Sick thoughts taking me over!!?!


Question: Sick thoughts taking me over!!!?
Please help me!. A few weeks ago i saw a pic of a kid who was like wearing a leotard or something, and it made me feel weird and strange and uncomfortable!. That sort of thing always has!. But i am a DEEPLY paranoid person, so i started thinking oh **** what if i turn into a paedo!? What if i like it!? And it's as if i'm persuading myself to enjoy it!?!!! Like i had a horrible incestuous dream about my brother, and for over a month afterwards i couldn't look at him or anything and i'd gotten into such a state about it thinking it over and over that i'd started to think that i therefore must fancy him and such!.
I have never had sex, a boyfriend, and am 19!. Perhaps i am just sexually frustrated!? Although not for children! I've never thought anything like this before!. I keep dwelling on it day in, day out!. I haven't got a job at the moment and i keep thinking oh god what if i'm ostracized and my family don't want me etc etc etc!. I always think of the worst things!. Please help me!. I've been trying to busy myself with other things, which helped for a bit, but now i'm freaking out again!. Please help :(

P!.S I dont even like kids!!!!!!!!! Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
SEX IS A BASIC HUMAN/ANIMAL PART OF LIFE!. HUMANS AND ANIMALS NEED THIS DRIVE TO PREVENT EXTINCTION!.!. HUMANS HAVE CONSCIENCE AND SUBCONSCIENCE THOUGHTS WHERE AS ANIMALS USE INSTINCT!. SO THAT SAID, SEXUAL THOUGHTS ARE NORMAL!. YOU CAN'T ALWAYS CONTROL THE THOUGHTS BUT YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR ACTIONS!. IF YOU ASKED PEOPLE ABOUT THEIR DREAMS OR FANTASIES (WHICH YOU CAN'T CONSCIENCE LY CHOOSE), YOU WOULD BE SHOCKED!. PEOPLE DON'T OFTEN ADMIT TO THEMSELVES OR TELL OTHERS ABOUT THEIR EMBARRASSING DREAMS OR ODD THOUGHTS!.DON'T BE SO PARANOID ABOUT YOUR FAMILY KNOWING AND REJECTING YOU!. THEY ARE NOT MIND READERS AND AGAIN THIS DOES NOT MAKE YOU A WEIRDO!.IF YOU DWELL ON SOMETHING IT MAKES THE PROBLEM GROW AND GROW AND BECOME ALL CONSUMING!. GET A JOB, READ A GOOD BOOK,WATCH A GOOD MOVIE KEEP YOU AND YOUR MIND BUSY!.I THINK YOUR PROBABLY CURIOUS ABOUT SEX AND ABOUT HAVING A BOYFRIEND!. TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME!. GO OUT WITH FRIENDS!.EVENTUALLY YOU'LL MEET YOUR MR RIGHT AND FALL IN LOVE AND HOPEFULLY SHARE A WONDERFUL LIFE TOGETHER (SEX AND ALL)!. BUT FOR NOW QUIT BEATING YOURSELF UP ABOUT THIS AND CHILL OUT!. DON'T HAVE SEX WITH SOMEBODY JUST TO DO IT!.YOU MAY RELIEVE YOUR SEXUAL FRUSTRATION BUT YOU WILL END UP WITH WORSE PROBLEMS AND GUILT! YOU SOUND LIKE A GREAT GIRL!. BEST WISHESWww@Answer-Health@Com

It does sound like what you need is a boyfriend, or maybe just some sex! When you're as young as 19 you don't need to worry about getting into long term relationships to have sex, as long as you're still careful about who you go to bed with, and careful to protect yourself from diseases/babies!
Go and get laid, you'll feel much better!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just chill out and relax!. Find a boyfriend (or girlfriend, if you swing that way)!. You're probably just needing some attention!. I don't think this makes you a pedo!. Make sure you are eating a good diet (you'd be surprised what eating a terrible diet can do to you mentally)!.
If your feelings start to get too powerful, then go see a counselor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Relax!.
I think you've got OCD!.
It's nothing to worry about!. Just know it's not true!.
I had these thoughts, so many different thoughts, but after time passed trust me, it'll all be better and the picture will come full circle to youWww@Answer-Health@Com

lol!.!.!. im wearing a leotard!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think your a bit sexually confused and taking it way out of proportion, not everybody but some people do have thoughts and dreams just like this including myself!.
I've had sex and i still have and had incestuous dreams about my brother also, dreams about being lesbian with my best friend and then normal sexual dreams!.
I believe since you can't really express these frustrations or possibly even 'experiments', in real life because it's obviously not acceptable so your subconscious releases these frustrations and worries through your dreams and thoughts!.

You know what you like weather it be men or woman (the others are unnatural)!.
If you are still unsure ask yourself could you really see yourself doing that!?
Once you know what you want then these problems shouldn't bother you as much anymore, you can brush them off and stop worrying because you know your sexual preferences!.

Hope this helps,
Chloe =]Www@Answer-Health@Com





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