and present yourself, i have had low self-esteem pretty much all my life, hell, i still do, i still think quite like that, but i am slowly starting to build confidence and it does feel good to be confident!. people tend to look at me differently and in turn i feel better about myself!. but looks wise i still dont believe any compliments, but i am working on it!. and about personality, maybe you can start liking yourself that way if you think of an imaginary person who has all the qualities you wish for or you admire, then just write it down if needed, and strive to be that person everyday!. The trying to be that person itself should give you a boost!. So far this is all self-help, but you should also probably seek a therapist and with his guidance a psychiatrist!. Oh and i know nothing about your fiance, but the best you can do is talk to him and ask him to be honest, if it was your looks that bothered him, then hes not worth anything, but it could also be something else, maybe you guys weren't compatible and it wasn't either of yours fault!. I would like to end with emphasizing again that you are beautiful inside and outside, don't let yourself bring you down!. And it would be nice if you DONT pick this as the best answer as thats not the reason for my opinion, its as honest as i can be! goodluck, hope things get betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your photo is blocked to me (I am at work, hehe) but no matter what you look like it seems that you have a major self esteem issue probbaly made worse by your breakup with your fiance!. I dont mean to sound like an after school special, but no one can like you until you like yourself (yes cheezy I know but its true)!. You need a session with your friends and family where they get together and tell you what is great about you!. They must know all the good stuff that youre just not focusing on!. Your weight is fine, you're not even overweight!. You can always go to school, there is no such thing as not smart enough!. I sometimes act like a totoal airhead (and my husband confirms this) and I did manage to graduate medical school, so feeling "stupid" is not the same thing as being stupid and youre just putting yourself down!.
I suggest that you go on a little shopping trip, get a cute outfit, get a new haircut, sign up for some interesting classes at your local comunity college (no pressure, just something you find cool) and talk to an employment agency about what kind of job they can get you where you can learn on the job!. Have a booster session with your friends like I said before!.
Good luck!!
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I suggest that you go on a little shopping trip, get a cute outfit, get a new haircut, sign up for some interesting classes at your local comunity college (no pressure, just something you find cool) and talk to an employment agency about what kind of job they can get you where you can learn on the job!. Have a booster session with your friends like I said before!.
Good luck!!
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you are whatever you think you are!. It's like one person tells you you are ugly and you believe them!? that's a bunch of fooey!. You need to go around like you are the hottest girl in the world and don't care about what anybody says!.
A good example of this is Sarah Jessica Parker - the truth is she isn't really the prettiest woman in the world, but she doesn't care - she goes around like she's the sexiest woman on the planet!. That confidence has taken her very far too!.
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A good example of this is Sarah Jessica Parker - the truth is she isn't really the prettiest woman in the world, but she doesn't care - she goes around like she's the sexiest woman on the planet!. That confidence has taken her very far too!.
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i think you just think you dont fit in but really you do, and i dont no you might have some sort of problem if you feel you cant go to school if your not smart enough nor get a job, you seem like a normal average pretty girl!. and your NOT fat, at all!. im serious! and waht do you mean WAHT CAN I DO!? your fine!! you just need help with being more outgoing!.!.!.if it makes you feel better im a senior in highschool and am 136(well now 132 went to docs today) but im a built girl and do every sport imaginable!. but still my point is your weight and look is fineeeWww@Answer-Health@Com
don't listen to any of these insensitive jackasses telling you to lay off the makeup!. i think you're very cute!.!.!. no, i'm not tryin to be a sketchball on the internet, but as a 24 y o male w most of my problems being a creation of my own mind (or so i am constantly told) I felt i needed to register to say my part!. i see in you not only an attractive young women but, judging from your writing, you certainly don't strike me as someone who dosn't have what it takes to succeed in school if she puts her mind to it!. i like you!. and that's not bc of how you look but bc i share the psychic pain you feel!. what can you do!? well, don;t dwell on your looks but rather strive to improve and develop your inner self!. oh btw, if it was bc of your appearence that your fiance left, well, then good riddance!. and if u ever feel the need to talk to someone who understands where you're coming from, please, please, don't hesitate to message meWww@Answer-Health@Com
Are you kidding!? you look like britney spears!.!.you are way too hard on yourself and pre-occupied with how you appear to other people that you cant be yourself!.!.confidence is definately the most attractive feature for both men and women!. Confidence doesnt neccessarily mean being a slick talker or a sex pot, it just means being comfortable with yourself!. You cant be fun and happy and likeable if you dont like yourself!. Be natural and allow yourself to be comfortable and it will show!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are not ugly!!!
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i think everyone has the potential to go to school and get a job you just need motovation and you need to believe that you can do it, that your able to do anything you want!. honostly your life is what you make it so girl you better start believeing in your self now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i think everyone has the potential to go to school and get a job you just need motovation and you need to believe that you can do it, that your able to do anything you want!. honostly your life is what you make it so girl you better start believeing in your self now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i can assure you its all in your mind!. Some people will look at certain features of themselves, and use that as the basis of thier entire appearance, when, to others, it may be unnoticable!. Sometimes, what you see, and what your mind thinks of it are very much out of line!. I too had that problem, thinking I would never get a Bf because of my inner insecurities, and then i met Joe!. Just, don't let such mindless things get to your head!. others can't see it, I promise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
PLEASE DONT TAKE THIS WITH ANY OFFENCE WHAT SO EVER!
hmm well i think your weight may be a problem inm 5'9 and weigh 135 pounds and your 5'3 and i wear a size 1!.!. also the eyeshadow is a bit much!.!. and dont be sad about your fiance there probably waasnt a good connection!.!. or it could go beyond that!.!. go talk to him and call him and have a mature convo!. as for school!.!. you csan never be too stuoid, there are special classes and thats whattutors are for!.!.!. hope i helped
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hmm well i think your weight may be a problem inm 5'9 and weigh 135 pounds and your 5'3 and i wear a size 1!.!. also the eyeshadow is a bit much!.!. and dont be sad about your fiance there probably waasnt a good connection!.!. or it could go beyond that!.!. go talk to him and call him and have a mature convo!. as for school!.!. you csan never be too stuoid, there are special classes and thats whattutors are for!.!.!. hope i helped
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Sweetheart, you have to have confidence in yourself!. Do your best and try your hardest!. That's the most anyone could ever ask!.
Reach for a star and be satisfied with a moonbeam!.
Be who you truly are, don't be so concerned what people think!. Other people are more concerned with THEMSELVES rather than other people anyway!.
I hope this helps!. Good luck! =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Reach for a star and be satisfied with a moonbeam!.
Be who you truly are, don't be so concerned what people think!. Other people are more concerned with THEMSELVES rather than other people anyway!.
I hope this helps!. Good luck! =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't see anything ugly in that picture!. Are you sure it's the right one!? And you are not fat!. Any man would be proud to be with you!. Give them a chance!. You'll find one that wants to be with you forever, if you are open to the opportunity!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
stay in there girl, life has there ups and downs (a year ago i didn't even want to go public because i was so selfconence) from the pic i seen u r a very good looking woman!. be confident and live life to the fullest!.life is to short to worry about things like that Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, you're very pretty, so I dunno what to tell ya!.!.!.! Anyone can go to school if they want to! Anyone can get a job if they really try! Stop feeling so damn sorry for yourself! You're capable of a lot of things!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you seem confident in your pictures and welcome to life!.
pps ur not ugly :) and welcome to my world about feeling fat lol!.
you have AMAZING hair!. that's something you can think about!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
pps ur not ugly :) and welcome to my world about feeling fat lol!.
you have AMAZING hair!. that's something you can think about!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
you're not ugly, just lay of the horrible makeup!.!.!.!. your face should look fresh, not like a mask!.
remove the eye shadow and the lip gloss, and you should be happy enough!. thats all!Www@Answer-Health@Com
remove the eye shadow and the lip gloss, and you should be happy enough!. thats all!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't put your self down that is not good for your self esteem
also you are pretty and very exotic looking thats wat makes u different
its your fiance loss that he broke up wit u Www@Answer-Health@Com
also you are pretty and very exotic looking thats wat makes u different
its your fiance loss that he broke up wit u Www@Answer-Health@Com
OMg you're not ugly
youre really pretty
and with the right look you might feel diferent
I say you just change your lookWww@Answer-Health@Com
youre really pretty
and with the right look you might feel diferent
I say you just change your lookWww@Answer-Health@Com
Buck up, lassie, you aren't ugly at all! And I'm sure if you work hard enough in school, you'll get it! Www@Answer-Health@Com
u arent ugly!. maybe u just have low self-esteem!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont worry everything is going to be ok im sure your just depressed or something right now!. youll get over it soon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
girl some thing is wrong with you! you are just as cute as can be! leave your self alone and enjoy life! you look so cute!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your makeup might be a little much,
But other then that you're really quite pretty!.
Don't be so hard on yourself!.
Look on the brighter side of life(:Www@Answer-Health@Com
But other then that you're really quite pretty!.
Don't be so hard on yourself!.
Look on the brighter side of life(:Www@Answer-Health@Com
stop being one of those girls!.!.!.youre not uglyWww@Answer-Health@Com
urm wtf are you on about!?! your not ugly You pretty!. :) Dont be one of those people "im so ugly" Cuz no ones perfect :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont wear such obnoxious makeupWww@Answer-Health@Com
well i don't know whether or not you're smart!.!.but one thing's for sure!.!.!.you are NOT ugly!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I see youas being pretty, without being beautiful (few are) and certainly not homely, although a different hairstyle may suit your features better!. According to the charts, you are within the healthy weight range for your height!. If you want to lose several pounds (you shouldn't need to shed more than 10, or, at the very most, 12 pounds) see section 56 of my website, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris
Academics is only one pathway to success, and many people are just not suited to it, so don't stress too much about it!. Richard Branson left school at 16, and Winston Churchill was not a well-performed student!.
Your future may well be in another field, such as: graphic artist, real estate, cinematography, Feng Shui consultant, landscaping, fashion design, aromatherapist, music industry, photographer, personal trainer/aerobics instructor, etc!. School is about teaching some basics, and keeping students occupied, so adults can work, that's all! Try many things (except drugs, binge drinking, and the more dangerous ones) and develop those areas in which you perform well, or have a natural talents!.
Consider having aptitude tests, vocational guidance, and career counselling, to give you some ideas on what may suit you best!. Ultimately, it is much more important that you be a good person, who helps others when reasonable to do so, and makes a fair contribution to the society which supports him/her, than scholastic achievements!.
He may have broken up with you because of your lack of self esteem & confidence, so view section 38, at ezy build; page E first!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Academics is only one pathway to success, and many people are just not suited to it, so don't stress too much about it!. Richard Branson left school at 16, and Winston Churchill was not a well-performed student!.
Your future may well be in another field, such as: graphic artist, real estate, cinematography, Feng Shui consultant, landscaping, fashion design, aromatherapist, music industry, photographer, personal trainer/aerobics instructor, etc!. School is about teaching some basics, and keeping students occupied, so adults can work, that's all! Try many things (except drugs, binge drinking, and the more dangerous ones) and develop those areas in which you perform well, or have a natural talents!.
Consider having aptitude tests, vocational guidance, and career counselling, to give you some ideas on what may suit you best!. Ultimately, it is much more important that you be a good person, who helps others when reasonable to do so, and makes a fair contribution to the society which supports him/her, than scholastic achievements!.
He may have broken up with you because of your lack of self esteem & confidence, so view section 38, at ezy build; page E first!.Www@Answer-Health@Com