Is extreme guilt something you have to live with?!
Question: Is extreme guilt something you have to live with!?
I feel terrible about something that happened to my dog, I felt I was responsible for his leg getting amputated as I neglected another problem and I didnt get a 2nd opinion when my instincts were telling me to and the doctor gave me a wrong diagnosis which led to him getting his leg amputated
I always felt a extreme amount of guilt while I had him, but I recently put him down about 4 weeks ago and it is actually getting worse
Is guilt like this something you have to live with
I know I caused his leg to get amputated based on my neglect of another problems, I even got angry at him at his other problems based on me being a cheap asshole and his pain was disturbing me, and I would sometimes smack him and tell him to stop
Yes I know I am probably getting what I deserve, I know what an asshole I am, I cant believe what I did to that poor dog, I thought I loved him but me being a cheap asshole was my weakness
This is truly worse then death, I always tryed to live a moral life and feared living with things I would regret, my concience was put to the test when my dog had his leg problem and everything in me told me to get a 2nd opinion, but I denied my concience and the Vet amputated his leg and sure enough he gave me a wrong diagnosis
Of course as well I cant get over how I neglected his inital problem and would actually get angry at him an smack him instead of ******* treating it, that I Know absolutley led to his leg getting messed up
Whatever I guess I am getting what I deserve, this is truly a hell and I guess I deserve it, I actually sympathize with serial killers in some way if they finally come to terms with what they have done becuase I imagine the hell they must be living in is a nightmareWww@Answer-Health@Com
I always felt a extreme amount of guilt while I had him, but I recently put him down about 4 weeks ago and it is actually getting worse
Is guilt like this something you have to live with
I know I caused his leg to get amputated based on my neglect of another problems, I even got angry at him at his other problems based on me being a cheap asshole and his pain was disturbing me, and I would sometimes smack him and tell him to stop
Yes I know I am probably getting what I deserve, I know what an asshole I am, I cant believe what I did to that poor dog, I thought I loved him but me being a cheap asshole was my weakness
This is truly worse then death, I always tryed to live a moral life and feared living with things I would regret, my concience was put to the test when my dog had his leg problem and everything in me told me to get a 2nd opinion, but I denied my concience and the Vet amputated his leg and sure enough he gave me a wrong diagnosis
Of course as well I cant get over how I neglected his inital problem and would actually get angry at him an smack him instead of ******* treating it, that I Know absolutley led to his leg getting messed up
Whatever I guess I am getting what I deserve, this is truly a hell and I guess I deserve it, I actually sympathize with serial killers in some way if they finally come to terms with what they have done becuase I imagine the hell they must be living in is a nightmareWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Go to a psychiatrist and talk about it!. It will give you a chance to get it off your chest & release any negative energy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
No!.!.you dont have to feel that way!. You control your own emotions!. Life doesnt have to be a living hell for you!. Find something new to take ur mind off of the dog!. I promise you life will go on but if u stress about it and keep that on ur mind then yes!.!.life will be a living hell for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it just an animal i know some of yall love your pet as a baby but seriodly get over it, it just a freaking pet, you can make them good or bad is up to you, and if you mess up don't feel sorry about it cause you didn't try to get him mess up it just that you miss understand it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
my gawd just tell your self rover is at peace now, he don't have to listen to your ramblings!! i thought you were good looking until you started to speak!. comparing a neglected dog to a serial killer, you need professional help, not strangers opinions off here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no body can judge you except yourself and you are being far to harsh on yourself!. In the end it will be you judging yourself, you need to love yourself again write a letter to your dear dog, He has forgiven you so why can you not forgive yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Life goes on and that was the past !?
you have to live with guilt im afraid
Sorry and poor dog :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
you have to live with guilt im afraid
Sorry and poor dog :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
i know it may seem like you "deserve" it but i mean every body makes mistakes and sometimes money can be a frustrating thing!. im not saying that its a good excuse for why you hit your dog but i dont think you should live in regret!. you did the right thing about putting him down and eventually getting his legged checked out!. thats wut really matters is that you actually did something about it instead of letting him suffer!. all i can say is try to forget about it and next time you get an animal pay more attention to it and dont take your frustration out on it!. its not the dogs fault he got that way so he shouldnt be punished like it was!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Similar thing happened with my cat (son) of thirteen years!. I didn't get him treated and had to abandon him when I moved!. Someone add opted him and I was a wreck for about a week crying, guilt etc!.!. I had to let it go and realize it was my fault but I could not change anything about the situation!. I probably will never own another animal again because of this! If you can't afford or just can't even take good care of yourself at the time in your life you should not own an animal, because they are just like kids and need regular doctors visits!. Life will go on remember the great times you had with your dog and answering this question actually helped me grieve for my buddy Charles the Hemming way cat Www@Answer-Health@Com
ouch!. thats really sad, im sorry!. try taking good care of yer next animals, and relize that you cant dwell on the past!. just rmbr him!. and its hard but you have to kinda move on, but stilll love him & rmbr him!.!.
but seriel killers are mental, and have no consiouns or guilt!. they dont come to term with anything!. thats why they kill cuz they dont care!.
good luck tho =x
im sure your dog forgives you
BUT WHO HITS A DOG!!? like that you should feel guilty about seriously!. thats horrible!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but seriel killers are mental, and have no consiouns or guilt!. they dont come to term with anything!. thats why they kill cuz they dont care!.
good luck tho =x
im sure your dog forgives you
BUT WHO HITS A DOG!!? like that you should feel guilty about seriously!. thats horrible!.Www@Answer-Health@Com