Am I exaggerating? I need your opinion?!


Question: Am I exaggerating!? I need your opinion!?
Earlier today I did an interview with the local newspaper!. The writer said she wanted to talk about the adoption of my baby, but she asked me questions about sex education in schools and if I thought abstinence should be taught!. She asked about my views on abortion and why I didn't do that!. She wanted to know my story but very briefly and she didn't take notes on the things that I think are most important!. She also wanted to have a photographer come and take my picture!. I didn't want to do it but I figured that if my story helped someone than it was worth it!. But I think she was looking for a young girl that had had sex and had to deal with the consequences!.

Now that I think about it I don't want my picture in the paper, especially since I've gained 20lbs in the last two months! What pregnant woman want's their picture taken and published!? I don't want to be the face of "the teen pregnancy problem" My family is respected in my town!. I know a lot of business owner's and many of the sponsored my when I did the Miss Georgia pageant two years ago!. I want those people to remember me as Miss Georgia Teen, not as pregnant!. I'm not at my best right now!. All my old teachers, classmates, employers, parent's friends, etc!. would all know that I am pregnant and dumped!. I don't see a need to invite judgement!.

Is it wrong for me to I change my mind and not let them take pictures as planned!? Is it ridiculous to tell the writer not to use my real name!? Am I over exaggerating this or am I standing up for myself!? Maybe I'm just not having a strong day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi,
I think you are being very sensible!

The newspaper is only looking to get readers to buy their newspaper-they are not interested in you!

Take control!!

ps They have a habit of writing things in a way that are not complimentary!.
As your family is respected in your town-what would make a greater story for them!

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its never wrong for you to change your mind

if you really dont want your picture then you should call or tell them right now NOT to put your picture in the articleWww@Answer-Health@Com

Of course it's not wronge for you to change you mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Miss Georgia Teen, you are pregnant for a reason!. A reason for the future, not your past!. The reason for your pregnancy, in reality, has nothing to do with your reputation!.

You are pregnant of an important person in your future, more famous than you have ever wished yourself to become!. Your child is one of the key to his generation!. In fact, you have become a surrogate mother so a brilliant human could be born among us!.

The parents who will adopt your child should allow you a visit here and there so your bond is always there!. It is common here, in Seattle, Washington!. The biological parents see their son once a month, even thought the biological parents were never a couple, nor parent to the child!.

Bella, you live in a new world with old fashion traditions that no longer stand!. Sexuality is still a taboo and so are single moms!. You have a right to name the biological father of your child in the article!. You are becoming a voice as you should!. Not for your physical beauty, but now you are a voice for your brain and how smart you are!.

In the Pacific Northwest, we have an epidemic of teenage pregnancies and all of them are single moms!.

The reason you feel you will be judged is because you show them all how irresponsible the father of your child is!. That is the BIGGEST taboo there is!.

If you show men their irresponsibilities, they will crucify you!. If you educate men and show them how powerful a sperm is, they will think twice before they impregnate a woman!.

You say your family is respected in your town, then if so, shouldn't your family be respectful of your choice in giving birth to adoption!. If your family is respected, then your town should respect you, you are part of that respected family's decision to not abort the child!.

Money can attract a lot of respect!. Why is giving birth to a child out of wedlock disrespectful!. Why is giving birth to a child to adoption disrespectful!. Where is the sperm donor, did he ran away when he realized the massive financial responsibility of child support!.

In Washington State, if you don't pay child support, you might end up in Jail!. I have a friend who spent 30 days in jail because he refused to be responsible for his sperms!.

Adoption is the key to avoid abortions because today, many wealthy and educated couples cannot conceive!.
American Adoption is the most tedious and expensive trade in the world because of who we are!. We are from the land of the free therefor we can give birth to humans without religious ties!.

What is your town, pro abortion or pro life !? If you are pro life and you are single, what happens when a man impregnate you out of wedlock!. Why are you the only one responsible here!. He is equally responsible for you pregnancy!.

Miss Georgia, instead of having the reporter write the article according to the reporter's agenda, submit my answer to you to the editor to your local newspaper as a " Letter to the Editor "!.

Btw, you gaining weight is nourishing your child!. This pregnancy of yours is about your child!. It is no longer about Miss Georgia!.

The Power Is In You to contact your sponsors of Miss Georgia Pageant and have them sponsor you again, this time as an aware campaign that sperms can make a girl pregnant!.

Billions of girls around the world give birth to a child out of wedlock!. Ever wondered why so many girls get kill in India !.!.!.

Truth hurts!. Let them talk about you as an advocate, not as a bullied victim!. If you decide to have the article published from your interview, beware!. I was interviewed before and what came out of the article was complete misunderstanding from the journalist!. Once it was published, I had no control of the impact in my town, where I am well known!. This reporter who interviewed you will indeed distort your story!.

Your story is not about you being from a well to do family, this story is not about you shaming your family, your story is about you giving your child to Adoption because the father of the child refused to take responsibility for his own sperms!.

Can your town adopt your story instead of crucifying the fact that you had a child before being wed!. Why isn't the father of the child crucified as well!. Why are you the only one carrying the cross!.
How come your parents never told you that sperms make babies !?


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