Why do I feel like no one loves me?!


Question: Why do I feel like no one loves me!?
I feel so bad at the moment!.!.!.No one cares!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Sweetheart! Firstly I understand your pain!. You are NOT EVER alone!. Think of the love that you have within your heart!. Everything else is the 'stuff' that has covered it over!. I would suggest a change in diet!. Eat as much raw fresh nutritious foods as you can!. There are many schools of thought on mental illness!. I am not a 'believer' in it as such!. Your spirit needs repairing and your body probably needs gentle touch!. Take this in the form of a healing hawaiian massage/lomi lomi/huna massage!. If you can do this you will feel loved by someone that is a healing source of energy!. Its not the 'answer' to your problems if you grasp at the person who is providing the love for your spirits healing'!.!.!.so stay detached emotionally from the therapist but learn to 'recieve' the love that does exist out there in the world!. In the western world we do the 'give something to someone only to 'get' something back'!. True healing love- you can just recieve it and not worry about returning anything til the time is right!. (This is my own interpretation of ALOHA or unconditional love in a sense!.) This is what you need to tap into or search for!.!.!.don;t stop til you get there!.!.!.!.!.You will know it when you come across its purity!. I have found it in my loved ones!.!.!.!.very pure very beautiful !.!.I am truly grateful to have come across it so early in my life!. Some never find it!. You will!.!.!.but seek it eagerly honey!.!.!.!.thats my advice!.

I have suffered from being sad alot!. It is because of deep deep wounds and having no one understand 'how' I work!. Much abuse in the home from an early age and psychological manipulation from an early age!. Lets just say I 'learned how to play the 'game' for pure survival reasons!. I wouldn't play ever ever ever again but to get away from where I was physically I had to 'learn to master the art of manipulation' I am naturally a fun loving happy go lucky light person who was told so much crap at the beginning of her days that she actually 'fell for their lies!.' My friend even wrote a song about my life to help me heal my wounds,,,,,this was one of the lines in it!. I love you matey!. You are a valued member of the community just as you are sweetheart!. I want you to KNOW THIS!.!!!

Sometimes what can help is a nice warm bath!. You are a sensitive soul!. Most people who are depressed ARE sensitive and they just don;t KNOW they are , nor how to look after themselves!. Work on your self care!. Write down what makes you 'feel' happy in your heart and do more of these things slowly slowly!.!.!.!.your sad heart will become happy!.

There is a childrens book called the 'red tree' by Shaun Tan!.!.!.it addresses deep depression and tells you of the riches you recieve after a rough patch!. Check it out if you dig something that will sweeten and lighten the burden of your soul!.

Stay strong!.!.!.Stay like warrior!. Mate check out Paulo COhelo 'The alchemist' abd also 'Warrior of the light'!.!.!.!.they are light reads and will inspire you out of your seemingly immovable state!.

The other thing about depression is that you have some 'stuck' energy probably at the base of your spine and your heart chakra is closed!. Do some gentle heart opening stretches or go to a restorative yoga classes!. The breath is also important to your state of mind!. Go to a natural surrounding and go for a walk!. Take yourself to a nice place like a beach!. Its good for your energy!. Massage your fingers and your hands and do pressure points!. You will feel better if you do this and improve your diet consistently!.

Remember the world is an AMAZING PLACE!!! YOU ARE LOVED BY SO SO SO SO SO SO MANY!!! Your spirit is SPECIAL!.!.!.and I write to you with my whole hearted energy and love directed specifically towards the person you are on the inside!.

You are insightful honey and you are a loving person despite what you may feel!. I think most depressed people are the MOST LOVING people on our earth!. They feel others pain and half the stuff you're probably feeling is because others have manipulated you to believe that you are certain ways because they do not have the love in their hearts that you have!. In all honesty this is what has happened to me when I get a bit sad!. :) !.!.!.!.!.!.

Everyone says!.!.!.that 'you create your own reality' but I don;t really agree!. If you consider others feelings and have a low self worth and don;t have the strength to speak your truth!.!.!.!.yet!! Then this is a recipe for a sad heart!.!.!.!.!.!.!.work on your inner and outer strength!. x x x x x x x x x x ALOHA!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.LOVE HEALS EVERYTHING!.!.!.!.!.!.but be discerning in your search for the love you are after!.!.!.!.!.so many 'pretend' to have this LOVE but it is not coming from the right source !.!.!.!.so be warned too!.!.!.!.!.

I love you mate and check out my song 'ways of the world' it deals with manipulations of the non sensitive peeps of the world!.!.!.!. www!.myspace!.com/alexikeller

Also let me know if you want to get a copy of my album sent to you cause there is anotherWww@Answer-Health@Com

I can promise you there's plenty of people in your life that love you!. Sometimes you just get down and feel that way for no reason!. Sometimes people don't know how to show their love or they go about it the wrong way!. For example, you know those family members that are always riding you about everything and making you feel like you can't do anything right!? It's not that they don't love you, it's that they love you so much, they want you to succeed and be happy, and get over-involved because of course the only right way is their way, LOL

Some people don't tell you they love you or show affection because they didn't get a lot of affection growing up, and they just don't know what to do, or they feel weird doing it!.

If your feelings of no one caring happen a lot, I urge you to see a doctor!. It's not good for you mentally and even physically to feel like that all the time, and there are a lot of things that can help!. I know there's a terrible stigma attached to antidepressants and/or counseling, but it's worth it to not feel so rotten emotionally!.

By the way- people like me that don't even know you care about you and are concerned about you feeling down!. Hope you feel better soon!Www@Answer-Health@Com

At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die for you!. 2!. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way!. 3!. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you!. 4!. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you!. 5!. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep!. 6!. You mean the world to someone!. 7!. If not for you, someone may not be living!. 8!. You are special and unique!. 9!. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you!. 10!. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it!. 11!. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world!. 12!. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself, probably, sooner or later, you will get it!. 13!. Always remember the compliments you received!. Forget about the rude remarks!. 14!. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are loved!. Even if you are sad at the moment!. We all get depressed from time to time, and feel alone!. I hope you find something to help make you feel better about yourself soon, but until then, reach out to another person (or even a pet), and show them some comfort, caring and love, and it will come back to you twice as much!Www@Answer-Health@Com

love yourself then learn to love others people do care take a step back and think of the people you have in your life that may be busy work etc But would be their if you really needed them I'm sure you will come up with a fewWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey sometimes we all feel like you felt right now!.!.!.
Dude it's impossible if no one cares for you!.!. Think againWww@Answer-Health@Com

You have got meWww@Answer-Health@Com

We've all been there in our life!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.you gotta tuff it out or you'll end up in a depressed state!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Cuz you don't love yourselfWww@Answer-Health@Com





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