How can I be more sure of myself?!
Question: How can I be more sure of myself!?
I'm 16, blonde hair, blue green eyes, and fair skinned!. I've never been in a relationship!.!.!.not a good one anyway!. It's not that guys haven't said I was cute or anything, but I think they don't like the real me!. I like to have fun, I can be a tomboy usually, I'm a dancer, I'm daring, I like competition, and I can be laid back!. I don't see what's wrong with me other then I can be pretty shy but I'm usually confident on the outside!. If you really look at me, you can see I'm insecure!. I always find that I'm comparing myself to other people and I really want to change that!. It would also be nice to have a real relationship too!. I'm basically the girl-next-door type!. I want to change that!. I'm not looking to be more popular or act fake!. I want to be myself but no one gives me a chance to see the real me!. Am I doing something wrong!?
I would really appreciate honest answers!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would really appreciate honest answers!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I know your going to not like this but your 16 and normal to feel the way you do and do not change who you are to become something your not!. In the end it is not worth it and you sound like you have a lot of talents and good qualities!. In time, boys will grow up and start looking at you for who you are and maybe they already do!. In a couple years, guys want to marry the girl next door type because you are true, real and genuine!. It is hard not to compare yourself to other's especially at 16 but my guess is you being a dancer and enjoying things guys do (tomboy) is really going to pay off in the end!. Focus on your hobbies and talents surely you will start feeling more secure especially with time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
you just have to wait for love to approach you, guys aren't serious @ this age, not until they are ready for marriage!. They are also really shy!.
Talk to guys more, start hanging out, things should work out perfectly :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to guys more, start hanging out, things should work out perfectly :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
you are been yourself, don't worry the right bloke will come, try hanging out in different places with your friends and see if you have any luck thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think you are doing anything wrong!. Step out there and just claim the confidence you think you are lacking!. This really works!. Just act like you have it!
Be your real self!. Really, no point in attracting someone with a false self because then you won't truly be compatible with that person!.
You sound fun to me!.
Never compare yourself to others!. Always compare yourself only to yourself so you can measure your own progress in some way (like can you dance better today than you did a month ago!? that kind of thing)
As you get older, it will get so much easier!. You will see!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be your real self!. Really, no point in attracting someone with a false self because then you won't truly be compatible with that person!.
You sound fun to me!.
Never compare yourself to others!. Always compare yourself only to yourself so you can measure your own progress in some way (like can you dance better today than you did a month ago!? that kind of thing)
As you get older, it will get so much easier!. You will see!Www@Answer-Health@Com