Please help... I'm so lost.?!

You just have to stay by his side and assure him that everything will be ok!. As far as the meds, you have to really talk to him when he gets stable and let him know the consequences of not taking them!. I stayed with an ex boyfriend because I thought that it was my fault that he went through the episode when I broke up with him!. He has schizo-effective disorder, not schizophrenia!. People with his disorder doesn't react or take stress very well and they go through the deep depression and so they act in very unusual ways, they are scary and odd but I have never experienced violence except for the time in the ward when he thought someone was saying something about him and the staff wanted to give a shot!. I stayed with him for so long after he got sick when I broke with him!. I wasn't in love with him but I cared for him because he was a wonderful guy!. But I had to let go because I couldn't take care of him anymore!. I had 2 lil boys at that time and I can't take care of a third person!. I took care of his paperwork for his SSI and got approved after being denied twice before when his family applied for him!. I had to let go totally because it hurt me when he gets sad!. He actually went through the schizo disorder 3 times with me, twice, when I tried to break up with him and once when I went overseas for a vacation and he thought I wasn't coming back and I was only gone for 2 weeks!. Anyway, if you love him, stay with him and work things out!. If you are having second thoughts on staying with him, I can't really give you any advice because that is a very personal decision and I wish both of you guys the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Things may be somewhat disorganised, but surely "disaster" is far too strong a term!. See schizophreniform disorders, in section 40, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris

Often it is the unpleasant side effects which deter people from maintaining their medication regime!. The alternative treatment shown may be sufficient, by itself, or can at least reduce the amount of medication required, with its attendant risks, and side effects!.

Get a medicine organiser, and use alarms, reminders, memos, etc!. in your cellular mobile phone, or PDA, to ensure he takes his meds!. Check your email!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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You should consult your fiance's medical team to prevent this from ever happening again!. Its obviously greatly affected you both!

Plus, I feel I have to congratulate you for your compassion and helping your fiance through this! It shows great moral fibre, not to let your relationship fall at the first hurdle, well done!

I'm sorry I haven't been much of a help!. But everything will be made better for you, I'm sure! Good Luck!

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a good pain reliever do the trick!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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hiya hope your ok, yes it is normal for people with schizophrenia to do strange things and move objects around because things are not straight in their mind they see things differently to others so mustard in the living room and hammers in the kitchen may seem perfectly normal to him in this state of mind although it is scary and weird to others watching I know however much you love him It is hard to watch and see him like this and just having a little time away even just a day or two wont mean your shallow or leaving him it is just helping to let you get your head together and straight and give him chance to seek help and advise from the medical team good luck and hope all is ok use counselling as this is a brilliant way to clear things within your mind and may help you understand and cope a little easier all you can do for the best at the moment is take one day at a time good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

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Yes to the odd things! If you're going to be a key part of your fianc

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